like every guy i no looks at porn it can be on t.v are books but why look at it when you have a girl in the nexts room???????? do you guys get off what.Like my boyfriend does that and it kind does makes me feel like im not good
2006-12-18 03:41:15 · 16 answers · asked by blue-butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because there Men! You could be naked in the next room then he might knowtice and come overthere but when ur done dosent mean he's not gonna look at it ever again! always will because they have that thing between there legs that they like to think with instead of there brain! Maybe there the ones trying to learn new techniques but my bf looks at it all the time and dosent get better lol still the same but dosent make me feel like im not good because i know that im more of a real woman than the porn chick and i know my boyfriend wants me and not the chick from porn or what she's doing they just look cuz there men and men like to see naked chicks no matter if its you or just some dumb chick with big boobs or if he just had sex with you. Guys like naked chicks lol dosent mean your not good you could be god in bed and anymoney says he still looks at porn just to look at naked chicks! lol Sad But True! Men.....
2006-12-18 03:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only one that feels as though they not adequate.Men have such dearranged sex minds.Someone in their past has caused by what said or done to them.They must have too much time on their hands,& also their egos are the problem.They want to be the best to please what they have,but really don't know if they are the best.They like to look as we do but in a diff way. Think others know more on how to get the best org. possible.from who they have in the bedroom waiting. We are wondering what is in their heads because we have other ideas on & it is more on the communicating that will please them more,but they don't know how to talk to us .We might hurt their egos if told some things not want to hear. No expert in any way but 64yrs and married 42 to same man.6 to the first husband.The more they watch the more addicted they get about it.If they had some goals in life with some ambition this porn would not be but an occasional thing.Tell him to get a Life!! Get a lot of answers first ,then may be able to talk to him with some other views you may need to use. Same BOAT & hope it stays Afloat.
2006-12-18 04:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by 2b4.fun 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl my husband did the same sh*t! It would make me feel uncomfortable. I asked him to get rid of the porn, and he did but it came right back. It seemed that he loved the porn more than he loved me. If a man is truly satisfied with his significant other they do not need the mags, dvds, internet porn, etc. Have a talk with your mind and tell him how you feel! Be truthful with him! Maybe you two can come to some term.
2006-12-18 03:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
From what i understand from lots of researching this issue, It can become an addiction just as alcohol or drugs, (often combined) it escalates to extremes in porn,,, online expecially.
desires stimulated by near nude wemon, continues to need more nudity, to poiointt of bizzare, what once they felt was discusting, is now the NORM.
maybe your guy isnt to this point, but beware of changes. In the last 22 months, I have only been included into his intimate activities one time. Once the guy becomes accustomed to his own hand , w/porn. It is not worth the effort to involve your partner, since there body will respond only to their own touch
eventually you get left out.. and they at least in my relationship, he has no reguards for my feelings, totally refuses to even discuss the issue.
BE careful! GOOD LUCK
2006-12-18 04:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys need porn to help them fantasize and get ideas. If it bugs you that your boyfriend watches it with you in the room tell him. Most likely, it doesnt mean that youre not good it's just that he likes to pretend as if it was you two in that passionates situation. If you want to find out if he really likes it, Try watching one with him and try to reenact it at a random time. he'll surely be surprised!!!
2006-12-18 03:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's possible that he's uncomfortable with asking you to do the things he sees in the porn. Perhaps you can talk with him about the adventurous things you want to do with him...it's likely he'll forget all about the porn!
2006-12-18 03:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Gals want a man to be attached only to them. Guys will accept being attached for most things but still think about and get turned on by naked pictures of other girls.
2006-12-18 04:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by gigantic_zebra_on_buffet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're really getting it wrong. We like to do it better each time we're with our gurls. I don't think it's wrong to pick 1 or 2 ideas here and there in porns and so forth. Cheers!
2006-12-18 03:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Porn never says, "Not now Honey, I have a headache."
Discuss it with him, offer to watch with him. You will learn more about his fantasies and maybe learn more about yourself.
2006-12-18 03:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by rilindy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They get addicted to the untouchable, your boyfriend needs therapy. Let him know that. You ARE a good person.
2006-12-18 03:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋