Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

hey everyone! here's my problem, i'm 19 and when it comes to relationships i'm an absolute nightmare! but there's this guy i met at the pub i work at, i thought there was a mutual attraction. been out a few times with friends (usually on his terms) but he came to the pub when i was working the other night and i had a killer throat so didnt really talk to him much. i think he thinks i was ignoring him, especially because i was little pushy during the week on the fact that he never comes out with me when i ask him. think i've upset him. i do really like him! i text him after work and asked why he left without saying goodbye but i didnt get a reply. should i text him again explaining i was ill, or leave it? do you think he even likes me, as i feel like most things are always on his terms? we never go out together alone... advice!!!! thanks xxxxxxx

2006-12-10 02:59:24 · 20 answers · asked by lilsam 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 02:58:30 · 6 answers · asked by mercy m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my homecoming is coming up and all my friends want me to go but i dont want to go. There like "we're making you go" I really dont want to go cause its stupid. What can i say to make them stop without losing them as friends?

2006-12-10 02:58:04 · 12 answers · asked by sk8ergirlx414 1 in Friends

2006-12-10 02:57:34 · 5 answers · asked by a143shane 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 02:56:23 · 19 answers · asked by sonoftazont 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well this is kinda pathetic, but i sometimes have these worries for people close in my life. It's not 24/7, but its only sometimes, but i have all these bad feelings, and i can see bad things happening to them, me going to their funeral...shi*t like that and it irritates ma mind so much. Is it just that i care for them, and are protective of them?

2006-12-10 02:56:09 · 10 answers · asked by Guy_33 1 in Friends

Okay, we had a substitute and this one girl(Miryea) kept on playing with her camera during class. This other girl(Emily) kept talking and laughing, completely making a fool of herself. So my friend Ciarra wrote a note to our teacher and said how they wouldn't listen to the sub. 4 of us girls signed it. I hate the girls Miryea, annoying Emily, and the evil ***** Alyssa because they act all ghetto when they're all Abercrombie and Fitch rapping and laughing saying "What's up with my homiez, what's up with my dogs" over and over. Well Ciarra put the note in a place where you put stuff for the teacher and ONLY the teacher. Alyssa went and took it!!! Ciarra told the principal and she said that it doesn't matter what the note said but that they stole it.

Also, Miryea heard Ciarra talking about it at lunch and turned around sreaming and crying saying "Now you hurt my feeling" -LOL. She's such a baby she went to the sub and asked to go home! She didn't tho.

I hate them all so much. How can I get revenge on those wannabe "gangstas"? They think the ghetto is a funny situation when some of us less fortunate people are stuck with it.

2006-12-10 02:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

an old friend and i decided to hook up. he has been in london for the past five years and i was still in south africa. i went to an agency and they told me because of my age the chances of me getting a working visa would be impossible. i explained this to my friend and he said i should come over anyway cause he has a friend who has a business and will give me a job and a working visa.i gave up everything back home to be here with him,my car, a job opportunity at an international company. i was promised a lot of things when i came to london, a visa a job a car everything that i would need to get me started over here. i have been here for 2 months now and nothing has materialised, and our relationship has not worked out and we are now just back to being friends.do i stay at the glimmer of hope that something good will come out of this or do i cut my losses and go home with nothing and feeling like a failure?

2006-12-10 02:56:04 · 8 answers · asked by taz 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend the day before this dance because i felt he liked me too much. at the dance he barely said 2 words to me, and grinded with this girl and slow danced with this other girl and kissed her on the cheek. i even planned not to talk to any other guys so he wouldnt feel bad, and he just threw it in my face. now im confused as to why he's doing this, because im really hurt. and hes not the type of person who would do that just to make me feel bad, so im very confused. help?

2006-12-10 02:55:22 · 8 answers · asked by Danityxkanexluvah 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a dilema that I'm hoping someone can help me with. I've been married for 7 years and have been out of love with my hubby for the past three of them. We have two children that I homeschool and I don't work (well, I do, but my job as a labor assistant is not regular - when I get the call, I go). I have just started training to be a midwife as well.

My hubby and I decided to have an open relationship the beginning of this year and I found a new love. I am completely in love with this person. But, if I go with him, I'm going to lose my career b/c I have to find a job to support me and the kids and get a new place. If I let him go, I can stay where I am and everything will be the same except for a broken heart.....

In your opinion, is love worth leaving security for? I could probably pick up my career at a later time in life, I'm just scared that I'm making the wrong decision if I decide to stay because of security. I don't think I can handle losing my new love...

2006-12-10 02:55:02 · 7 answers · asked by Midwife MaMa 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need lots of opinions please

I'm a senior in high school. Do you think it is too late to try to get in a group of friends. I only have a few months left but they're so much fun and I'd like to spend more time with them and they like me even though we're not close. I just don't know if it's arrogant at this point because we haven't been close before, I always felt back, because I'm shy.

2006-12-10 02:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

When my kids are around, she doesn't want to see me, but she says that she loves me and simply can't deal with children in general. What should I do?

2006-12-10 02:54:02 · 49 answers · asked by pank1024 1 in Singles & Dating

My brothers girlfriend is mexican and she's moving here (Ireland) at Christmas. I've never met her but i want to get her something nice for Christmas to make her feel welcome. Any ideas would be much appreciated.

2006-12-10 02:53:58 · 2 answers · asked by Diet_smartie 4 in Friends

i have gone with women from different races before, but i need to find more white women to have sex with.
Some say that white girls are easier to get in bed. And with my daddy mac skills, that thesis should be correct.
where do freaky white women like to hang out most? The mall? the sex shop? The Ambercrombie store?
Please give details. Could i find them on myspace? i know there are lots of freaky white women on there who i could have one night stands with. Just let me know. thanks.

2006-12-10 02:53:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so yeah my boyfriend and I had been together for a year and five months. he has treated me poorly at times due to his selfishness and immaturity but we did have some good times. for the past month we have been fighting on and off but it was getting better and then he started a fight n in order to win it he broke up with me n then the nxt day came begging back apologizing and saying all this stuff. I'm not going to type it up becuase it is too personal. However, now a week later...I am missing him very much. I haven't missed him up till yesterday. Now I find myself wanting him back even though I told him there's no chance of that happening. What should I do?

2006-12-10 02:52:29 · 16 answers · asked by ola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went to a party the other night, and got well too drunk. there was this guy there how i have really liked for ages but he has got a girl friend. but that didnt stop us from kissing the other night, and i mean it wasnt just one kiss we was making out for like an hour.
And now i just think it was because we was both drunk, and now im dreading seeing him in college.
Dont know wat to do
should i just let it go and aviod him?
or try and talk to him?
I just cant help but feeling stupid.

2006-12-10 02:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Jenn19 2 in Singles & Dating

On Thursday night, I went out with this really great girl whom I met on JDate.com. She's 24, I'm 25 and she is a h.s. art teacher while studying for her Masters in ESL ed. I also work m-f 9-6 with an hour's commute. Anyway, we had a really good time and by the time we left, we had already mentioned a few times that we'd like to see each other again. When we left each other, her eyes lit up a bit and she said, "Yeah! Absolutely! I'd really like that. Yeah, I really would like that." So, I called her yesterday around 5 and asked her if she'd like to go out again. When we first started talking, she said again that she'd had a great time, asked what's up and I asked her if she'd like to meet up again. She said she really would but knows she's gonna be very busy and has to see what her schedule is like. If not this week, then maybe the following week. Isn't that a while for someone to want to see another person they SAY they had a great time with? The schedule bit is the oldest in the book.

2006-12-10 02:51:45 · 12 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't find someone that love me for me when evrybody need me I never stay alone(they never let me alone) and when nobody need me I'm lonely

2006-12-10 02:50:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 19 my next door neigbhour is 32, she is so attractive and intelligent I know that she is attracted to me to but is she to old

2006-12-10 02:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And in her heart does she truly feel what terrible things she says about the man she once loved for a long long time are true?

2006-12-10 02:48:15 · 15 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

despite apologizing that your very sorry.what will you do.he said he has no time for nonsense, egotripping, childish fight hes threw with that.its a bit harsh you know.i was so hurt reading his message.i felt my world will tear apart.i really love this guy.he just can't understand my loneliness.maybe because i miss him so much and all i needed was some comforting words from him.and all i got was this.i don't know but i wanted to end this relationship but i don't want to.help me!

2006-12-10 02:47:55 · 5 answers · asked by pinkfairy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 02:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 02:46:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need to find ways to tease my b.f...i dont know why this is soooo difficult for me, im up to anything but i want to make it less predictable and i want to tease him...please help me..thank you

2006-12-10 02:45:57 · 7 answers · asked by ...i <3 Xavi... 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think about a person who you see walking down the street who can't make eye contact, walks with a bad posture, and looks nervous? would you find the person looking unattractive, ugly?i'm talking about me. i have social anxiety and go through this most of the time because i'm uncomfortable in my own skin around my others and people always say negative stuff about me that makes me feel down. I feel like if i can be myself than people might actually find me pretty because some people that i am comfortable around tell that i am pretty.

2006-12-10 02:45:57 · 3 answers · asked by geneva1124@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 02:45:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend is assuming the position on Maid of Honor. I was maid of honor at her wedding, however I don't feel she is the best choice for my maid of honor, and I am having a hard time finding the words and courage to break it to her.

Please help.

2006-12-10 02:44:45 · 29 answers · asked by AARON C 1 in Weddings

What are some signs that a 13/14 year old guy might like you? There's this one guy who I kind of know a little, but not very well, and I've caught him looking at me 3 times or so. Does this mean he likes me?

2006-12-10 02:44:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for a little over 3 years. The last time we talked was almost 2 weeks ago. We had argued about the relationship not progressing the way I wanted it to be. He told me to quit pressuring him & hasn't answered my calls since.

2006-12-10 02:44:18 · 9 answers · asked by Daiquiri Dream 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like a man who looks younger then what he is.
I am 22 but I always get asked for idea and tolled I look about 17 by girls. So does it matter or sould I date girls who are a bit younger

2006-12-10 02:42:51 · 19 answers · asked by snape jnr 2 in Singles & Dating