Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

i have had 2 possible relationships with guys, but never a bf.
both possibles was where we both liked each other, but he never asked me out. they both suggestes movies and such, but have never acted on it. they would soon (within 3 or so weeks of the signs of them liking me) decide they don't like me anymore.

they just stop liking me randomly. and i dont remember anything that happened between the two events that would change their minds.

do most guys do this? is it something i could have done? is it something i should have done but didnt do?

ive never had a bf, so idk how the whole steps to become a gf thing works. if an experienced teen could make a timeline or soemthing, they would recieve best anwer or a thumbs up or something.

2006-12-12 12:03:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I met online, and last friday, he asked me if we could go exclusive. I agreed, and now we have been introducing each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. My question is, should I confront him about his still going online to his dating profile? I just checked it and he's been active recently. I deleted my profile over a month ago. What do you think I should do? We've only been dating for a month and a half, but him still going on this dating site really bothers me. Any suggestions?

2006-12-12 12:03:37 · 15 answers · asked by KT 2 in Singles & Dating

does she like me or not????????????????????????

2006-12-12 12:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by leonardo alc 1 in Singles & Dating

make out?

2006-12-12 12:03:04 · 6 answers · asked by sexii 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 12:02:47 · 4 answers · asked by damon lover 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this girl, who is a pychologist and has been married 3 times, who is living with a man who she knows doesn't love her but wants to believe he does. She has caught him many times with the girl he loves. He needs her to help him pay for his rent. but just wants a platonic relationship. She will not allow him to see this girl that he loves and holds it over his head so that he is needy for her help. What do you think?

2006-12-12 12:02:20 · 5 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and we have been together for about 1 and 1/2 months he tells me all the time how pretty i am and hot and great personality and that he was ready for sex... and he told me that if i wasent ready that he would wait. but i am, AND im not. i need help to make a decision. you can e-mail me at sugarcraze09@yahoo.com thank you.

2006-12-12 12:01:49 · 19 answers · asked by LiveItUp09 2 in Singles & Dating

I know first base is kissing. what's next?

2006-12-12 12:01:02 · 7 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm addicted. She is a good friend of mine, and I loved her as a friend. (until this time last year, I fell in love) I met her 3 years ago and I've felt a strong bond with her. Last November, I asked her out. She said no. I tried again this past summer, she said no. She's amazing and I want to marry her. I still hang out with her and we talk often. Her boyfriend abuses her and cheats on her.. all around *** hole... He's dumped her before to date some other girl, but she convinced him to go back out with her. Do some girls just love to be abused?

2006-12-12 12:00:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy in my english class that i like and i think he likes me too we talked on the internet for 6 hours the other day and he leaves me random comments on my myspace telling me to get my papers done. we have talked a little after class and we meet after school one day to work on one of my english papers but we ended up just talking almost the whole time. Does he like me? Shoud i tell him I like him? should i wait a little longer? help me what do i do

2006-12-12 12:00:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to meet someone online and them be a totally cool guy and actually become mroe than friends even if you are a ways apart, but not too far? I hear from people it is and others its not.

2006-12-12 12:00:40 · 2 answers · asked by dontcry2me 2 in Friends

2006-12-12 12:00:29 · 3 answers · asked by wild child 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to break this habit but i really dont know how.once i get the guy that i have had my eye on, i all of the sudden cant help but notice all of his flaws and he loses all apeal.
: ( help.

2006-12-12 12:00:02 · 9 answers · asked by summer girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty much already in debt, am in between jobs and live at home. Next year, I'm looking to make a career change, as well.

Life at home has been getting quite stressful. My parent has a pretty strong personality, and due to my upbringing about respecting your elders, etc.. I take a lot of guff.. and now, inside my head, it's getting to a near boiling point...which is not good.

Thus, I figure, to save my relationship as a son, as well as to live on my own, which I definitely crave, I'm considering taking out a large cash advance on my credit card...and remember, I am already in debt... I'm wondering if this will be worth it.. now, I don't have any other places to 'crash' at, like friends' houses or those of extended family members'.

Should I take the financial hit (I'm sure I'll land work and probably find a second job, too) in the short-term, but pay it off gradually so I can make this move? Living at home has definitely affected my eteem as a man, as well..

2006-12-12 11:59:50 · 1 answers · asked by StantheMan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

..do they get a rush of adrenaline or feel themselves blushing, because that's how I feel when I see him walking by instantly.

2006-12-12 11:59:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom picked me up 3 hours late 2day from school with no phone call or heads up. And I'm stilll mad at her for not appoligising, but I need her help with homework. And it's hard to concentrate when I feel so upset.

2006-12-12 11:59:16 · 19 answers · asked by geminiblonde123 3 in Friends

people want to talk to each other...tell others about themselves...show an interest in other peoples lives...as sites like this prove,lol...when i go to the pub sometimes i am struck by the amount of people that just sit looking at their phone...or texting...etc...and on the trains...laptops...phones...papers...at home...tv...pc...people dont seem to chat so much anymore...has technology killed conversation...maybe you think it has helped it...what do you think???

2006-12-12 11:59:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 11:58:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been talking to this guy for about a wk. I meet him when i was getting my tatoo. he calls daily when we first met , he does take me out to the movies and coffe shops. but i dont know if he likes me. he has a kid and is stressing over visitation right . he says he likes me and he wants to continue seeimg me. the first week we hung out and then after the date he didnt call like 4 days. he says its cuz he knows im in school and he didnt want to bother me cuz im a science major. now he calls every day, or texts me. but he is really stressed out cuz of the kid.? do u think he likes me and he just busy or is he just running drag?

2006-12-12 11:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl the other day and she gave me her cellphone number. She noticed that i entered it in my cellphone the wrong way by accident. She made a point to correct me so that i would have her correct number. I mentioned this resturaunt to her, and she was like maybe we can go there. So far so good. I call her only a few days later and leave a voice message for her to call me when she can. This was on Saturday, and now it's Tuesday, and she still has not returned my call. BTW... i did leave her my phone number. Should i wait until thursday, and if i don't hear from her by then give one more call? Do you think she blew me off, or could she be thinking about if she still wants to go out with me or not? I don't want to seem too desperate, so how is the best way to handle this? Thanks!!

2006-12-12 11:57:48 · 24 answers · asked by Sebastian 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad is always mean.Tonight he wouldn't wash a pan for my mom oand i tried to help by washing it,and he yelled at me! The he always takes his anger out on me.i don't know why.do your parents do that?he's always mad because we don't clean.my mom just had carpul tunnel surgery so she can't do the dishes,he gets mad.i forgot to put up my cloths,he gets mad.my brother always goes,"aaaaaaak"at my dad when he tells him to do somthing.he pops hims.i left the wagon in which i brought the groceries in on the porch,he gets mad.Why?Why is he like this?

2006-12-12 11:57:35 · 3 answers · asked by Aubrey Animal Goddess :-) 2 in Family

So I'm working at an animal hospital I'm prevet and there's this guy that works there to who's prevet and goes to my school too. we work together a couple of days a week. He's a pretty nice guy and I kind of like him, but I can't figure out if he likes me or if he's just a nice guy.
We talk and have good conversations. It seems like he finds away to be next to me ( stand next to me), talk to me, help me out, smile at me etc. So things were going like this until 2 days ago when I wasn't feeling very chatty so I didn't say much to anyone, but he seemed upset about it and sort of ignored me today. So what you think. Likes me? Or am I over thining this?

2006-12-12 11:57:22 · 1 answers · asked by Nicki F 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 11:57:12 · 9 answers · asked by borednow333 1 in Singles & Dating

Like...Is it just me or does the quality of question spiral downward once school get's out?
I mean like theres this girl...and like well she looks at me and stuff.
Like...What should I do???
Were we all this clueless at that age or are kids getting slower on the uptake?

2006-12-12 11:56:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that why I got mad at him because He hurt me so mad that why we mad each other!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-12 11:56:33 · 5 answers · asked by Tricia P 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 11:56:07 · 5 answers · asked by lololololololololol 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont just blabber on and on, i listen too, but yes, i talk a lot. and yes, i'm (maybe too much) bright and cheery and i like making new friends..... would some people see me as annoying?

2006-12-12 11:55:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife used to love wearing lingerie, stockings and high heels but now finds if I ever mention it it becomes a taboo subject and she refuses to discuss it ?

We love each other but this matter is non-negotiable

2006-12-12 11:55:25 · 14 answers · asked by raythecat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, my friends boyfriend and her started goin out about a month ago. We all have lunch together and during lunch everytime i look over at him hes staring at me. It seems like hes always tryin to get close to me and i'm always like whoaa and i like move away. Well today in the lunch like he started like gettin all close in my face and hugging me and i was like umm and i like walked away. Its really wierd what do u guys think I should do?? He only does this when hes girlfriends not around?? thanks so much guys

2006-12-12 11:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by whereHAVEallTHEcowboysGONE 2 in Singles & Dating

me entirely. I think about her all the time I want to have sex with her. I found out where she lives and I try to see her in her house sometimes, but she doesn't know. When I see her I get this rush that absolutely makes my brain stop and I just cant handle it I have to touch her. Is something wrong with me.

2006-12-12 11:54:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating