And in her heart does she truly feel what terrible things she says about the man she once loved for a long long time are true?
2006-12-10 02:48:15 · 15 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mabey she is really in grief, grieving for the marriage she expected it to be, grieving her loss, just plain disapointed in how it all worked out, and maybe this is the only way she know's how to communicate her hurt. i do not think down deep that she believes any of this, she is just trying to justify the divorce, and saying those nasty things, is like giving her reasons why it is okay to leave the marriage.
2006-12-10 02:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a women, sometimes the women feels hurt and just wants to take it out on someone. After she takes out everything she got... she relizes what mistakes she made. And that's preety normal to tell you the truth. Even though im not married i've seen stuff like that. And after a 27 year marriage there has to be a reason why u both wana get seperated so it belongs to the reason too.. the Q is, Do you still love your wife?
2006-12-10 03:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's free to tell the soon to be ex how she feels because she sees the light at the end of the tunnel.
Don't kid yourself; she didn't just decide a month ago that there are things she didn't like. You don't end a 27 year marriage on a whim, there's been lots of bitterness and anger leading up to that for a long time.
2006-12-10 05:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Humans some times say the meanest things when we they are hurt. I know that I have had said some of the meanest cruelest things to my ex husband. It was from the hurt. I wanted him to feel the pain that I felt. Did I mean all the awful things I said? Probably not. I usually felt awful after wards. Anger and hurt are to strong emotions. Ending a marriage is hard. The more years you are married the harder it is.
2006-12-10 02:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Constance Olivia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is hurting and doesn't know how to express her anger and feelings so she is taking everything out on you...
It depends on why you guys are seperating..The life you guys lived together, who cheated?who ended the marriage?
When those questions are answered, then you will know..
If you cheated on her and moved on, yeah she may mean whatever she said to you because you broke up your family...If she left you then she is saying those things to put the blame on you as to why she left....
You need to give more details
2006-12-10 08:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she invested alot in the marriage as most women do, it is a devastating loss to her. So ofcourse she will be very upset and emotional.
2006-12-10 03:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-17 00:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by bliss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just expressing her pain.
If she was betrayed, she may very well feel what she is saying. If not, then maybe it's just the saddness for what was lost making her be mean.
2006-12-10 02:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by honey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a lot of built up resentment towards you that she has been keeping bottled up.
2006-12-10 02:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't just see one side, need to investigate, may be the man is the problem..
2006-12-10 02:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Drone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋