Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

What could I get my girlfriend for christmas, i am clueless. she is 18 and we have been going out for over a year.

2006-12-12 12:16:08 · 18 answers · asked by ANTHONY G 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you consider cybersex as cheating? Or just a fantasy world?

2006-12-12 12:16:08 · 37 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

Why is it my guy friends who think i'm hot, want to have sex with me?? My friend heard them and their friends talking about who'd they'd like to sleep with and my friends listed me.
Why do guys always want to be more than friends or friends with benefits instead of just friends with a girl??
Why am I on the top of their list?? I am just a petite gymnast, not some supermodel.

Is this normal for guys to do??

2006-12-12 12:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy who I like who has recently gotten back with his ex. He is in my art class. He calls me flirty names and tells me my project is better than his. He also got me my painting today. This was a new one - he wanted to get a girls attention to ask for the paint and he called he my name. I was on his mind I guess! I don't know what to do because this has been going on for a while and I really like him but he has a girl friend. I see them in the hall and it appears that he isn't that into her. What should I do?

2006-12-12 12:13:54 · 13 answers · asked by Bella 3 in Singles & Dating

While dating and being married to my husband, I have had an on and off "semi" crush on this guy. I find him attractive and he has many of the same characteristics as my husband. Lately, I have been having sexual dreams about him and have been thinking about him frequently but in a NON sexual way. He is a part of a church group I go to so I just can't avoid him. I wouldn't want to either. He's a great guy and a good friend. I wish I could stop dreaming about him and finding him attractive.

I would never act out on my dreams and I am very careful to guard my mind from impure thoughts when I am conscious. I am 22 and a newlywed of just over 6 months. I love my husband and would NEVER cheat on him physically or emotionally. My husband is very attractive and we have a satisfying sex life so I don't know what the problem is.

Am I overreacting?
Is there anyting I can do to stop the dreams or attraction?

These dreams and feelings are confusing and I feel guilty about them.

2006-12-12 12:13:19 · 14 answers · asked by Ann Ducketts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been promising me an engagement ring for about six months now and still nothing. Everytime i bring it up he says he needs more time and more time. So finally i told him the other day that I was fed up with that response and wasn't going to take this engagement thing seriously. this really hurt his feelings. was i wrong to have said that?

2006-12-12 12:13:02 · 26 answers · asked by Jaymi C 1 in Weddings

2006-12-12 12:12:50 · 23 answers · asked by Veronica M 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, i like my best friends sister. Actually, she asked me out today and i told her i would get back with her. I really have strong feelings for her, and my friend said he doesnt care. So, i mean i like her and she likes me, whats the problem?? Well, shes 13, goin on 14 and i am 17. I know that is a big age difference but is it too much?? I always thought she was too young but now my feelings have changed cause i really have gotten to know her and like her. I know they say love knows no age and i really think i love her but is it wrong? What should i tell her? HELP!!!!

2006-12-12 12:12:25 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF is so confident that he is never wrong, and sadly he usually is right or atleast he can BS well enough that I can't prove him wrong. But today I caught him makng a mistake after hours of telling me he was right and I was wrong. As a result I get to be the "boss" for the day next Saturday and he has to do anything and everything I tell him as long as it does not result in permenant injury of course.

So please give me some ideas, I need the help. And remember this is supposed to be a little fun. Just remember he is my BF not my enemy but a little embarrassment would be fun. ;)

2006-12-12 12:12:06 · 15 answers · asked by No N 2 in Singles & Dating

i was sitting in the car and my mom started talking and then she talked alot about this guy i liked (i think i got red)

2006-12-12 12:11:40 · 5 answers · asked by talia y 1 in Singles & Dating

Why did you like it. Make absolutly sure that this is a real wedding song an example of what type of songs i'm looking for is kelly clarkson's before your love song. I'm not getting married or anything like that this is my homework i just need to songs whats a good second song?

2006-12-12 12:11:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-12 12:10:59 · 40 answers · asked by Linda Lou 3 in Singles & Dating

If anyone on here has a younger brother you'd know how incredable annoying they are.Well i just happen to have one of these annoying,little bratty (I mean kind and loving, LOL)brothers.I need help here he's driving me mad(AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH) Pease if anyone has an idea to get him back please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tell me.
Help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-12 12:10:51 · 10 answers · asked by dudet_blue 2 in Family

lastsunday when i want church this girl look at me like 10 secs then i look at her for like 10 secs. then after when iabout to hug her shes plays whit her hair and move her leg onto the left. and when chruch was over she looks me for like 20 secs.

2006-12-12 12:10:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 12:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

in whatever sense?...;0)

2006-12-12 12:10:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have msn and this huy i call my big bro keeps lying to me. I have been realising but i caught him out last night. I don't wan't want to loose him cos i sorta like him. But i just don't like the lying. He never use to lie to me until he got his new gf, wat can i do??

2006-12-12 12:09:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i told him he was cute. and he said yeah thank you he said everbody thinks that but he said he isnt as cute as brian. and brian is his friend that i dated for a couple weeks, but then brian told me we couldent be friend so me and his friend vic have been talking. is he asking me if i think he is cute

2006-12-12 12:08:59 · 19 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years now. He loves me dearly, would do anything for me, and would give up any and everything for me. He is a really good guy. I can't say anything bad about him. He has a good future ahead of him... and he has already told me that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. There is one problem: my boyfriend is not the same ethnicity as I am and my mother refuses to meet him because of this (after three years). We have been dating three years now and this has always been our biggest problem. I love him so much and I dont want to give him up but my mom refuses to meet him and I am scared to death that my mom wont come to my wedding day if we were ever to get married. The rest of my family and friends have met him and they all like him a lot. He cherishes me and I can truly see myself with him raising a family, but I cant get my mom to meet him. I have fought with her about it hundreds of times and I dont know what to do... please help!!!

2006-12-12 12:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by krazypoetic 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my husband and i are in a HUGE fight about this. He does not like my parents due to the fact that he hit me and they found out and said something to him. They also helped me get out of his house and get my own place. He went to counseling so we are trying to make things work (its not going so well) anyway.... I wanted to take the kids to my mom's to open presents on christmas eve. He will be working anyway so its not like we're leaving him home alone. He said that his son is not allowed at their house and if I take them he or someone else will "kick their door in" He says that if my mom and dad want to give them presents I have to pick them up and bring them to our house.

I totally disagree. I feel like my parents have just as much right to see our son as his do. I cant help it if his mom lives out of state. I also think it is rude and disrespectful to go pick up the presents they got our kids and rob them of the joy of seeing gifts opened.

what would you do?

2006-12-12 12:08:08 · 17 answers · asked by Miranda 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in 7th hes in 8th i like him alot hes much taller than me in fact hes the tallest guy in 7th & 8th grade i see him 5 times a day as im walking to class but only once has he looked at me how do i get him to notice me and how do i get him to like me

2006-12-12 12:07:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It feels like the world is stopped, for some reason it feels depressing after?

2006-12-12 12:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do guys really get all "hyped-up" when they see a girl they like and think is "hot"?? My guy friend says yes, but what do you think??
Why is it my guy friends who think i'm hot, want to have sex with me?? My friend heard them and their friends talking about who'd they'd like to sleep with and my friends listed me.

2006-12-12 12:06:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this question....or something kinda like it........I like this guy who's 2 years older than me (i'm in 7th do the math) and i was babysitting 4 his neighbors over the summer and they were playing capture the flag at his house and he told me to go into his brother's(who's my age) room......people said it's cause he wanted sex but i was hoping for more people's opinions.

2006-12-12 12:05:22 · 3 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been lying to me about small (but dishonesty is NOT small to me) things for two years. Now he can't get it up when we have sex, and well...I'm not exactly chopped liver. Do you think he's cheating, or maybe he just doesn't love me? He has been begging me not to leave. I just can't deal with this secrets and lies anymore. He's taken away my trust - and now sex?? Please help.

2006-12-12 12:05:10 · 8 answers · asked by heartbroken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 12:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by black barbie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hes kinda of a jerk but hot and flirty uhh i dont know what to do?

2006-12-12 12:05:05 · 16 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to hear ur story!

2006-12-12 12:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by Jesse James 2 in Friends

Do you have any belief in this? And, how long are you supposed to wait for something to happen. Sometimes people think that if two people are supposed to be together, that, eventually, they'll be together. Me, I only waited about 3 years, but I know other people who have waited longer...and still, what they want to happen still hasn't happened.

Then, when "if it's meant to be, it'll be" doesn't happen...I think they settle for second-best. I have always thought that one day everyone eventually finds their perfect match, but what if that perfect match doesn't see how perfect you are together? Is there only ONE perfect match for every ONE person? What if you find a wonderful, amazing person...a great match....but he/she is taken (happily taken)? What is a person to do? Do you think this would be the only chance for romantic happiness?

2006-12-12 12:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

But I can't figure out how to start it out. Once I get it started out, its easy for me... Can you help me come up with a beginning? Here are some things about her: She has blue eyes, black hair, beautiful smile and she can be pretty funny, and can cheer me up whenever

2006-12-12 12:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating