My boyfriend and I met online, and last friday, he asked me if we could go exclusive. I agreed, and now we have been introducing each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. My question is, should I confront him about his still going online to his dating profile? I just checked it and he's been active recently. I deleted my profile over a month ago. What do you think I should do? We've only been dating for a month and a half, but him still going on this dating site really bothers me. Any suggestions?
2006-12-12 12:03:37 · 15 answers · asked by KT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, that would bother me a bit too. Especially considering he was the one who suggested that you go exclusive. I would talk to him about it and ask him why he still goes to that profile and see what his reasons are. I think you have a right to be a little bent over this and something should be said.
2006-12-12 12:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to him. You two have met you like one another and you have been dating for a month there is no reason for him to continue to go on the site. If you guys break up then yeah but while you are dating it's wrong. You need to be sure he is not trying to hook up with any one else. Good Luck
2006-12-12 12:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Conservative 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you to be exclusive then he should respect you're feelings and delete his profile, as you have yours. Definatly bring it up because if you aren't honest in a relationship, its only a matter of time before it goes south. Just bring it up causually and tell him how you feel about it...if he's the one who wanted to go exclusive then he should have no problem doing that for you!!! Good luck!!
2006-12-12 12:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by TheHottestChristinaYouKnow 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do u know him or is he someone u met on line cause if he is maybe he's cheating on u don't want to bust your bubble but maybe he's not being honest when u ask him just be like are u still on the dating site if he says no then say i checked and u were handle it from there if he say yes ask him y say do u luv me what's the reason have he been cheating on u good luck.
2006-12-12 12:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by beautifullllllllllllllllllllllll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got rid of you account too soon it looks like to me.Ask him why he still has his up and counts the excuses he will come up with.I wouldnt trust this guy to much honey. Good Luck
2006-12-12 12:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Joan C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. See if you are who he's looking for and if you guys have close passions. If he is still looking for someone to date while going out with you, take that as a hint. Do y'all live together...Maybe he is trying to play it off to hide it. Who knows...talk to him about it though!
2006-12-12 12:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would bring it up since it was his idea to go exculsive. If he lies to you thne you should may call it off with him. before you get to in to it and find out that the he has been messing around on you or something
2006-12-12 12:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it1 If he does not delete his profile then leave the playa alone.
2006-12-12 12:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about this and tell him how you feel if he is commited to you there is no need to keep a file on these sights unless he is not an honest person
2006-12-12 12:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to talk to him.
The people on yahoo answers can not give you any advice that will help you besides talking to him.
Talk to him about it, then if you have questions get on yahoo answers.
2006-12-12 12:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋