Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

my frd lives his lyf in a planned way .so i wana present him sumthin which he can use in his daily lyf, sumthing unique.

2006-12-18 03:51:36 · 5 answers · asked by sukriti kaul 1 in Friends

I flirted with this girl and we met 2 days ago. We both admit that we were both physically attracted to each other. The chemistry was high. I'm not desperate to call but want to leave a little hint that she is still on my mind. So I was thinking of texting her this message below:

"can't stop thinking about how sexy you looked in the silky brown shirt the other day."

Is that too explicit? Too sexual? Is it casual?

Any advice?

2006-12-18 03:51:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WILL HE FORGIVE me?I have love promblem PLZ HELP ME !!!!!? ok now my boyfriend and I have just broken up ,because Last night at a nine night I met my friends cousin and he was intrested in me. i told him i had a boyfriend and we danced and stuff because i was drunk.i gave him my number and he said he was tried so he asked me if he could lay on my leg and i said yes and thats about it.i told my boyfriend because i believe we should have a honest relationship ,and well he dumped me after we got back togethter the same night. i forgave him for trying to get back with his ex while with me. HE IS SUCH A (PLEASE INSCERT NAME IN HERE) WHEN U ANSWER THE QUESTION . I MAKE ONE MISTAKE AND HE HAS DONE ME SO BADLY.

2006-12-18 03:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I answer lots of question on this site, and in this category, am constantly amazed at the messes people's lives are in because they chose a mate inappropriate to their wishes. Is anyone in a school district where " Marriage, family and parenthood" is a classroom topic???
1. How can we get more schools to offer such a class?
2. Would you have been helped by such a class? Would you have married someone other than your spouse had you had some training????

2006-12-18 03:50:25 · 10 answers · asked by April 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How can you spend a lot of time in a neighbourhood where not a lot of people live (houses, something like The Desperate Housewives scene only much smaller), where people aren't really out in the street, have most of the time closed windows, you rarely see anybody outside, I don't know what the hell this people do...anyway, they spot you immediately if you're in the neighbourhood, the thing is I am in love with some guy and he lives there but he doesn't know me, he has a dog so maybe I could do something about that...? Anyway, the whole goal is keeping it low ('cause I don't want to be like noticed lurking or considered a stalker), just trying to make that 'casual' moment where two people bump into eachother...u know what I mean?

2006-12-18 03:49:49 · 2 answers · asked by Mariella Williams 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and i have been with my b/f for just over 2 years. We have recently bought a house together which wouldn't have been possible without him saving his money since the age of 18. (he's 23 now). The problem is that when we first met he cheated on me with his ex. They had been together for 3 years and his excuse for it was that he didn't see "us" becoming serious and he wanted to give his ex another shot. Obviously it didn't work out because a week later he was back and we have been mostly happy since. But i don't feel like i trust him anymore. I said that i would see what happens and hope that i could trust him again but everytime he goes out by himself i keep worrying that it will happen again. I don't want to be so jealous or ruin his life because of it - what should i do? Is this ever going to stop or will he have to put up with me being jealous as a punishment for cheating on me? I actually feel that if i did it to him we would be even and this will all stop? what do you think?

2006-12-18 03:49:33 · 10 answers · asked by shazza86_uk55 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OMG I can't freakin stand people! I went shopping over this weekend and bought a shirt...an expensive shirt that I really wanted...then I come to school Monday and every1 is mad because this popular preppy girl that is so conceded and stuck up her own butt has the same one...they r all throwing fits and saying "omg I HATE when ppl go and buy the same clothes as me"...why can't they just drop it!??! wat should i do? i dont talk to any of them and they are all the type of ppl that are nicce to ur face, but mean and talk about u behind ur back...I CANT STAND THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-18 03:49:14 · 32 answers · asked by ƪ♥ᴀᴀᴙᴓɳ 3 in Friends

you know how you always get deja vu or however u spell it?? well i believe that u have small dreams all the time everynight..and deja vu is wen u actually live that small dream...moments that happen that u already feel like happened i believe u dreamed at one time...i also believe that eventually all yur dreams will either come true or present a message or clue to yur life..any one agree?? wats yur thoughts on dreams deja vu and day dreaming?? i think its all weird!!!

2006-12-18 03:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 03:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by andrea b 1 in Family

2006-12-18 03:48:42 · 8 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The instant he walked in the door, I knew. I didn't really believe in "soul mates" back then, but I knew when I saw him that it was true for me at least. when I got up the guts to ask someone he knew if he was single, they told me he was getting married. he is a ministers son and his girlfriend got pregnate, and they married quickly. 5 years later, I still feel as strongly, if not MORE for him and he obviously feels the same.( I know this deep down) I would never ever tempt him into cheating,he wouldn't ever try it, we both have strong morals. I have things happen that seem to scream out at me that he is the one,strange things that aren't coincidences. Heis miserable,and their son is in pre-k and his wife doesnt work and stays on the computer all day, he works 70 hours a week. I am the type of person that will like someone for 2 weeks and stop. The fact that he is married isnt what attracted me.Shoudl I wait? I dont want anyone else, but I don't want to be the reason for his divorce.

2006-12-18 03:48:10 · 12 answers · asked by gwinna24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last weekend we argued and he went out, I tried contacting him but no reply fri night, sat morning or sat afternoon. I went out and bumped into a famous rugby player who I had mt a few weeks ago. (A friend of mine gave him my number and he texted me as he was going to give me some rugby tickets). Nothing at all happened between us, and he knew I had a boyfriend. On Sat when I went out, I bumped into him again, and got chatting to him, again nothing happened, but I did enjoy the flattery and innocent flirting, esspecially since I was feeling so upset at the time. Me and my friend left the club and went home together. A week later the rugby player text me saying "Maybe I got the wrong end of the stick, but do u want to go out one night?" Unfortunatly my boyfriend saw it and has finished with me. I feel so frustrated as he seems so adamant and extreemly angry. I have told him nothing has happened, but he doesnt believe me. I know he really loves me, what should I do?

2006-12-18 03:47:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just break up with my boyfriend. how can i survive in this christmas.

2006-12-18 03:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by sapae khine n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i hav a gf ...wat should i give her ...or tell her...dat makes her feel SPECIAL....n she is special....she's the sweetiest girl on this planet alive.....

2006-12-18 03:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by Smarty 2 in Singles & Dating

I moved here with my husband four years ago. We have been married 9 years. He moved out after becoming involved with another woman. We have three kids 2,5 and 8.
I wantto start a new life but it is hard because 1) this is his hometown. Mine is 1200 miles away. 2) He moved out but only three blocks away. 3) He is active in the community so I have to see his name in the newspaper all of the time 4) I soon realized that all of my friends are his friends or their wives and they seem to have no problem with his infidelity and moving out ( they have him and the girlfriend over for dinner, etc.) Any suggestions on how to get a new life. He moved out 8 months ago. About two months ago it seemed that we were getting back tgether but suddenly he pulled away again. He won't file for divorce. I don't because one of my children is disabled and so far I am still listed as his beneficiary and I would need the in

2006-12-18 03:47:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 03:46:54 · 29 answers · asked by SNAP! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this girl at the beginning of the year, and we quickly became friends and stuff. i started to like her, and was excited when she broke up with her bf. I really like her now, and i think maybe she likes me. we were at her best friend's birthday party, and watching a chick flick late at night. she got tired and laid her head down in my lap. and she seemed disappointed when i said I had to go home. she calls me almost every day just to talk, and we have long talks about deep things like religion, philosophy, love, hate, and our friends. I like her, but how do i know if she likes me?

2006-12-18 03:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by YeahImAzn 2 in Singles & Dating

I've just started university, and my boyfriend and I have been together for about a month now. There is a girl on his course that lives in a house nearby and is in our social group - I'm not very close to her but he is. She's a nice girl except that she's very touchy feely to all of the guys in our group. It doesn't bother me that she does it to any of the other guys but why does she have to do it to my boyfriend?!?! I end up getting jealous and annoyed and take it out on him when I know this is definately not the thing to do...
What can I do? Should I confront her, even though it seems extreme to do so? Should I ask my boyfriend to tell her to stop touching her? Or should I just accept but possibly go mad from anger...

2006-12-18 03:46:05 · 22 answers · asked by abc123abc 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been in love with my ex wife since the day i met her (head over heals) no matter what she does (crazy). we have been divorced for a while and we are talking again and other things (im glad).
but the guy that just dumped her after 7 months (errogant) must have had a huge penis because she has changed physically (vagina is much bigger). its not as enjoyable for me or her when we have sex (penetration) the oral is great and i always make her ***. i have an average size penis and im totaly ok with that. but im not sure that i am enough for her now. everything else is good but im worried she might never be satisfied again and therefore spend the rest of our lives looking for that satisfaction. in fact i think she will always be looking, with or without me.
she avoids the conversation, thats why i think this is the case.
heck, i almost cant even feel her. im willing to do anything to satisfy her - toys, surgery, ect...
by the way, we divorced after she had multiple affairs...

2006-12-18 03:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by been there done that.. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it right that woman vicars can perform such a religous occasion?

2006-12-18 03:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we used to study in the same school but she quit after a year. but this few days she keeps calling me to watch movie, eat, chat and all those things. i like her but i dun knoe whether she has the same feeling, should i ask her?

2006-12-18 03:45:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ideas for somethin kinky? romantic? I do have some time restrictions with 2 young ones, kinda sux I prefer sex midday.

2006-12-18 03:45:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why like eveytime when i go chruch this girl she looks at me or i look at her sometimes. we look in are eyes for long. but noone dont smile. but what it mean. lasttime when i go to chruch she look at me i look that i look somewhere else fast. and she was whit her firends she the oldy one who did it. what does this mean.

2006-12-18 03:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 03:42:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She went off and married him six months ago. I found out later. He is wealthy, old, and quite ill. Now she is calling me to say she loves me and wants me back. I have told her to get lost. Do you agree with me.

2006-12-18 03:42:54 · 40 answers · asked by David S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he just met my parents over the weekend. we have been going out for about 11 months. i had dreams of him and me getting married once i finished school and have kids, and be happy. u see he is the only one that can make my heart happy, he completes me in every way. he is 32 and i am 20. he has two kids. I really love him with all my heart, il do anything to save this relationship. when he told me about the mariage thing he said he would never do that b/c he had done that with his exwife and it didnt work, and then he told me that i first have to live with him for about 3 or 4 years and then maybe get married. he believes that he is ruinning me by him giving me hopes in life and since he has lost hope on me its not going to work. he lives his life day by day until one day one or the other will give up on the relationship, he tells me over and over that he loves me with all his heart and i dont know if to believe him or not, please help i need peoples advice im very heartbroken.........

2006-12-18 03:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has bought the wedding ring for our wedding in August, but I really like it on my finger and I want to wear it now. Is it bad luck........................... I might get another wedding ring to wear for the wedding, or I might not.

2006-12-18 03:42:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

like every guy i no looks at porn it can be on t.v are books but why look at it when you have a girl in the nexts room???????? do you guys get off what.Like my boyfriend does that and it kind does makes me feel like im not good

2006-12-18 03:41:15 · 16 answers · asked by blue-butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy for almost 1 year we went out for 1 month but then we broke up.things just didnt work out. he went back with his ex and was going to get marrid.things with them didnt work out and he started talking to me agine after that. he tells me loves me and i love him .e just found out his ex is pregnant with his baby and he has changes so much with me. he got mad at me and we havent talked for 1 wekk. i dont know but i feel like he is in love with her and only used me . should i still talk to him or just give up on that

2006-12-18 03:41:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girLfriend's good friend is having her debut. this is the debut with aLL that fancy crap, gowns and what not..part of the program is a cotillion. Of course, she was assigned to a partner..and it's not me. The reason for this is because we're in a LDR (i'm in Canada and she's in the PhiLippines). i don't know who her partner is, she doesn't know either. i don't know how to feeL and what to do. she can't back out because her friend is answering for the cost of the gown. she hasn't even given me the honor of dancing with her..right now i just feeL mad and hurt..i threatened her that if she puLLs thru with this i won't be going home for her own debut (w/c is feb. 4). shouLd i feeL this way? Ladies, what wouLd you expect your guy to feeL? heLp pLease..

2006-12-18 03:40:17 · 14 answers · asked by jzawingedpasserby 1 in Singles & Dating