So I'm working at an animal hospital I'm prevet and there's this guy that works there to who's prevet and goes to my school too. we work together a couple of days a week. He's a pretty nice guy and I kind of like him, but I can't figure out if he likes me or if he's just a nice guy.
We talk and have good conversations. It seems like he finds away to be next to me ( stand next to me), talk to me, help me out, smile at me etc. So things were going like this until 2 days ago when I wasn't feeling very chatty so I didn't say much to anyone, but he seemed upset about it and sort of ignored me today. So what you think. Likes me? Or am I over thining this?
2006-12-12 11:57:22 · 1 answers · asked by Nicki F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Way you described it seems everything is quite normal and you're right you are over! Now there's nothing wrong with it,mature people fantasize as well,thinking that this 'woman likes me' and think ohhh what fun to have sex with her.
OK so you like him( but still in denial) and feels the guy is the same. But you mess it up and got him upset. Bad move! If you like a guy you have to find ways to please him and be with him all the time. You like,show some enthusiasm,that you want to have him around. This borders on "pretension" ,which is like lying, and "providing opening" for a possible reationship.Pretending is bad but being upfront is not. You act like you want him coz you do. No use hiding it.
You have to constantly provide him the opening. Treat him differently from all the other boys around,give him a kick so his cool engine will start. Think that some guys are really slow so don't be cute and ignore him or he will totally ignore you -Forever.
Now it's entirely diff if he wants you around coz he's gay! Ask if he wants to go to the parlor with you LOL
2006-12-12 12:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋