Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

some girl at my college wont leave me alone.....i dont like to be mean to people so i just play it off......but i hate it, she like...stalks me....shes okay looking, but still, it freaks me out dude!!!

2006-12-12 12:42:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are both tryin very hard to make our marriage work,i relize he is sorry and that he made the wrong choice when he was drinking,but i keep seeing these images of him with the other woman,and i hate it as he is doing every thing possibe to show how much he loves me,how can i learn to move on.

2006-12-12 12:42:08 · 13 answers · asked by Bubbles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you found out your crush actually had a crush on you and what would u do if he gave you his number?

2006-12-12 12:42:07 · 5 answers · asked by WunscWHSe 1 in Singles & Dating

The glow not being a physical glow, but the first time you met him/her you could feel this glow of positive vibes all around them.

2006-12-12 12:42:04 · 11 answers · asked by That Guy! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

with someone u barely no what are some topic ideas to talk about nuthing corney please no weather haha

2006-12-12 12:40:28 · 3 answers · asked by thatCHICK 2 in Singles & Dating

what is one of the most embarrasing things you've ever done.

You may be wondering why I'm asking this?:
because i've just been caught 'white handed', masturbating when my mum, dad, brother, sister and the bank manager just walked in the door. so embarrassed! im downstairs in the rennovated basement of the computer trying to steer clear now. they didnt say much when they came in and i just went downstairs as red as a goose!

2006-12-12 12:39:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

french

2006-12-12 12:39:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've done something really sick, i should have just wiped my hands on my jeans or my cheeks and used it as cologne

2006-12-12 12:39:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Back in my teen ager years you knew who was sleeping around or pretended to. Me? I was a virgin till i got to be a senior. I dont know if the girls were really sleeping around or just saying they did this guy or the other. But I married the one who I slept with a year after high school. Just wondered if times have changed . Do you know?

2006-12-12 12:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I check my boyfriends t-mobile account online to see who he's calling and when..when I see a strange number I call to see if its not a girl.
I ask him question a lot..and if he changes details in the same answer..i think he's lying and I dig and dig until I find out the truth.
I don't let him go to the house of his drug addict cousins because i hate them and don't trust them.
I always want to go eat and eat at the restaurant he works to see hoe he interacts with his co workers (girls)
and I do lots of things worse...
Am I way too jealous?

2006-12-12 12:38:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 12:37:23 · 16 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Singles & Dating

And everyone says that not ALL guys are @ssholes, then where the hell can a decent honest girl find a guy who will find her as sexy as the whores on pornos, trust in her and show it, and still love her enough so that she can TELL? It seems to me that if they haven't done anything to hurt a woman, they've still got a prejudiced attitude against them. Why should we give them the benefit of a million doubts when they can't give us any?

2006-12-12 12:37:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 12:36:22 · 24 answers · asked by robert l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to get him anything computer or video game related. He already has tons. He isn't into any sports. He does like renaisance and knights.

2006-12-12 12:36:21 · 7 answers · asked by LoriAnne 1 in Family

Everytime i meet a guy i always put up a wall. I never let them get close emotionally. I cant seem to open my heart up to someone. Is not that i dont want to i just seem to do it everytime. Whats wrong with me?? i want to feel that love but i dont let myself feel it?? How can i give myself a chance to love?? Help??

2006-12-12 12:35:35 · 9 answers · asked by nunez510 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been in contact with a guy for 1 1/2 month and I've only gone out with him for 3 dates now... The 3rd date we ended up making out and holding hands like real couples. Now, I just found out that he posted in his web journal saying I'm just a friend. I'm totally confused. Does that mean he doesn't see me as a potential girlfriend? He says that he enjoys spending time with me and wants to see me again. Would it be okay for me to casually ask him point blank what his intentions are? I don't want to get my hopes up and waste my time with this guy.

2006-12-12 12:35:32 · 5 answers · asked by mitchchan 5 in Singles & Dating

ok time bends to suit the purposeso you could fly to the moon and back in this one day if you wanted,lol..you can be anyone...do anything...have superpowers or just go for a stroll on the beach...let your imagination run ...have fun...;0).

2006-12-12 12:35:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime someone talks to me i get really red and embarrased in some way.. i dont know how to start up a conversation with girls.. if anyone talks to me usually i just shake my head.. a few girls talked to me but i felty like i was aboput to cry lol.. im having a real tough time making friends so i sit by myself at lunch.. every night before i goto bed i think "ima be myself tomorrow ima talk!" it never works out and at the end of the day im really dissapointed :(

2006-12-12 12:35:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has been accused of battering, and even though he was never arrested or been to a trial, there is a restraining order and a court order that he has to go to batterers classes. In essence, he is guilty because she says so and he has to prove himself innocent. In the meantime he is forbidden to see his daughter which is ripping him apart. The mom was more committed to her career than her family, therefore, the dad/daughter realtionship is major with him. He was the major factor in her life. He took her to swimming classes, took her shopping, made breakfast with her, made sure her homework was done, etc. What recourse does he have? What steps can he take to overcome this mountain of trouble that has been created for him?

2006-12-12 12:35:09 · 12 answers · asked by NavyBrat 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so they're not in-laws yet, but they might as well be. I really don't know what to get my boyfriend's parents for Christmas. I wouldn't worry about it so much, but I know they're getting me something, so I'll feel like a heel if I don't return the favor. The hard part is, I know nothing about them! He works various random jobs, and she's a housewife...well, except she doesn't really cook or clean. I was thinking a picture frame or candle for her, but what do you get for a 45-year old man you know nothing about?! (I've asked my boyfriend for tips, but he's really not much help.) Any ideas would be wonderful!

2006-12-12 12:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by just an opinion 5 in Family

So, I'm getting a 3-stone diamond engagement ring that, face-up, will look something like this: http://www.jewelryexpert.com/catalog/graphics/Radiant-Promise-Diamond-Ring-1.gif

I looked on the web and saw some similar rings that I liked. In particular, I liked the small "hidden diamonds" that are on the sides of the rings, here
http://www.jewelryexpert.com/catalog/graphics/Radiant-Promise-Diamond-Ring-11.gif

and here
http://www.jewelryexpert.com/catalog/graphics/Golden-Radiance-Diamond-Ring-11.gif

The question is this: are those small side diamonds "too much" with a 3 stone ring already? I think they're kind of nice, but 5 stones might be over kill... on the other hand they are kind of unique.

Thoughts?

2006-12-12 12:33:57 · 25 answers · asked by rd211 3 in Weddings

My bf of 2 years seems to be very thoughtless. He has been busy for the past 2 weeks writing finals for university. We don't live together but he's been spending almost every night at my place studying - but that all he does. I don't bother him, I just do my chores and housework. I've even been cooking meals for him and asking for nothing in return. He just wrote his last final today so I was finally looking forward to spending some "quality" time together and maybe getting intimate, which is something we haven't done in awhile. He calls me tonight & informs me he is going out to relax with his friends, watch a game and have some drinks. Normally that is not a problem for me as I am quite aware that I am not his mother, but honestly, that's not the way I believe you should treat someone who has just stood by you to help you prepare and get through your finals and in turn you choose to "celebrate" with your friends instead of your girlfriend. Am I being irrational?

2006-12-12 12:33:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well I have been married 6 years & I love my hubby alot but he has kinda cheated on my again. see he joined this adult dating website and was chatting with several girls and he went as far as sending pic back and forth with them( they never met). The bigggest problem I had with it was that I was 8 months pregnant and he was totally disgusted by me.( I only gained 20 lbs so I wasnt fat). well I just cought him doing it again......I dont know what to do. We only have sex once a week (thats all he wants but I want more)but here he is looking at porn online and chatting with other women. why dose he do this? what should I do?

2006-12-12 12:32:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

an intimate make out session with another guy (not my boyfriend) ?

I hope you all can be honest and open-minded with me. I have a boyfriend and plan not to leave him. However, we get way too comfortable with each other and that there is very little excitement in out relationship. Another guy is someone I know. I am very physically attracted to him. Last week I've made out with him just for a very short time, but I got freaked out. Now' I've been obsessed over this idea--and I mean I have thought a lot about it. He is just someone I know and that every time I see him, this is all I think about. I haven't thought about sex yet, only making out.

Should I?

2006-12-12 12:32:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 12:32:21 · 14 answers · asked by bluecatdaytona 1 in Weddings

i have been in a relationship for about 6 months now and i am ready to break up with my boyfreind because the relationship is no longer the same we go to diffrent schools which make it even more difficult to be together for me and there is no way possible my mother will accept him but i dont know how to break it to him because latley he has been saying things like i love you sooo much and i never want to lose you can any one help me with my situation?


i have commitment issuses that i have come to terms with ( do not need any ones preaching) and coming in to this relationship he knew about this and many of my other problems

2006-12-12 12:32:20 · 3 answers · asked by demolitionlover71 2 in Singles & Dating

k I had this boy friend he cheated 3 times and i just want to know if any other guy out there would do the same

2006-12-12 12:31:36 · 4 answers · asked by hate_know_love 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 12:31:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Reality punctured with holes
She tells me to breathe
That nothing is
and nothing is make-belief
Off my tongue words tumble
Without thought
A somersault
Until she is not
anything that is possible
For once not getting caught
In candy-stripped chaos
Of lustful lips
I am real, I maintain
I flap and feel
And rain and reveal
failing to contain myself
I hunger and break
For someone else’s breathe
Awakens to take
and lay me to rest here
at my celebrated death
things I cannot
A careful hand
and strand of hair
For one moment in time
Gives reason to care
Before it tears and drops
With tears you can’t stop
Never knowing concrete
On only bustling streets
And shuffling feet
We will never meet
in reality


how can you offer home
to a stranger unknown
with no map to find
the peaks of the mind
and valleys of the heart
where do you start
to glow and ascend
will purity transcend
when reality invades
and innocence fades
depression is a season
she can see no reason
to keep connection
in this human collection
and so we intellectualize
feelings that are not wise
can a gift stay alive
can a dream still thrive
on the end of this vine
nothing to be mine
but only to for once see
unrestrained eyes free

2006-12-12 12:30:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 12:30:52 · 11 answers · asked by Indievoter 2 in Marriage & Divorce