2006-12-12 12:36:22 · 24 answers · asked by robert l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really loved her, you wouldn't have to ask. Once you accept divorce as an option in your relationship, you've already given up.
2006-12-12 12:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I and mine have been thru alot too.The question arose in my mind to stay or move on.I always thought I knew what the answer would be if various things were to happen.True love bears all things,endures all things and believes all things.I won't lie"believes all things"is a tough one,but put in the proper perspective, it was doable.Divorce and separation is like losing a spouse to death especially when many years have been spent and even children are involved.Newlyweds always seem so happy to be married and so in love.The marriages that have been tested are the ones that are truly in love.If you have that kind of love for her and her you than you should tryto work whatever out.I could talk forever on this one boss but I will spare you.
2006-12-12 20:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by strongstorm89 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are in love with someone you just dont drop them like that.. You will hurt the woman. Obviously if your not happy you should talk about it.. There is always time for working it out or even marriage councling.. Its the worst thing to go through a divorce. My parents went through a pretty bad one. Do whatever you feel is the right thing to do.
2006-12-12 20:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by lvnthenotebooklife 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the only one that can answer that question ,,,, No one can live your life for you the same as they can't tell you what to do ,,,, If you take someone elses advise you are still the one that has to deal with the consequences or what ever ,,,, Let your own conscious be your guide ,,,, You're the one that has to live with her not anyone else ,,,, For that reason it should be your choice or decision ,,,,
2006-12-12 21:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, chyah. She's your wife. Why wouldn't you stay with her? Without any reason to leave in the question, it seems like a slam dunk. Start a new question. Include a reason this time: it will help.
2006-12-12 20:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the simplest word is yes, but now you have taughts of leaving her for some reason .some times you have to weigh the good and the bad to see what worse and why and what you see
as the future for you two.believe me marriages are getting less and less cause people just dont want to hang on .go with you heart and not with your head ,some times men have to change to make things better for the relationship.routines get tiring so some times you have to do different things to spice it up.
good look on your quest.
2006-12-12 20:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by shane p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you love her i would say yes but you can also try going to a friend's house for about a week and see how bad you miss her and if you miss her so bad you could cry then yes stay with her......
2006-12-12 20:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love her...I think you know the answer.
Marriage is alot of work and that involves
both people going through alot.
Good luck.
2006-12-12 20:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Edisto 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what problems you have had in your relationship ex. (did either or you cheat, or is there any kind of abuse in the realtionship) It may sound crazy but if you both want to work out your problems you should seek help from a professional.
2006-12-12 20:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why wouldnt u wanna stay with her. U just said u love her...surely thats enough 2 wanna stay with her?
2006-12-12 20:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋