We have been best buddies for three months. he has a girlfriend and I have my boyfriends. when we are together sparks fly! We are both not ready to let go of our partners. He wants us to go ahead and make love. Will making love end our friendship or will it end up being a one night stand. What should I do because I really like this guy?
2006-12-10 01:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by cathylisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
REMEMBER
What goes around....comes around...
he is looking for a piece on the side
don't do it.. 3 months does not make a buddy
2006-12-10 01:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to have sex. Many times in this situation it become a one night stand or your feelings get mixed and then both sides of the puzzle fall apart. If sparks are really flying then eventually things will work out were sex if not the solution.
Also, "casual sexual friends" usually end up hurting someone. Especially if they are seeing other people.
2006-12-10 01:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once read something in a magazine that said a girl and a guy were really good friends and who both felt like were "ready"/wanted to have sex.
They couldn't see being with their partners for very long, and they didn't want it to turn into something they would regret...
So they both made love to eachother so they wouldn't regret it...
I thought that was sweet in a way. But this seems rash. He just seems horny.
2006-12-10 01:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both involved than let it go. you said that neither of you wants to let go of your partners. my guess is that what you feel is but a sexually attraction to each other. respect his girlfriend and respect your man.
don't do anything that you will regret. chances are getting involve with your buddy may ruin the friendship that you have with each other.
neither of you wants to give up your partners, if you asked me I'd say you both are already pleased with what you have so why jeopardize that.
2006-12-10 01:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 09:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it my friend it will all end in tears.Have more respect for yourself and your lover, you will be hurting the other partners cruelly and unnecessarily.
I was recently cheated on by my bloke and I would like to see that ***** die a slow and painful death under a bus.
Chat later
Love ya Babez
XX
2006-12-10 02:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask your partners if its okay with them fine, but don't go doing it behind their backs. They will eventually find out and you will have caused more hurt that way. Honesty is the best policy, if your partners want to give you up or are happy to share go for it.
2006-12-10 01:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by jacqui w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him. If he wants you then he's going to have to break up with his girlfriend and you're going to have to break up with your boyfriend. You're talking about cheating on someone who you supposedly really like. It's not fair on either of your partners. Do the right thing not the skanky thing.
2006-12-10 01:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Diet_smartie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you know this guy has a girlfriend and you're still willing to f him. Shouldn't that tell you what kind of person he is.
2006-12-10 01:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by 420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't, but that is just me. I wouldn't because if could end your friendship.
2006-12-10 01:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by danc3r4god23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋