I don't find someone that love me for me when evrybody need me I never stay alone(they never let me alone) and when nobody need me I'm lonely
2006-12-10 02:50:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay I am not getting your question so ima take a guess of what it might be and I am going to try to answer it. Okay lets see you feel that everyone is using you, and that you really have no friends, and that you don't feel loved, and when you are not being used you feel lonely right? Well first off reading this I see you being in a lot of heartache and pain but you know in order for someone else to treat you right and not take advantage of you, you have to have confidence in yourself because without you putting yourself up no one else will either. And as for you feeling lonely if no one is using you that is a problem it seems that you are willing to do anything for friends and to have a mate right, well that is not how to get it you have to love yourself have full confidence and then you will most likely find what you are looking for. If you ever need to talk I am all ears. good luck and by the way if you believe in God pray he gets me through everything because I was being used at one point but I had to put my foot down.
2006-12-10 02:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are allowing people to take advantage of you. A person will ony do what they are allowed to do. Start getting out more and making more friends. Let your friends and family know that you can't be there all the time and it would be a good thing if they could call you when they don't need you (just to see how you are doing). You deserve better than this.
2006-12-10 10:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in depression.you should get some help for that. Learn to say no to people.Find out what you are good at and ejoy doing,and find other people in your area that are interested in the same things,And you will find great friends in no time.Don't ever do anything you don't want to do.If people need your help do it because you want to, Not because you feel you have to... Good Luck...
2006-12-10 10:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by rush 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, Welcome to the world.You just learned a hard lesson at least I hope you learned it.No body here is worth putting any faith in at all.Seek God and He will put decent people in your life but don't go looking for their approval,only GOD'S.Or you can stay on that road and get more of what your already getting.The choice is up to you.Take Care and May God Bless You.
2006-12-10 10:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to cut off the people who have been making you feel this way. They are only negative aspects in your life, what you need is a new group of people to hang out with. Try going out to a bar or comedy club and try to meet new people.
2006-12-10 10:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely*~*Layla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will be ur friend ...wher r u from
2006-12-10 10:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by SOLUTION 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋