i have been talking to this guy for about a wk. I meet him when i was getting my tatoo. he calls daily when we first met , he does take me out to the movies and coffe shops. but i dont know if he likes me. he has a kid and is stressing over visitation right . he says he likes me and he wants to continue seeimg me. the first week we hung out and then after the date he didnt call like 4 days. he says its cuz he knows im in school and he didnt want to bother me cuz im a science major. now he calls every day, or texts me. but he is really stressed out cuz of the kid.? do u think he likes me and he just busy or is he just running drag?
2006-12-12 11:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's looking for a mama (preferably a sugar-mama) and he's picked you, sweetie.
The behaviour is meant to hook you in by showing you how "sensitive he is". And I can practically guarantee that he's just scamming you.
Run away as fast as you can. I sure would.
2006-12-12 12:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a kid without complications is hard sometimes, so he is more than likely just having a hard time of it. Child custody/visitation battles can take some time. Are you willing to wait and find out his position.
2006-12-12 12:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by seaangell304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to remember one thing, if he has a child, the child will always come first, and I think that's the way it should be.Don't ask him to choose between you and his child. If his x is giving him a hard time about visitation then this is very stressful.I would just give him some time to work things out.
good luck
2006-12-12 12:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like he is stressing big time over his kid. I think he like you now for sure ,but I think if you feel the same maybe you can invite the kid to go with you and him someplace .If you havent met his kid yet,this will tell you really what kind of man he is.
2006-12-12 12:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be interested in you, but you need to tell him that he needs to get his priorities straightened out first. Its not good getting into a relationship with someone when they are all stressed out with his ex and visitation rights. Whatever the courts decided with his child, is something he needs to accept. Its up to you if you want to continue this relationship with him. Talk things out with him first before you decide anything. Find out what it is exactly he wants in life and if he wants to have this relationship. Also, figure out if you still want to be with him. Its something y'all have to work out together.
2006-12-12 12:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hes not subconsiously chatting with you about toddlers. the 2d yahoo chat might want to assert that, he suggested hes petrified of comittment and hes giving you a chance, so not in any respect is he truly wondering about having toddlers. its how adult males are.
2016-11-30 12:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by brenneman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's stressed, don't pressure him.
2006-12-12 11:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl don't talk to him not more
2006-12-12 12:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋