Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

If a guy youve known for a very long time bought you 6 roses spread them all over town, (stayed up till 5 in the morning to write the clues because his computer was busted at a friends house) attached clues with them and put a rose and clue at every spot in town that we've ever hung out at, cooked your favorite food and told you to meet him at the ball park at 7:30 for a picnic and give her the last rose for her sixteenth birthday.. How would you ladies react and would you go? (will add later how it turned out)

2006-12-05 10:59:22 · 16 answers · asked by obsidian_121 1 in Singles & Dating

my so called bestfriend is such a ***** and im tired of it! she is always telling everyone stuff that i told her to keep a secret. But she likes this boy who just uses her for her money! i tried to be a good friend and tell her but to her im lying! then she thinks she can boss me around! i dont play that if you got feet, hands, etc then you can do it! she also thinks that when she is around that gold digging boy she can show off and boss me and my other gurls around. so we ended up getting in an arguement. now she called me like 7x and left messages saying will you forgive me. should i!

2006-12-05 10:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have an ex and we have a child together he got remarried and has a child wlith his new wife well he called me and said he still loves me and wants us to get back together but when i said i would he said nevermind why does he always do this to me and my child ? i need help asap

2006-12-05 10:58:58 · 12 answers · asked by bjje01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a girl she knows i like her, it seems that she likes me, but she says she isnt sure...and i dont know then if she actually likes me, or would go out with me?

2006-12-05 10:58:56 · 9 answers · asked by freedom* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:58:09 · 25 answers · asked by laladoodida 1 in Singles & Dating

My best guyfriend now has a girl friend and i am so jelous! before i had no interest in him and now i do. he even asked me if i had a problem with him going out with her and i said no but i actually do. Why do i feel this way now and what do i do?

2006-12-05 10:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by ~*♥Jessica♥*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:57:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok me and this girl have been dating for 5yrs she break up with me last mouth total shock. She calls me and wants back. we get back and we start over. it was the Greatest week ever. After she comes back from friends place for the week she breaks up with me again. After a week of not talking i met up w/her n she says she does not see me in that romantic way n wants to be alone 2 find herself. We kiss n have a long hug. I walk away. She calls me yesturday n ask for me to keep her company while she waits 4 her train to go to her friends on thursday. I said yes in the hard 2 get way. I dont know what 2 expect n i want 2 work this out w/her. So what should i expect. She called me yesturday n left a message. Now its been a day since. should i call her back and leave a message. what can i do to in this situation. We said we can be friends but we need mounth apart. Man i am so confused i want her back in a hard way and i am trying the hard to get meathod any addvice on it. Thanks

2006-12-05 10:57:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As in from your man or the things he does to get you upset?

2006-12-05 10:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When they can be just as happy non-married. Being married is a lot harder. You have to deal with little kids and hang around with them, and so on.

2006-12-05 10:57:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just criticize me just do it!! (i noe im wierd.. u agree rite?)

2006-12-05 10:56:59 · 15 answers · asked by mz.carter 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:56:59 · 19 answers · asked by miko 1 in Singles & Dating

Hate my daughters choice of men, he is much older and has been mind controling her, mentally abusing her and cheating on her and she is stupid enough to marry him anyway? He wants her for her paycheck and because she is subservient to him. I have screamed at her that she has become his doormat and she still stays with him. I just don't get it and for the life of me. I don't see going to this wedding when I would want to say YES their is a reason you shouldn't be married and probably would say it.

And no I didn't teach her that.

2006-12-05 10:56:56 · 12 answers · asked by December 1 in Weddings

Everyone is so concerned about protecting the "sanctity of marriage" How come nobody is fighting to protect marriage from Divorce? I think it is more a "protect the religious beliefs of our political party" type of thing... What do you think?

2006-12-05 10:56:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but theres a 29 year old who likes me tooo and hess a cool guy what should i i do

2006-12-05 10:56:32 · 24 answers · asked by emo chick 2 in Singles & Dating

We have three cats, a lab and a chincilla not to mention fish. We live in a double wide trailer in a trailer park. We have two children 5 yr and 3 mon. My mom lives her with us. That makes a total of five people and 5 animals. I run a daycare during the day. With five children in it. They are here from 7-5 every day m-f. I work third shift three days a week. First shift saturday. Plus go to college full time two days a week. My fiance doesn't do anything. He just got a new job doing snow plowing but it hasn't snowed yet. I pay all the bills and provide everything for the children. My mom watches our children while i work and go to school and the daycare kids too. She takes our daughter to school in the morning and picks her up too. Even though her dad has nothing to do he doesn't do it. He usually leaves making up something to do. And is gone 75 percent of the time. Doing what ever. And yesterday he brought home a puppy. He didn't ask me if I wanted one. He just brought it here ...

2006-12-05 10:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom has made me ride my bike to school everyday since school started and i'm tired of it! I need a excuses so that i won't have to ride my bike a couple days a week or, even better, the rest of the school year.

2006-12-05 10:56:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my bf but he is really into porn and after he see's the girls in porn he looks at me differently not in a good way at all mostly in disappiontment. He even suggested me getting surgery Breast implants and butt implants.I am 5 ft 6 and 110-115 pounds slim and a little curvy but i have always been slim and it hard for me to gain weight. I am only a 32A boob wise and i did go to a plastic surgeons office and was told that a 18 yrs of age to wait because i will fill in more once i am 20.What to do?

2006-12-05 10:55:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work with a woman who's husband is best friend's with my husband. We're having alot of remodeling done where we work, so we share the same area with alot of the contractors. For the last week, iv'e noticed that she and this certain contractor are constantly making eye's and grinning at one another, but they don't speak. Obviously she hasn't even realized another person and myself have noticed this. I don't believe they've ever met, until he started doing construction work there. She has a great husband and I can only hope, she appreciates him. Should I mention what iv'e noticed to her or not? As far as the body language between the contractor and her, do you think they could just be attracted to one another and I should just leave it alone, without another thought?

2006-12-05 10:55:43 · 2 answers · asked by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 in Friends

hahah well im 5"8 and im in 8th grade and all the guys in my grade are like 5"2 and i think its funny i just thought you should know..haha pretty sweet huh?



aaaaand 4 guys like me but theyre too short so whatevaa!haa

2006-12-05 10:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay. Guy likes a girl with a boyfriend. The boyfriend NEVER sees her except on rare occasions, and is blissfully unaware of how much the girl likes the other guy, or what they do. But she just can't date him, she has too much love for her boyfriend, who, again, she rarely sees.

What should happen?

2006-12-05 10:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i probably should have mentioned this. my sister knows that he cheated and so does the rest of my family. he lies a lot and even got kicked out of the army because he fell asleep on duty. he also got his license suspended but didnt tell anyone. when they were moving... he got pulled over for reckless driving and got put in jail. bail was 2000. they didnt have any money so we had to pay. he just seems like such a loser. i do want to support... but how can i when its just going to end badly. but i do think that some of you are right and should try my best to support her

2006-12-05 10:55:23 · 17 answers · asked by Kate 5 in Weddings

I want to know what other's think about men who cheat on their wives continuously and will not leave her. (Background) Met some guy who spilled the beans and said he is cheating on his wife with another women. He said he has a good marriage and a good family. They were trying to have a baby and recently found out that that she is infertile and now he is seeing the other women for eight months. Why would he do this to her? Why doesn't he leave?

2006-12-05 10:55:13 · 6 answers · asked by VON 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 10:54:09 · 2 answers · asked by mlnsha115 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 10:54:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its my ex.
I still love him..
he's just great..
we speakk..but not as much..
and I miss that soo much..
he had a girlfriend but they broke up....
hes all i think about...everything reminds me of him..i even dream about himm
im still in love with him!!
and its been almost 2 months
shouldn't i have already forgotten about him?
help??

2006-12-05 10:53:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a woman and expect that a mature man would treat me "right", but often find that men are not educated on how to behave with a woman and make a lot of "mistakes". This make me think - may be I don't know how to treat a man either. I just "cooperate" but actually I don't have any knowledge on how to evoke the best in the man. Any practical ideas?

2006-12-05 10:53:10 · 5 answers · asked by NONE 1 in Singles & Dating

well exams r coming up at myschool...eeehh im 15 kinda athletic..and my parents r putting pressure on me w. chores...igota 61 on my sci test...im a sophmore..i hav soo much frking work and soo much stuying2 do...i wanted to wrokout this afternoon but i couldnt...mmmm please help me.
and i wanted2 quit school yesterday afternoon idk i was rlly pissed about that 61....(icant quit school anyways its dumb) eehh i liek music,spotrts,niceppl......any suggestions to help me relax??????? thx

2006-12-05 10:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-05 10:52:36 · 11 answers · asked by luckystar 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate it. All of my friends who i thought i would be close with forever are now suddenly acting like they are better than me or somthing. We thought that we would always be close, but now, because of one thing or another, everyone has changed. We always get in fights and are always arguing. It's bacically lik this, I have this friend group and we hae al been friends for abou 3 years now and all of the sudden we are always yelling at eachother or snapping at eachother for no reason. It hurts so bad to know that the people who are just as close as my famiy are now starting to drift apart. I don't know if this is just a "right now, it will pass and you al will be as close as ever" thing or somthin different. Someone please give me advise...

2006-12-05 10:52:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends