I'm twentytwo years old, and I still haven't had one boyfriend. I haven't even had a date or kissed a guy or anything. It's just like I don't meet guys, who I can fall in love with, and I don't feel like doing anything unless I'm in love with the guy. I'm simply a "waiting for Mr Right" kind of girl, so I don't want to do anything "just because". But for every year, that passes by, I feel more and more like a loser for not having a boyfriend or at least having had a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me, or should I just relax about this and be satisfied with being single?
2006-12-12 13:07:08 · 34 answers · asked by furienna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never let a man define who you are! Be proud that you are an individual with your own thoughts and ideas and not doing things just for the sake of doing things (that will lead to even bigger heart ache). You are not a loser you are a Woman with values and morals. There aren't many of those out there so be proud and eventually your prince charming will come your way. And when he does it will be fantastic!
2006-12-12 13:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by party_pam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a total loser, and not even 1/2 a loser..Dating someone to just date someone, is empty....and has no meaning...Wait until there is someone you really want to be with and I am not talking about sex. Relationships, take work and engery, why put so much into something just to say you have a boyfriend? You will know when it is right and who the right one is when it is time..You are young (I am 39), and you have plenty of time...I know of a person in thier 40's like you, and she is happy and content with waiting for the right one to come along...I am not saying that it will take you that long, but I just wanted you to know that you are not the only one. Hang in there!
2006-12-12 13:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm so glad to hear there's at least one girl out there with some morals! I thought for sure the whole world had gone to hell what with everyone falling into bed with everyone that comes along. Finish your education if you haven't; get a good job and work hard at it; be friendly to the people you meet at work, church, or community functions. You don't sound like a loser; you sound like someone who has what it takes to find a great partner when the time is right. RELAX!!!
2006-12-12 13:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that is "wrong" with you is YOU. There is nothing wrong with "waiting for mr right". Just tell yourself EVERYDAY that you will find him.....only then you will. Don't look at it as "year after year". You are dwelling on the past, and losing hope for today and tomorrow. You are HERE NOW. Make the most of it with a happy attitude, and EXPECTING to find him. In fact, write down, with confidence, exactley the kind of guy you want, and keep it where you can see it everyday. Bring him to you with positive thoughts of what TODAY can bring......you'll see!
2006-12-12 13:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are not a looser...When you find the right guy or when the right guy finds you it will happen is not rush I guess...I won't worry about it...You don't what a tranquility your life is with out a person that sometimes we do choose the wrong ones...So relax and enjoy keep enjoying life...I have allots guys to choose from and I am single and really is because at what I say before...They are the loosers so I stay single and happy...
2006-12-12 13:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and stop looking so hard. when you don't look that s when you will find someone to fall in love with. no i don't think that you are a loser! you are just trying too hard to find Mr right. that is good that you are wanting to wait for the right man to come along too many people are rushing into things and end up making mistakes that sometimes you can take back good luck to you.
2006-12-12 13:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes3535 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl. Don't think that youre a losser because you are still young!! We are still young!!! Im going 22 next year but unlike you, i enjoyed my relationship for 3 years. But before, i also have a hard time having a boyfriend. I find my self ugly, i was chubby then and i have a crush who likes other girls. But you know what i did was, i diet and make my self fell beautiful!!! Then some other guys noticed me and it feels good. If i were you, do something about your self, dont find "love" for it will really come in time. Be busy improving your selfsteem and confidence.
2006-12-12 13:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a total loser just because you haven't had a boyfriend. Enjoy being single while you can, it won't last forever, trust me, I have a sibling about your same age and she hasn't gotten into a serious serious relationship. Just be yourself and try to get a friend to hook you up. Maybe you could try one of those dating sites. Eventually you'll find the person perfect for you.
2006-12-12 13:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by jenny b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a total loser. To me its better than being a s---. Its ok if you want to wait for Mr. Right and I think it'll be worth it. But you can't just sit around waiting. You might find him or he might find you.....either way have fun and meet new people. You never know when you'll meet someone special.
2006-12-12 13:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by miley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm much worse off than you! I'm stuck in some rut, where I can't bring myself to be social outside of school. Its been 3 years since I've had a girlfriend, not that I couldn't If I wanted to, but I'm too lazy to do it. I guess what I'm trying to say is that its okay to be single, but I'm bias to the situation. Would I like a girlfriend? Yes, more than anything, but I'm happy just being single for now.
2006-12-12 13:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋