I check my boyfriends t-mobile account online to see who he's calling and when..when I see a strange number I call to see if its not a girl.
I ask him question a lot..and if he changes details in the same answer..i think he's lying and I dig and dig until I find out the truth.
I don't let him go to the house of his drug addict cousins because i hate them and don't trust them.
I always want to go eat and eat at the restaurant he works to see hoe he interacts with his co workers (girls)
and I do lots of things worse...
Am I way too jealous?
2006-12-12 12:38:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been together for 4 yrs.
2006-12-12 12:44:17 · update #1
Hey I understand completely what your saying! I act and do excalty the same thing that you do. Has your bf ever gave you a reason to do act like this and treat him like that? probally so.. About a month or so i sall numbers on my girlfriends cell phone and i called them and they were all guys. It pissed me off really bad because she lied to me about it. and yeah she had 2 friends (Sisters) but they were the ones that was getting her hooked up with these guys.. so i made her quit going over there.. and finnaly me and her got better... but honestly in my oppinion i dont think your being way to jealous or anything!!!
2006-12-12 12:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are Jealous!!! You need to stop that destructive behavior before your boyfriend gets fed up. What is making you act this way? Do you treat all your boyfriends this way or just him? Did he give you a reason to suspect him or are you just assuming he's going to cheat on you. What you have to understand is that You can not babysit him all day, you have to trust him or leave him. Being a super detective is a lot of work and not being trusted and having some1 invade your personal space is the worst. So for the sake of both of you please stop this behavior! If it's something from your past then you need to deal with it b/c it's not fair to your boyfriend. If it's because of something he did-like cheat on you-then you need to come to terms with it and forgive him or leave him.
2006-12-12 12:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, your present female friend would possibly or won't have a factor. Consider this: how might you think in case your present female friend used to be spending a while with an ex boyfriend? Even for those who might believe it's ok she does no longer, and aspect of loving a man or woman is considering the fact that what makes them think uncomfortable and doing the reverse. Changing and doing matters that yet another man or woman likes does no longer always imply that you're replacing who you're; it simply implies that you're taking yet another humans emotions, likes, or dislikes under consideration. (Normally whilst in a courting equivalent to this, that is the case) My recommendation: Limit your touch together with your ex female friend. Your ex female friend is to your beyond and your present female friend is your reward. Am no longer pronouncing or suggesting you will have to push aside your ex female friend altogether however your ex will have to be handled the equal method you might deal with yet another man buddy. (it will have to strictly simply be friendship from afar; given the historical past you men have with one yet another.) Hope matters figure out, and I desire this recommendation helped.
2016-09-03 13:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer...is YES!
The long answer..you are not his warden, if he wants to be with you, then he will be with you..You cannot stop something from happening, and by all this snooping, you are going to make it happen..that is called a self full-filling prophesy. Ease up on the guy....Of course he will lie, because you make him feel that he has too.
2006-12-12 12:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are waaaayyy too jealous and possessive. You will drive him away if you keep this up. Learn how to trust him and give him some space. Isn't this behavior and mentality stressing you out?
2006-12-12 12:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by chiapet159 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Relationships are built on trust and if you don't trust him then the relationship will never grow. You need to gain some trust in your man or stay single and worry free.
2006-12-12 12:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yea listen if you trust him then you shouldnt have to do all of that yes there are those few times where you might have to do a tad bit of undercover work but you make it sound like he has all these phone numbers in his pockets and stuff. if you dont trust him then why are you with him
2006-12-12 12:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. I've heard of more jealous people, but you sound more jealous than I could handle. Good night!
2006-12-12 12:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...way too jealous!
2006-12-12 12:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yes
2006-12-12 12:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋