I had been best friend with this guy named Jared for a good year now,He lives in a different state from me. then all of sudden he takes me, my girlfriend and my room mate off of his MySpace friends list. I begin to think OK that is strange so I called him many many times, unfortunately he only had his friends answer the phone for him, who I might say were all pricks to me. He block me from his AIM. So one day finally get talk to him and he say he does not want be my friend anymore because he do not believe in ghosts. ( It is s omething I am very interested in) He say I am insane for believe in ghost and that he believe ghost can only be seen after death, and that I should not believe they be seen otherwise. So I tell him why should we not be friends because of ghosts? I call again and again he not talk to me one bit. Even on my birthday last week he refuse to speak to me. What should I do?
2006-12-18 03:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He does't sound like a very good friend to me. If you believe in ghosts and he doesn't, so what? There is no rule that says every single friend of yours has to have the same beliefs as you. It sounds to me that after he moved, he changed. He's being very rude to you, and you deserve to be treated WAY better than that. I think you should try and talk to him and explain to him that you don't want to loose him as a friend and if he's still rude to you, then you should find new and better friends.
2006-12-18 04:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know what makes her happy if that friend of yours is happy with that new girl then let them be and find another friend not all the time you can always be together with her forever because she is the only bestfriend that can make you happy (maybe)... There are still another friend that can make you happy if you make another friend... And you can stop caring about her if you're alreay tired of her but if you really care about her then don't give up... Well maybe you can't understand what I'm saying because its hard to explain or to say...I'm just trying to give you a hint...
2016-05-23 04:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a ridiculous reason for him to stop being your friend. Does he not care for your feelings? He seems to be acting closed-minded. I hope for his sake that he will wake up and realise what he's doing to you. I find his behaviour completely unacceptable. You may have to move on. It's hard to think about it, but that may be the best, if he's going to be like that. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-12-18 04:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Enceladus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to stop being your friend over something that dumb then forget him. You deserve a better friend and he lost a good one so just leave him be. He'll realize he lost a good friend when all the other ones leave him so just let it go and know that youll find better.
2006-12-18 04:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let h im be he aint worth your time. if he is going to be a prick about it then his lost. i believe in ghosts and im alone in my friends group but we have been friends since 5th grade. friend should look on personalities (as with bf.gf relationshipss) not what thier believes are. but dnt waste your breath on that guy he dsnt need you if he calls you dnt answer it or read his email. (if he send you ne)
2006-12-18 04:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Apparently, you weirded him out. He doesn't have the same beliefs and values that you have.
Sounds like you're stalking this guy. That would weird me out!
He has made it clear that he does not want your friendship. Time to let go.
2006-12-18 04:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever you do, don't talk to him. he sounds like a right **** (or at least like he's acting like one). he doesn't deserve for you to make the effort. if he wants to ditch you so cruelly then that's his loss. ignore him and act like you don't know him. if he says hi, say hi, but don't choose to talk to him. you'll make other friends, and you also have your girlfriend, so forget about him. Good luck!
2006-12-18 04:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but he sounds like hes moved on.......................hes got new friends and realised maybe he was only hanging out with u because u were there....not ur not about hes realisesd u didnt have that much in common
sorry its sounds harsh....but thats just what i think
2006-12-18 04:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to contact him. But don't allow him to hurt your feelings, We often get new friends whom turn us away from our old friends and then we have to crawl back to the old friends because ther new aren't ****!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 04:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Shinika A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was truly your friend, he would accept your beliefs. You accept his, right? So, I mean... you shouldn't change your beliefs because of someone else.
2006-12-18 04:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋