ive been in love with my ex wife since the day i met her (head over heals) no matter what she does (crazy). we have been divorced for a while and we are talking again and other things (im glad).
but the guy that just dumped her after 7 months (errogant) must have had a huge penis because she has changed physically (vagina is much bigger). its not as enjoyable for me or her when we have sex (penetration) the oral is great and i always make her ***. i have an average size penis and im totaly ok with that. but im not sure that i am enough for her now. everything else is good but im worried she might never be satisfied again and therefore spend the rest of our lives looking for that satisfaction. in fact i think she will always be looking, with or without me.
she avoids the conversation, thats why i think this is the case.
heck, i almost cant even feel her. im willing to do anything to satisfy her - toys, surgery, ect...
by the way, we divorced after she had multiple affairs...
2006-12-18 03:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by been there done that.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow. You must be a glutton for punishment. Just because you love her doesn't mean that you have to be a doormat. You know that she will continue to cheat on you and you still want a relationship with her? Wow, just WOW!
Just get out the toys, surgery should only be used if your penis is broken or malfunctioning. Encourage her to do vaginal strengthening exercises, it will help.
2006-12-18 03:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your relationship with your ex wife mainly physical or do you enjoy each others time when you're not in bed. I personally believe in order for a marriage to work it needs to be more than physical attraction. Sex is good but it won't keep you together. If you were to go a week without sex with her, could you stand her company? If the answer is no, then I think you are in lust with your ex wife and need to move on. If yes, then I think you need to try to get her to talk about the situation and what the two of you can do together to make the sex more enjoyable. I do fear that if you cannot talk about the problem a solution will never be found and you both will be miserable. Hope this helps! Good luck to you both.
2006-12-18 03:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is all in your head. She hasn't birthed a child to account for any measurable change. A vagina isn't made of jello, silly. Get a grip yourself! Or just ask her (while your inside her) to squeeze 'it.' Be sexy or you'll insult her just telling her about those kegal exercises outside the bedroom. Does she do them?
2006-12-18 03:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I really don't know what to tell you..she might need to try some kegle(I may have spell that wrong) exercises. There are things that can help her decrease in size, or you could try different angles in your "love making".
2006-12-18 03:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
provide her and her kin time to calm down,Be your self and want that for the time of time if she has any emotions for you,they'll pop out and issues only could artwork on your prefer Love takes time for some human beings so wait and spot and time will tell.good success My chum....
2016-12-18 15:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the toys. Maybe she's into fisting. But as far as your relationship with her, be cautious, she apparently has no problem going out and about.
2006-12-18 03:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have low self esteem or you wouldn't keep going to her just to have her hurt you again and again!
2006-12-18 05:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever dude ............move on and lose the ex for real !
2006-12-18 04:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋