Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

During my last poll, I asked everyone "if they ever met a girl who can get any men she wanted." There were a couple that said that she always went for guys who are "losers." Ouch. Describe a loser?

2006-12-12 13:16:06 · 12 answers · asked by DN 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy for about 4 months but we really never talked. We were always flirting together and there was a rumor going around that I liked him. So, about 1 week ago his friend asked me if I liked him and I said yes even though I don't. And that same friend told him to ask me out because apparantly he liked me. So, he asked me out and I said yes even though I don't like him at all. We've been going out for 5 days but I just hate it. I think I like him just a little but not enough. I barely see him but I told him we could try. I want to break up with him, but it's just hard because I can't decide if I really do like him or not. What do I do?

2006-12-12 13:15:32 · 3 answers · asked by Someone 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-12 13:15:18 · 17 answers · asked by × 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is in a band and he spends so much time with them. We have to work out our time to see each other around his "band practice" schedule. I feel like I should just be happy that he has this going for him rather than an alternative extracirricular activity? (like titty bars or fight clubs?)

2006-12-12 13:14:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had an affair with a woman who later became my business partner (while still in the affair). The affair ended over a year ago, but still becomes a problem from time to time. Can we ever let it go or will it always be an issue?

2006-12-12 13:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by hockey2525 2 in Friends

I saw a good friend of mines young teenager smoking. I do know her mother will not be happy about this. Should I tell or let it go?

2006-12-12 13:14:32 · 8 answers · asked by Dogbelly 1 in Friends

When passion dies off after several yrs of marriage. It looks like he lost interested in u or anything u do. Nothing u do seem to appeal him anymore...anyone has managed to make ur hubby notices u once again? Any suggestions?

2006-12-12 13:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by sqxue8523 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think God would be able to digest me if i had Hepatitus B?

2006-12-12 13:14:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah, well I'm 16 and I really want to have my first kiss with this guy that I like at school. I've been doing everything to get him to notice me, but I don't know if he likes me. We sit by each other all of the time, even though our desks are knowhere near each others. I wanted to learn how to tongue kiss but don't know how. How do I get him to like me, and how do I become a great kisser?
I'm not looking for sex, just a great kiss.

2006-12-12 13:14:11 · 4 answers · asked by Briddy 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends and now I have noticed that when I'm talking to a girl that I'm interested in or I'm trying to impress, my voice gets a little higher and I kinda talk g.a.y. Like from a guys standpoint. You know, talking more sweetly and innocently. Ok, no one laugh, I looked at some of my moms romance films and in a lot of them when a guy talks to the girl he's in love with he does the same thing. Guys: Does this happen to you? Girls: Do you notice and does it affect the way you think of us?

2006-12-12 13:13:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend told me of her abuse from her husband and her fear for her safety and her need to run away. I made it clear I would help her but she had to keep my assistance a secret. I feared for my safety. I hooked her up with a therapist, called in favors from friends, found her a safe place to live, and took a week off work to drive her the 400 miles to her safe location. After a month, she returned home to her husband. She has been home for a month and I have not heard from her. Her sister told me everything is going well for them. She told him I had helped her. What should I do??

2006-12-12 13:12:48 · 10 answers · asked by belle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy, nice (i guess), but sometimes I wonder about his sanity (will he grow up to be a cerial killer or live in his mother's basement sticking pins in voodoo dolls). He asked me to homecoming and I made some lame excuss of, "oh, well, I acually decided a long time ago that I was going stag this year, SORRY" and then he stood behind me, facing my back, the whole entire time- almost followed me into the bathroom once too. I've tried to give this guy a clue, but he just won't take it. Is there a nice way that I can let him down and make him stop stalking me, cause its starting to really freak me out.

2006-12-12 13:12:46 · 8 answers · asked by Ana♫ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 13:12:23 · 5 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm kind of stuck! This could be a stereotypical question, but it is kind of important to me.

2006-12-12 13:11:36 · 4 answers · asked by qtshakeshake93 1 in Singles & Dating

I cannot speak for women who post personal ads because I don't read those. I know that there are unhonest women posting personal ads as well.

I'm very curious as to: why most men aren't honest in their personal ads? Why do they post things like: 'Freak wanted' in the m4w section rather than the casual encounters section? Why not set up a profile on relevant sites like AdultFriendFinder; or go to a bar? Isn't the latter option cheaper and less time-consuming?
What about the men whose IDs are: hot14u69, etc.? Again, why not post in the casuals section?

Why do men, who clearly are NOT seeking a potential relationship, answer ads posted by women who state that they want a honest relationship?

Why do some men say in their ads that they are 'very busy'/'too busy to date' but post an ad anyway? Why not get one's life together and then get in the dating pool once the dust has settled?

Will honesty make it easier for ad posters to find what they want?

2006-12-12 13:11:29 · 11 answers · asked by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm trying to know what does ladies like to talk about the most so i can become better when i talk to women, cause sometime i don't have much to talk about and i think they get bord

2006-12-12 13:11:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat if the guy that i like says no .if he doesn't want to out go with me? and maybe he doesn't like me but somebody else?

2006-12-12 13:11:09 · 4 answers · asked by Vivi 1 in Friends

im a VERY shy girl and my friend told the guy i like that i like him and he said i was pretty but dosent know me how am i supposed to go to school tommorow!!!!!!!!!!!!! ahh he will tell all his friends HELP

2006-12-12 13:10:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 13:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by chika_cherry_cola007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

omg, me n my bf have been going out for about one year and ten months. our one year and 11month anniversary is next friday. 2day he told me that he was moving to new york. that's about 3 states up and two to the left from where we live now. i cried and cried. how am i spozed to get over this guy that luvs me n i luv him n we've been together 4 almost two years. n the worst part is that he's moving this tuesday rite b4 winter break. my lyf is over. y would god do this? how am i spozed to get over this???

2006-12-12 13:09:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Only the serious answers will get points...but feel free to leave stupid ones too I suppose.

2006-12-12 13:09:18 · 9 answers · asked by Shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

seeing as I'm marrying my girlfriend next year, i've decided I would like to bed her mum and sister. How do I go about this???

2006-12-12 13:08:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over 2 years.
I am not a fan of condoms at all as I think they reduce spontenaiety, excitement and intimacy.
At the beginning of the relationship i was happy to wear them as there was a risk of her getting pregnant.
For the best part of a year and a half she has been taking an injection and we have been having sex without a condom.
Recently she went to the doctors because she had started to bleed sometimes during sex.
She had to have an unpleasant internal test for sexually transmitted diseses because we dont wear condoms.
I know that i havent been unfaithful and i believe she hasnt.
This test came back negative so wont be necessary in the future.
What i dont understand is that she has decided that she now wants to use condoms (and tried to sell me on the benefits saying shed be happier etc) or become friends - an untimatum.
What do you suggest?

2006-12-12 13:07:48 · 28 answers · asked by John 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am dating a 21 year old Marine. He is recently divorced due to the fact that his wife cheated on him when he was in Iraq. Because of her cheating, he has trust issues - especially with women. He's told me that every day his worries about me being unfaithful get a little better. I've told him to no end how I've never cheated and never will. I care about him deeply and want this to work. There were no kids involved in his previous marriage, and he comes from a loving family. Aside from his trust issues and the fact that he's a hardened Marine, are there any other things I should worry about? Does anyone have tips for dating a new divorcee?

2006-12-12 13:07:48 · 5 answers · asked by bebedejuin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy one night and we hit it off! i liked him and at the end of the night he wasnt going to kiss me on lips only the cheek but i was like omg just kiss me already so i said "arent you going to kiss me" and we kissed! does that make me a slut! he was trying to be a gentleman and i kissed him!

2006-12-12 13:07:47 · 15 answers · asked by gosh 1 in Singles & Dating

And then why do after approaching Black women they are extra nosy, ask too many personal questions that they are not even willing to answer themselves, and think that for some reason that have a right to ask a Black woman her personal business right off the bat?

2006-12-12 13:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You ask a guy whether he's ready for you to go visit him and he said "always" - your comment please? It is not rocket science but I just want to hear feedbacks. Thank you for commenting.

2006-12-12 13:07:17 · 7 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm twentytwo years old, and I still haven't had one boyfriend. I haven't even had a date or kissed a guy or anything. It's just like I don't meet guys, who I can fall in love with, and I don't feel like doing anything unless I'm in love with the guy. I'm simply a "waiting for Mr Right" kind of girl, so I don't want to do anything "just because". But for every year, that passes by, I feel more and more like a loser for not having a boyfriend or at least having had a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me, or should I just relax about this and be satisfied with being single?

2006-12-12 13:07:08 · 34 answers · asked by furienna 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl kylene been friends for a while she lied to me about her hole life story !! should i give her another chance ok well she told me she had a boyfriend she had cool gothic friends her mom always made her feel sad ...stuff like that well the's been telling me that for a long time and she just know told me the truth what should i do i hate people who lie and that was a big lie .....

2006-12-12 13:06:46 · 3 answers · asked by stephie_petz 1 in Friends

when i talk to people, i always end up talking about my family and boring things like that. no one tells me the latest gossip because im not popular. i call it a circle effect. what do i do?

2006-12-12 13:06:39 · 4 answers · asked by enthusiasm-sarcasm 2 in Friends