I went to a party the other night, and got well too drunk. there was this guy there how i have really liked for ages but he has got a girl friend. but that didnt stop us from kissing the other night, and i mean it wasnt just one kiss we was making out for like an hour.
And now i just think it was because we was both drunk, and now im dreading seeing him in college.
Dont know wat to do
should i just let it go and aviod him?
or try and talk to him?
I just cant help but feeling stupid.
2006-12-10 02:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Jenn19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry about it, we all do stuff like that....Just act normal in front of him.
2006-12-10 02:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't feel stupid, mistakes happen. Try not to get drunk like that around him again because it might go further next time. If it's still bothering you after a while I would bring it up. You won't know what he thinks about it unless one of you brings it up.
2006-12-10 10:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't take back what happend. You both knew what you were doing when you were making out. Far as I can tell, there's not much to talk about, it just happend. I wouldn't avoid him, though, he will think you suddenly don't like him. Just move on from it, if you pass him in the hallways.. just smile and keep going.
2006-12-10 11:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he's not too serious about the girlfriend. So you made out with him. You are human. It's nothing to feel stupid about. Did you have fun? Blow it off and go on. Just say hello to him when you see him and keep moving unless he wants to talk. Just go with the flow. Everything will be alright honey.
2006-12-10 10:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
now dont u dare pull this mess, alcohol is liquid courage it doesnt force anyone to do anything (although people claim this & that all b/c i was drunk) but ive found that it just gives folks courage to do what they didnt have the nerve to do when they were sober so relax honey & take things as they come & i gotta feeling there is lots more to come good luck & best wishes
2006-12-10 10:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the surface just act like it never happened. If he makes eye contact with you wink and go on. He knows you are interested, maybe he'll think twice about this other girl. If he was just playing, you won't look like you are desperate or anything.
2006-12-10 11:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think everyone has done things we regret when were drunk. so don't feel dumb. i would say continue to talk to him. be his friend, but don't make the situation tense by bringing it up. If he brings it up then talk about it, but it was a one night thing and you both were drunk...it was fun while it lasted and you move on right?
2006-12-10 10:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to him about it. see how he is feeling, maybe he feels the same way. If anything I'd say the alcohol made both of you let your true feelings out. Either way you have to let his g/f know, or he'll just be one of those cheating boyfriends who lives a double life.
2006-12-10 10:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by huukedonfonix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh... your making a mountain out of a mole hile... you guys had a moment and thats what is was... just go on like nothing happened... he has a girl and unless he starts acting like he has feelings for your there is nothing to say to him about it... we all do things we regret later... so put it aside and move on... hope this helps...
2006-12-10 10:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey u can't avoid everything..u had to accept n let the things go. well don't go n talk to him straightly coz let him take the first move..if he likes u in case then he will surely talk to u n yeah this happens only when two likes each other so ur not stupid...
2006-12-10 10:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its better to just get it all out in the open this may take a lot of nerve but go and talk to him about it dont make the conversation to intimate cause that leaves room for akward silences just talk to him somewhere in public but ask him what he is doing cause he might be meeting his girlfriend you will feel a whole lot better once you find out what hes thinking
2006-12-10 10:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋