My dad is always mean.Tonight he wouldn't wash a pan for my mom oand i tried to help by washing it,and he yelled at me! The he always takes his anger out on me.i don't know why.do your parents do that?he's always mad because we don't clean.my mom just had carpul tunnel surgery so she can't do the dishes,he gets mad.i forgot to put up my cloths,he gets mad.my brother always goes,"aaaaaaak"at my dad when he tells him to do somthing.he pops hims.i left the wagon in which i brought the groceries in on the porch,he gets mad.Why?Why is he like this?
2006-12-12 11:57:35 · 3 answers · asked by Aubrey Animal Goddess :-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
look,i'm only 12 years old.i have no influence on our lives
2006-12-13 11:40:43 · update #1
look i'm just 12.i can't do anything my dad won't listen to me.btw,my dad smpkes and has nervous and bacvk problems.are those any things that might tick himoff?
2006-12-14 09:22:05 · update #2
It sounds like he is taking his frustrations out on you kids ..
It wouldnt hurt if you made more of an effort ( both you and your brother) to help around the house with out haveing to be "told"
What does your mother say about the situation ? Have you talked with her at all ?
Have you tried to talk with your father ? you know he could really be under alot of stress and not even consider that he is coming across to you in such a rude way
It sounds like your a pretty mature young lady ( your smart enough to write to here for ideas ) I can bet your smart enough to see what needs done and just go ahead and do it ..
best of luck to you
2006-12-12 12:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u guys need to help out around the house more since ur mom can't do it he may feel that he is doing all the work and is stressed out
2006-12-12 20:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by oohLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because he's stressed but still there's he has no right to that.
2006-12-12 20:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Jennie ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋