after last night she sent me a message saying that I dont love her at all, I do its just I didn't ring her because I didn't have credit on my phone but I will tonight, in one way I am scared to ring her tonight but the otherside of me says that I have too. I just dont know how to say that I love her when she has said this crap to me......I really want some help people as this is important and if I was to loose her and considering I have other issues right now I just dont know whether it would be worth carrying on anymore, I know my parents would be better off without me, and if she dont love me then I know she would be too but I dont want to think that, its just I really do need some help/advice and I need it NOW PLEASE
guys and girls dont give bullshit answers as I feel unloved right now :(
thanks
2006-12-13 09:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 18 and she's 17
2006-12-13 09:38:13 · update #1
ring her tonight and tell her you love her and you are sorry about not being able to ring her last night but tell her your situation if you love her and care for her the way you say you do then she should understand that and you need her write her poem to tell her your feelings or a song you don't have to be a expert just say what is from your heart and your parents are never better off with out no matter what you do or have done they love you!!!!
2006-12-13 09:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude, 1. she aint very supportive if she gives you that kind of crap when it is obvious you don't have time on your phone.
2. are you sure your family is better off without you? if one of my kids died, i would live for the other one, but if they both died, i would cash it in. they ARE the CENTER of my UNIVERSE.
3. level with her and tell her that now is not the time to be yankin ur chain. you are already on the edge. either she wants you or she don't. if you need attention, then her demanding attention instead of giving it to u aint gonna work.
4. years and years of experience have taught me that tomorrow is always a different day worth experiencing.
2006-12-13 17:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight up and apologize about not being able to call her last night. Get her a present or something. An unexpected surprise!
2006-12-13 17:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says you don't love her because you didn't call her last night?! IF this is a long distance relationship, break up now - they never work out. If you're 12, break up now - its not worth the drama. If you're an adult you musut be seeing a 12 year old, break up now - its illegal.
2006-12-13 17:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by kisme86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to love yourself, call her up and see if you can meet her somewhere, tell her how you really feel. and just tell her that you love her, but you have to get rid of that negative attitude that you have. and don't ever say your parents would be better without you, because they won't they love you very much. I hope that you start thinking of yourself who is worth every penny .start thinking positve. and this is no bs answer,
2006-12-13 17:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry u no the fone thing well thats just what girls do when we like someone and are trying to figure out if they really like us back. We think to ourselves well if they dont call back/ text us back/ ect ect then they dont rly love us but the truth is we 4get to think that maybe they have run out of credit. Just tell her how you feel and if it doesnt work out its her loss.
2006-12-13 17:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time and show her
how you feel. Call her and ask
her to meet you somewhere.
Talk it out, show her and tell her
what's going on inside. The simplest things
can be the solutions to the biggest things
2006-12-13 17:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER SUGAR COATED WORDS
2006-12-13 17:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋