okay, my friends boyfriend and her started goin out about a month ago. We all have lunch together and during lunch everytime i look over at him hes staring at me. It seems like hes always tryin to get close to me and i'm always like whoaa and i like move away. Well today in the lunch like he started like gettin all close in my face and hugging me and i was like umm and i like walked away. Its really wierd what do u guys think I should do?? He only does this when hes girlfriends not around?? thanks so much guys
2006-12-12 11:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by whereHAVEallTHEcowboysGONE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to stop. He has a girlfriend and needs to back off. If it continues, let your friend know about it and tell her that you already told him to back off and he wont stop. Worst that'll happen, is she breaks up with him, but you still have your friend.
2006-12-12 11:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off when it comes to females being friends and a guy possibly getting between them that is like pouring gasoline on a fire. So the next time your all out and she isnt around and he get a little too close for comfort i would say "hey you are w/ my friend now this is your 1st and only warning you get a little too close to me again, and make me feel uncomftorable i will tell so and so" whatever her name may be...And if he does do it again you tell her! BUT now i dont care if she is your best friend in the world somex's when it comes to a situation like this it seems they will pick their boyfriend over their best friend..so just really look at your friendship and how strong it really is...Now if you dont think it is strong enough maybe you should avoid being around them, because if he is acting this way he obviously is not a faithful boyfriend anyway and therefore the relationship will probably not last ..hopefully this helps
2006-12-12 20:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by laci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he realizes what he is doing. I think what he is trying to do is be on his girlfriends friends good side. Plus if it makes you feel unconfortable about what he is doing why dont you have a quick talk with him
2006-12-12 19:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's What YOU Need To Du:
1) confront him ( have sum courage!)
2) confront her
3) or simply cuss him out. LOL
the last one i was just playing on the 3rd one but just tell your friend how you feel. if you need anymore help email me : drummboi_13@yahoo.com
2006-12-12 20:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Yung De 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to back off. Talk to him one on one and see if he gets the message, because maybe its a miscommunication and he doesn't realize what he's doing. If he still doesn't stop tell your friend. She deserves to know.
2006-12-12 19:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your onto his game and to cool his heels or you will tell your friend. Better yet, tell her anyway in case he makes a scene and says you were hitting on him.
2006-12-12 19:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me he is trying to get your friend mad to the point where she is gonna do something she dont normally do for him why dont both of ya get away from him
2006-12-12 19:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rachel, you need to tell this guy that you are uncomfortable with the way he is behaving and, if he doesn't stop, you're going to do something about it.
2006-12-12 19:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him personally, if he still continues doing the same thing then try to avoid him because your friend might think that you are trying to get his boyfriend from him.
2006-12-12 19:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really consider talking to him
2006-12-12 19:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋