Why won't my boyfriend go to my Christmas party with me?

Question

He usually will not go anywere i want to go,if he does its a huge deal.I asked him to go to my work Christmas party and he said no.
His work is having a party too,but he dont want to go to that either,and he didnt ask me if i wanted to go.He doesn't even want me to go to my party without him.He acts like he is afraid to be around people.Help!!!! Im sick of his attitude.

Answer 1

Lots of guys don't like parties. It's a guy thing. Go stand around some place for hours and do nothing with strangers....does not sound like a fun time.

And work parties are the worst. Sure you can have fun with all your co workers....he gets to see a room of strangers. And worse, they are all strangers you know. If he says or does anything, he knows they will tell you.

This may not be the guy for you...