I had an affair with a woman who later became my business partner (while still in the affair). The affair ended over a year ago, but still becomes a problem from time to time. Can we ever let it go or will it always be an issue?
2006-12-12 13:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by hockey2525 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately if you have an affair with someone.. its really hard to move on and be friends after that. you will always be thinking of what happened and you will always think what if? It makes friendship extremely hard. if its still a buisness relationship it needs to stay strictly that. no friendship involved. because even with a friendship things can be mis-read and can just bring up memories of the past. and if your heart isnt there it needs to be just about work and thats it. its a struggle when there is a friendship.. so its best just to avoid it..
2006-12-12 13:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by ~Raven~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am unable to stay friends with a man I WANTED to have an affair with, but he would not. It made me too crazy to be around him so I had to cut off contact. My issue is I am in love with him. I'm guessing if there are problems you and your partner still have some kind of feelings. So you cannot be friends.
2006-12-12 21:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will always be an issue and you started a business with this woman? omg did you make a big mistake . If it is still a problem then you need to realize it was a mistake and one of you must leave the business. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-12 21:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always be an issue.How hard would it be for you to get out of the partnersip?Better cut your losses now.Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.Also,better be upfront with your wife before the ex-mistress decides to spill the beans.PS-It may also be a good idea to keep your pants zipped.
2006-12-12 21:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always be an issue you cant really not be bothered by it. The only way is that you dont come in contact with the person if possible transfer to a new department where you dont see ech other. other than that there will always b trouble
2006-12-12 21:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Vader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know what to tell you but i do know that when something like that happens and if it happens for a while it can get complicated but if it was like once or twice and nothing more then i guess it's ok depending where you and the woman are at and make it clear to her what you want out of this realtionship
2006-12-12 21:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by babie_tinkerbell05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asking the question then I say it will always be some kind of issue. maybe consider finding a new business partner
2006-12-12 21:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Laura P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your way of thinking. All thing are possible. If you can let it go and still feel content then it does not matter how she may feel or act. You would be at peace.
2006-12-12 21:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always be an issue. You have to marry her. At least that what my mom says.
2006-12-12 21:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm....well, I am friends w/ a man that I had an affair with......but we dont work together anymore.........give it some time
2006-12-12 21:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by aes_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋