just study buddies, not friends?

Question

I started studying for a final with a mutual friend- we both know a guy who has spent more time with her than me and is obviously interested in her, but now she pretty much just buys weed off of him. Anyway, I happened to be in his dorm room when she was buying, and when she came in the door she didn't say hi to me or even look at me. When I said hi, she held out her hand as if she was meeting me for the first time. But she's more than happy to keep studying with me tonight. I didn't really help her at all when we first studied, and she wanted to talk to me, but whenever I see her around our mutual friend she acts very hesistant with me.

Answer 1

She's definitely not friend material. Sticking out her hand as in just meeting you? I don't care if she was buying crack and got embarrased that you saw it....That's a brush-off if I've ever seen one. Keep up the study and don't bother reaching out for anything more. Of course, the weed does tend to mess with one's memory, so try not to partake with her while studying...it won't help either of you remember a darn thing you were trying to study. You'll just giggle and eat a lot. Good luck in school!