Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

I am 24 years old and married my husband who is 38 years old.When we met i was interning for a job in PR.Now i am just a house wife of 4 years with little or nothing to do most of the time because there is a maid who will clean and cook if asked. My husband takes good care of me giving me whater ever i want i drive a nice car BMW and nothing is really off limits on what i can buy if i want it.I feel like i am in a cage i have tried to voice my feelings to my husband but it falls on death ears he thinks that i am being dramatic or childish. I told him i was lonley and he bought me a dog.I try my best to please him i am 5 ft 7 and 115 pounds so i keep fit ,always make sure to be dressed nice, and i make an effort to well made up for him at all times.I try to be romantic some evenings, talk to him,take care of him, arrange to go out, but nothing works.We have sex 3 to 4 days out of the week usually 3 rounds but he still has cheated on me.I feel so hurt by this .

2006-12-13 09:35:42 · 27 answers · asked by Cally M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a single 65 man!

2006-12-13 09:35:22 · 3 answers · asked by mr.hoyt 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't intend to do this. it has just proved me right and my friends wrong. thankyou.

2006-12-13 09:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by valy_baby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently broke up with my long-term partner (it was my decision and it had been coming for a while). He has since gone back to his ex-girlfriend before me within a matter of weeks. I don't want him back but am very angry that he did this. Why would he do this? Also, he doesn't know that I know, so do u think I should tell him? He wants to stay friends, and I would have liked to, as he is like my bestfriend, but this makes it a bit weird...

2006-12-13 09:35:10 · 17 answers · asked by Danru 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i recently told this guy i liked how i felt abt him & he told me that he would have said yes but that he's not searching for a relationship right now.we ended up talkin for more than an hour afterwards abt a lot of stuff,life in general(it was the best conversation i ever had with him)& he left with a "hey,at least we can be friends right?" to which i agreed obviously.

after that night,he never comes online & i have a suspicion that he has blocked me on msn cos my friend told me that his nickname was "are you the now or never kind?" when i had the bon jovi song lyrics "it's now or never" as my nickname.

he talks to me when i see him in person sometimes,but it's only me who has to initiate the conversation though his best friend told me that this guy thinks abt me & that "things may happen in the future".he has been very distant even from his best friends.

how do I handle this situation?does he need more time or is this a lost case?

thanks a lot guys...

2006-12-13 09:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love is a biggg thing, but when someone you love treats you like crap everyday, should a person just wait for them to change or should you just leave them and find someone better (even though you love them so much).

2006-12-13 09:34:35 · 18 answers · asked by KAILYNN 1 in Singles & Dating

okay my friend (we'll call him MJ) and his friend (we'll call him CRS) told me today that they smoke. CRS said that he only smokes cigerettes and MJ said that he's smoked Mary Jane because it made him feel happy. i don't why CRS smokes cigerettes. anyway. now i'm confused as to whether or not i should talk with MJ, because my parents always told me that if any of my friends did any sort of drugs that i shoudn't be their friend anymore. now, MJ is a really good friend of mine and i don't want to stop being friends, but i'm not sure if i would be able to talk to him anymore knowing that he does Mary Jane. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

2006-12-13 09:34:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-13 09:34:24 · 17 answers · asked by Mardesal 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24yrs old and my boyfriend of 8 wonderful years is 46yrs old. I'd love to meet other women who have a long term relationship with an older man. Maybe be penpals?
I just think I'd have more in common with another woman my age who obviously is more mature then expected to be. Take care and Happy Holidays all!

2006-12-13 09:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to commute to a college when I transfer next semester. It's only a half hours drive and I want to live at home. I love my family and I don't like the idea of living on a campus because I hate the party scene, drugs, alchol, sex etc. It's a christain college, however I've heard they can have just as much a party scene as regular schools.

However, my mom disagrees and won't let me commute, demanding I live on campus. She acts like she wants me to drop out of college and get a job. (most people say she's jealous about me going to college...) I'm making good grades and everything and we've always had a good relationship. How can I convice her to let me commute? (Before this she said I would be allowed to)

2006-12-13 09:33:51 · 4 answers · asked by Erika F 2 in Family

A male co-worker of mine talks to me sometimes about his relationship with his wife (only when he becomes frustrated). I only listens to him for I try to stay out of people marital problems. Last week, he came to me about an issue that left me a little stunned. His wife does not get along with any of his family. She talks negatively about them to him. His wife's family is coming to their home for Christmas which was o.k with him. Last week he told his wife that his family will be coming to their home for Christmas also because they are in another state and want to spend time with him. Well his wife response was "oh no, well I am only cooking for my family. I don't know what your family is going to eat". He is at the end of his rope. In a situation like this, what would you tell your spouse of significant other who behaved this way towards your family.

2006-12-13 09:33:44 · 4 answers · asked by Shay 4 in Family

2006-12-13 09:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you just tell them write on

2006-12-13 09:33:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started studying for a final with a mutual friend- we both know a guy who has spent more time with her than me and is obviously interested in her, but now she pretty much just buys weed off of him. Anyway, I happened to be in his dorm room when she was buying, and when she came in the door she didn't say hi to me or even look at me. When I said hi, she held out her hand as if she was meeting me for the first time. But she's more than happy to keep studying with me tonight. I didn't really help her at all when we first studied, and she wanted to talk to me, but whenever I see her around our mutual friend she acts very hesistant with me.

2006-12-13 09:33:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Might sound naive but...while up north (during the summer) with my friend, we met some guys and they asked us how old we were and we told them then they were like so when do you turn 16. I don't know maybe they were jsut asking because they were 16?but isn't there a law that you can't have sex until you're 16? Or am I just making that up? I think they were asking to see if we would be 16 by next summer or something..I'm not sure. If you could just explain that would be great :]

2006-12-13 09:32:55 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 09:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you decided to move in with your partner, what were the hardest adjustments to make, or things you had to do?
What were some things you expected from your significant other?

2006-12-13 09:31:43 · 3 answers · asked by a h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

TOO many people judge people are bipolar and I want serious answers.....I don't know when to bring it up and how to...at what time in the relationshiP!?

2006-12-13 09:31:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help with what i should get my girlfriend for Christmas im 15 shes 14 and we are in love

2006-12-13 09:31:00 · 1 answers · asked by sdavid5523 3 in Singles & Dating

Just making fun of a few young people!

2006-12-13 09:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by Honest Injun 4 in Singles & Dating

all of you " Good Boys & Good Girls " would like for Christmas.?? He also wants to know who has been naughty and who has been
nice .... Ho Ho Ho .... Merry Christmas to all & Happy Holidays to
everyone .... Peace ....

2006-12-13 09:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 09:29:11 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For woman only please:

If a guy were to get you a ring, kneckless or bracelet, what would you prefer? Why?

2006-12-13 09:28:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 09:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by woodsonhannon53 6 in Singles & Dating

Please help???
--confused

2006-12-13 09:28:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He usually will not go anywere i want to go,if he does its a huge deal.I asked him to go to my work Christmas party and he said no.
His work is having a party too,but he dont want to go to that either,and he didnt ask me if i wanted to go.He doesn't even want me to go to my party without him.He acts like he is afraid to be around people.Help!!!! Im sick of his attitude.

2006-12-13 09:27:50 · 1 answers · asked by Heather r 2 in Singles & Dating

when you are in the act, try to reach around and stick their finger in your butt? I know the prostate is up there, but seriously? Do they not care that you poop out of there? C'mon ladies, what gives?

2006-12-13 09:27:38 · 45 answers · asked by Dark Helmet 2 in Singles & Dating

business associates and other people we all know? The affair ended, no contact between them for months, but she was very pissed off and thought he was "the one".

2006-12-13 09:27:35 · 20 answers · asked by Indievoter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

after last night she sent me a message saying that I dont love her at all, I do its just I didn't ring her because I didn't have credit on my phone but I will tonight, in one way I am scared to ring her tonight but the otherside of me says that I have too. I just dont know how to say that I love her when she has said this crap to me......I really want some help people as this is important and if I was to loose her and considering I have other issues right now I just dont know whether it would be worth carrying on anymore, I know my parents would be better off without me, and if she dont love me then I know she would be too but I dont want to think that, its just I really do need some help/advice and I need it NOW PLEASE

guys and girls dont give bullshit answers as I feel unloved right now :(

thanks

2006-12-13 09:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandad was albert while.he died from the effect of mustard gas in 1922 my dad was harry while and had a older brother james while .I have cousins Jimmy&Ian while and cousin june and last but least my sister Brenda









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2006-12-13 09:27:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends