When passion dies off after several yrs of marriage. It looks like he lost interested in u or anything u do. Nothing u do seem to appeal him anymore...anyone has managed to make ur hubby notices u once again? Any suggestions?
2006-12-12 13:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by sqxue8523 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SADLY MEN R VISUAL and something else has caught his eye..no worries
Immediately , tonite!! toss the frumpy sleepwear. No plaid pajama bottom thingys...no sweats in the bed!! EW
Go places with him. Men luv when you run errands with them!! Just look cute in a pair of jeans & heels and dont complain about anything!!
Wear a soft perfume every nite like Marc Jacobs BLUSH
Bathe every nite before bedtime.
Have the kids settled and ready for bedtime!!
A big turnoff is when a woman cannot control the children. Men like well-behaved home-life.
Wear hair pulled up in a loose bun w/tendrils hanging or loose & pretty..Also let him see some of your grooming habits..like applying oils to your body..earrings etc...
Kiss him good nite each nite and hold him tightly when sleeping..this helps so if he is in another womans bed, he will miss the "closeness" that u 2 have daily.
If you r not giving him o-sex that's the problem right there! So you will have to learn to like it ..but he has to give it to you too!! Don't b shy in bed and make some noise & move those hips!!!
2006-12-12 13:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, beating these odds would virtually be a sign for some, depends on your beliefs I think. My mother got pregnant with each my brother and i even as on birth manipulate, 6 months apart - virtually equal to your obstacle. Anywho, she chose not to abort either one of us although we had been unplanned and yes my mum and dad did wrestle, but we made it. I am now 20, fortunately married, and anticipating my first and my brother is in school. It isn't not possible but handiest you know what that you can or can not handle. If you know adoption is out of the question, then you have got to come to a decision if you happen to would mother or father this youngster or abort it. It is absolutely an awfully hard decision, however no longer one who someone instead of that you could make. You are the one who has to are living with the outcome of whichever determination you're making. Just be sure you believe it by way of and are making the high-quality determination for you. In case you believe simply that you're making the correct selection, then that's all that issues! Great of success!
2016-08-10 01:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so far I have not seen a satisfactory answer for this, usually the suggestion is a three some but I don't think the question would be asked if these things hadn't already been tried and had failed. Obviously trying to turn him on would be the first thing you do, and when that fails, trying something more outrageous is not an option when all your previous attempts had been ignored. Who has the confidence to try something even bolder? I don't think this can be fixed, AND BY ALL MEANS IF I'M WRONG, LADIES, LET THE REST OF US IN ON YOUR SECRET PLEASE, cause we would all really like to know how to be both tall and short, fat and skinny, beautiful and plain, blonde, brunette, and redhead all in one, and have an endless supply of lingerie and a college cheerleader in the closet to join us in a pillowfight for his majesty's entertainment, all at our disposal. Maybe then he would stay interested, but from what I've seen and heard, DIFFERENT is all they want.
2006-12-12 13:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, beating those odds would rather a lot be a demonstration for some, relies upon on your ideals i think. My mom were given pregnant with both my brother and that i at the same time as on birth control, 6 months aside - rather a lot the picture of your situation. Anywho, she chosen no longer to abort both one human beings even with the truth that we were unplanned and certain my father and mom did warfare, yet we made it. i'm now 20, thankfully married, and anticipating my first and my brother is in college. this is not no longer conceivable yet actually you already know what you could or won't be able to take care of. in case you already know adoption is out of the question, then you actually ought to make your innovations up in case you ought to determine this newborn or abort it. it really is for sure a very demanding selection, yet no longer one which any another than you could make. you're the single which has to stay with the end results of whichever selection you're making. only be constructive you imagine it by using and are making the finest selection for you. in case you sense absolutely that you're making the right selection, then it is all that concerns! best of success!
2016-10-18 05:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I have been together for 10 years. We went through a similar dry spell. Now, we have no problem in that area at all. Surviving hardships works wonders. Sticking through it thick and thin through difficult times is a great freeing thing. It can be quite an alluring thing in both hubby and wife. Time, I would say. And in the interim...dress femine, carry yourself well, have good morals. Let hubby know you wish to be a credit to him. Let him know you respect him, you think he is a good man and appreciate all he does for you. An "I'm so proud of you, wow, you can still blow me away baby"...does wonders. Give a litle and he may respond the same way.
2006-12-12 13:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by sheepinarowboat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a very simple person when dressing up is just for important occassion but by dressing up once in awhile do make him turn his head on and we will finish it off with passionate love making...
2006-12-12 13:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who were you before you got married ? What did you do to attact him to begain w/ .Maybe you should go buy you some Sexy clothes do your makeup and hair and plan a night that he would enjoy. Just make him feel very speical.
2006-12-12 14:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you supposed to do? Jump through hoops? What's wrong with HIM? If you try to change yourself and he doesn't like it, or only likes it for awile, then what? Are you supposed to keep driving yourself crazy to suit HIM? If he lost interest, too bad. Stay true to YOURSELF, let him handle his stupidity and mid life crisis.
2006-12-12 13:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow his mind...go and do the freaky-freak with him... something that totally shocks him...whether its a threesome or just sex in public...get that mans attention or you'll lose hime
2006-12-12 13:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Maybe get a makeover?
2006-12-12 13:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋