Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

I have been called handsome on various occasions by women. But, what does 'handsome' mean? What does it 'really' mean???

Does it mean you look presentable enough to show you off to their parents/grandparents for Sunday lunch?

Or, does it mean they want to play fed ex and check out the package? my friend is always called sexy, i'm called handsome any difference?

2006-12-10 01:55:06 · 28 answers · asked by bearerofknowledge 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a girl from a traditional indian family. I didn't marry b'cause i m afraid to adjust my whole life with a stranger just to have sex, a child or a so called family.
Though I am fond of companions, my choice is not very common & in a sense extremist too. I love a person either 2 much or else i shirk away.
Now, physically, mentally i need sex, i need love, but can't find any wayout. Please help.

2006-12-10 01:54:01 · 18 answers · asked by rani 1 in Singles & Dating

When the words' I love you'(something along those lines) were sang a guy I know looked at me (i caught him from the corner of my eye)I also caught him looking at me sometimes and looking away when he saw I would notice. Is this just conscience or does he like me?

2006-12-10 01:53:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 01:52:52 · 5 answers · asked by wael e 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes sure join a club or this or that... but it's not that easy! I am working on an exiting project in Loughborough for the next 3 months and I find the UK culture a bit difficult to relate in, but I think I'm spontaneous enough to cope a bit. During week days, all I see is a few colleagues which also don't live in Leistershire and weekends they head home! I am stuck here; decaying of boredom but have recently joined the gym to keep me busy. I am not very fond of pubs especially for the reason not going there alone trying to chat someone up... guess I am a bit lonely...hahaha! Would like to meet people in other ways than bars or pubs! Or if you fancy meeting up with me, would be happy to, maybe go and have a drink some where... Anyone in?

2006-12-10 01:52:44 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Friends

what kind of film? what subject? from a book?

would you like it to be cast with rich talented celebrity actors or skillful master non-celebrity actors

2006-12-10 01:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Lets say a single Mother has a Daughter 12 or 13 years old and the Mother is a drunk. Takes drugs. Steals. Smokes weed has many boyfriends, etc. What are the chances of the daughter following in her footsteps?

2006-12-10 01:51:25 · 19 answers · asked by Warren Bennett 3 in Family

my brother and i have an age gap of 7 years... what will i do to get our relationship a little bit better?

2006-12-10 01:50:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-10 01:49:37 · 17 answers · asked by felicadc_1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do we think that people we are attracted to then owe us something?

Have you ever behaved this way? what was the impact on you and the other person of that kind of thinking?

what is the cure for this habit people have?

2006-12-10 01:49:11 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm lost at sea.

2006-12-10 01:48:24 · 6 answers · asked by felicadc_1 2 in Family

Ok this is insane. I know I did some things to loose my parents trust. And I admitt I needed to do the time for it, but now for years I've tried building it back up. Now when they are gone, they think I play in things. Last night I made some reesee cups and put them in the fridge for them to eat, but my mom yelled at me when the rest of the family got home. She said I was playing in stuff, and started yellign at me to clean. I ended up throwing my cups away before she found them. It makes me feel unwanted. She makes me feel like crap. I really want a lock on my door so I can change and what ever, but she dosn't trust me on this computer. Shes a idiot I tell you. I can't do anything! I wanna run away or commit suicide! She's trapping me and won't stop! I've tried nicely talkign to her, but my dad or her won't listen to me! I hate my life, no one cares!

2006-12-10 01:47:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Of course I asked her about it and she is like "what are you talking about" and "thats crazy". Almost as if she doesnt even know she is doing it. But everytime we have friends and family over she talks to me as if Im slow and she makes a fool of me. Also Im a college student majoring in biology and she is not supportive with my decision. And whenever people ask me "do you think you can make it, its kind of a hard field and its long?", she interjects and says "well, I dont think so, thats her life.."! But the funny thing is that when everyone is gone, she is completely cool, calm, and collective. Why is she taunting me and constantly putting me down in front of others? Does this happen to anyone else? Any ideas on how to deal? I'm starting to feel like she really does not like me out of all her children.

2006-12-10 01:46:38 · 6 answers · asked by Lovely*~*Layla 2 in Family

We have been best buddies for three months. he has a girlfriend and I have my boyfriends. when we are together sparks fly! We are both not ready to let go of our partners. He wants us to go ahead and make love. Will making love end our friendship or will it end up being a one night stand. What should I do because I really like this guy?

2006-12-10 01:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by cathylisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 01:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by blue21693 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 01:41:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is ya'lls opinion on spouses who continue to look at pornography even after they have promised to stop because it bothers the other spouse?

2006-12-10 01:40:45 · 13 answers · asked by RJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you see, I'm 22 years old and all my friends are pretty, well, I hate to say it "loose". They use to pick on me all the time because I was a virgin. Finally, when I was about 19/20, I told them I had lost my virginity and I was pretty much sexually active in college. It's all a lie lie lie. I don't know why I did it. I wish I never did. The last time I was with them, I got so drunk that all I had in my mind was the lie I told them. I got so sick just having that in my head. I feel so ashamed. I can't believe I lied to one of my best friends. Sometimes I have a feeling that she really knows, but I'd be so embarrassed if they ever found out. It's not like they would never hang out with me, I would just loose their trust forever. My question is, how do you people cope with big lies that you've told? How can I make sure I never think of that lie when I'm with them? Please help!

2006-12-10 01:39:45 · 15 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ladies ever liked someone and you played hard to get,like not calling back or not answering the phone.Then later on regreted it.

2006-12-10 01:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by tony 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this bestfriend[guy]. ive known him since..forever! today,i realized, i LOVE him..but the problem is, theres this girl in my class whom he likes and he talks about it with me..he asks for advice and stuff like that..i want him to be happy and i know that if you love someone, you have to let them go..what would you do if you were me?

2006-12-10 01:39:30 · 13 answers · asked by jojo16 2 in Friends

this is my story: I got married about 1 year ago to my husband whom I love sooo much! anyway he is the only son and he takes care of his mother who is extremly overweight aroud (360lb) she doesnt work because she says she hets tired from standing up she is around 60 years old. She is always trying to rule arond the house she cooks everyday whatever she feels like making, she washes his clothes, makes his lunch, etc.. hes a 29 man! If we have a little argument she waits till hes not around to tell me that my marriage wont last,
She watches tv in the living room form early am to 11 pm watching her soaps, and i cant even sit because she hold the control in her hand. finally i put cable in my room so i can watch tv. She has said some really mean things to me, like my should have never came to the us so that he wouldnt have met you. Those things and many more are in my head & in my heart I can forget what she has done to me. the worst part is that my husband will never believe me.

2006-12-10 01:38:47 · 22 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 01:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by pavi s 1 in Weddings

my ex called me lastnight and asked to come over we ended up having sex and then she left and went home(w/the new girlfriend) i feel really dirty and grimy and i do not know what to do. I wondering should i cut off the friendship or keep it?

2006-12-10 01:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by aquamarine003 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a man on the internet a few weeks ago and he has become infactuated with me, he doesn't have my home phone number or home address but I'm scared he will hack into my computer and track me down. I have told him my mobile number and he bombards me with texts and phone calls. I'm really scared. Help!

2006-12-10 01:37:18 · 35 answers · asked by cazzieboo 1 in Singles & Dating

You know where they point to they're eyes then to you? A guy that I like who is 2 years older than me (I'm in 7th he's in 9th) did that to me and I was wondering what he meant.

2006-12-10 01:33:35 · 10 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 01:33:34 · 4 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family

Hi,

I just don't get it. I'm a good looking guy that takes care of himself. I will meet a girl at a supermarket, clothing store etc, and have a really great conversation with her for about 15-minutes. (Not a nightclub, no drinking) We will talk, and laugh for a while. I will then ask her for her phone number, and say "would you like to get togeather for a nice dinner some night". She will then agree, and give me her cell number. I will then give her my cell number. A day or two later i will call her just to say hi. And it never fails. Straight to voice mail everytime. I guess that trusted cellphone just isn't that close to them, the one time i choose to call!! Anyways.. I always leave a message, i never hang up and i don't block my number. I mostly say.. "Hi "" , just calling to see how your day is going, it was nice to meet you.. call me when you have a free moment" There is No call back that day. I do not call them again. Then, four days or so later they call. Why the games?

2006-12-10 01:33:15 · 7 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 01:33:07 · 12 answers · asked by melissa h 2 in Singles & Dating

should I ask him out? i know he's shy

2006-12-10 01:29:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 01:28:56 · 18 answers · asked by Rahul S 2 in Singles & Dating