omg, me n my bf have been going out for about one year and ten months. our one year and 11month anniversary is next friday. 2day he told me that he was moving to new york. that's about 3 states up and two to the left from where we live now. i cried and cried. how am i spozed to get over this guy that luvs me n i luv him n we've been together 4 almost two years. n the worst part is that he's moving this tuesday rite b4 winter break. my lyf is over. y would god do this? how am i spozed to get over this???
2006-12-12 13:09:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, Sweetie, Your life is not over. If you both love each other like you say then love will prevail. Haven`t you ever heard that Love grows stronger with separation if it is true love. If it`s not then you will find out. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-12 13:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. I've seen plenty of relationships go through worse. Take it one day at a time. If you really love each other then try the long distance thing. True love is surviving all the obstacles that come in your way. Think about it, if you guys were already married and he had this great job opportunity somewhere else, would that mean the end of your relationship? or would you work through it?
If it is meant to be, it will be.
This could make your relationship stronger.
2006-12-12 21:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by myfianceisamonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does not do these things or make these decisions we do. And your life is not over, just this phase of it. One question though, how is your boyfriend taking all this? Step back and take life a day at a time, the past is already lived, the future is yet to be, and the now is where we live at present. Good luck, and hope you feel better soon.
2006-12-12 21:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why exactly are you breaking up? Long distance relationships typically work.. and it's not God's fault, people move, it's just the way it is.. stay in touch by phone and MSN, it isn't the stone age, you can still be together even though you're miles apart.. that's what makes life and love so interesting is the rocks along the path... if you really love each other, you will MAKE it work
2006-12-12 21:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God didn't do this.
Your life isn't over.
The best part may be just ahead.
How do you get over this? Start by concentrating HARD on getting a good education; learn to write and spell correctly; then get a job and work hard at it. Meet new people. Make friends. Have patience. When the time is right, you'll find someone who is right for you. Trust me; you'll be just fine if you get your priorities right.
2006-12-12 21:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one you need to grow up and realize it's not teh end of the world. WHy is he notacting like you? Well what you need to do is e-mail all the time, IM him when you can and never loose touch with him because maybe one day he'll be back. ANd God has nothing to do with this so give it up and become a grown young lady.
2006-12-12 21:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off. god had nothing to do with it, but ill spare you my athiest views...
second, just because hes moving doesnt mean that you've got to stop talking to him. you can still make it work. that thing you hear about long distance relationships never last? yeah, thats only for 25 percent of couples that have moved away from each other. you can still make it work out! if not, try not to think about it. if you do, then think of the happy times, and try to move on.
2006-12-12 21:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by acampion2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he is moving away doesnt mean it has to be over.
have you ever heard of a long distance relationship?
you guys can talk on the phone, chat online, im each other and all sorts of stuff.
if you guys really like each other then you wont break up and if you do happen to break up then you will have to move along but for now i suggest that you dont break up
2006-12-12 21:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by [d] i a n a; 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well..what's the matter????..your relationship isn't off yet..you've said he luvs you..so what's the problem there??/
he'll just leave..your life is over??how could you say that??..you had love your life before you've met that guy...its all in the mind...you're just making your own problem to worry for...he will just leave and move to new york but your relationship is not over...besides..there's a lot of way for you to communicate with each other..phones..e-mails..etc...
2006-12-12 21:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by yucanzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can all ways go and vist him. your actin like he's goin over sea's. just be happy that your not one of those one's that has to witness there love'd ones goin over sea's to war where there not even 100% sure if there comin back. hell there not even 1% sure if there comin back and they cant even vist there love'd ones. so be happy that he's still in the country and you can just jump in a car or what ever you want to vist him and you can also call him. God those all he does for a reason. never down the guy he knows what he's doin. trust and belive.
2006-12-12 21:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by arondmyway 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋