love is a biggg thing, but when someone you love treats you like crap everyday, should a person just wait for them to change or should you just leave them and find someone better (even though you love them so much).
2006-12-13 09:34:35 · 18 answers · asked by KAILYNN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to be with someone that makes you feel like crap? That is not love. Love yourself first then you won't think it is love when someone you are attracted to treats you like crap.
2006-12-13 09:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love with some one who treats you badly isn't a good sign from the start. Why would you enjoy that kind of person ? Why would you want to be with that kind of person? No one deserves to be treated like crap !!!! Give yourself a chance.. DO NOT SETTLE ! Move on and see the good thats out there.. If your so much in love with someone who treats you badly then just imagine how you would feel with a guy who treated you wonderful......
2006-12-13 09:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lavender 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your being abused, Most abusers will choose this avenue because it is least likely to raise suspicion. Let me see if i am close ok? if i am not then disregard please. when you first got together he treated you very well? then as things turned to crap in his life, he began to filter it down to you? he will say or do something that will upset you, then he will apologize for it? the next thing out of his mouth will be an apology but with the excuse that what you did caused him to do or say what he did to upset you? Before long he will be telling you what not to wear and then what you must wear. he will then ( in some cases ) have YOU walking around on eggshells all the time, to ensure that you " behave". In extreme cases you cannot do anything right and may even get beaten. If any of the above is true to your situation then Get your self outta his clutches before it is two kids and ten years down the line. It goes deeper than this but you get the idea? GOOD LUCK! get out of there quick
2006-12-13 09:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the woman must believe that the man can, or is able, to change. For some, this hatefulness is a natural way of acting and he won't change. Secondly, she has to have felt him GIVE love to her, not D&CK. If she knows that experience and knows that it exsists within him, she needs to ask him where did it go and does it plan on coming back anytime soon. She should then leave his love a note and let it know that she doesn't have plans to wait too much longer.
2006-12-13 09:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a 2-way thing! It can't work any other way. You know that in order for you to TRULY love anybody, you must first learn to love yourself. Allowing someone to make you feel like crap is NOT loving yourself!
2006-12-13 09:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him, right? Do you treat him like crap? Why should he have the right to do so? If you love someone, you respect and cherish them. Tell him to change right away or you'll leave. Love him, but don't fool yourself. No one deserves that.
2006-12-13 09:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Miss T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a stupid thing to ask.
Dont EVER get into a relationship where you have expectations of changing any one! whether its a friend or boy friend, you will ALWAYS end up hurting yourself and they will remain the same... it is a total waist of time.
** Learn to LOVE YOURSELF before you go and try to LOVE OTHERS
2006-12-13 09:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. It's only love on your end, and the chances of change are incredibly low. Dump his a-ss, and soon. You deserve better than this.
2006-12-13 10:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how he makes you feel and leave. If he comes back and can prove himself to you for more then a month then consider taking him back. If he gets mad and defensive then leave for good and never look back.
2006-12-13 09:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. the guy should make the girl happy every day, not feel like crap.. i don't think anyone deserves a guy that makes her feel like crap
2006-12-13 09:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by mindi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋