but theres a 29 year old who likes me tooo and hess a cool guy what should i i do
2006-12-05 10:56:32 · 24 answers · asked by emo chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should wait until you are graduated from high school and have a degree in college before you start dating 25 and 29-year-olds. If you are still in high school, date your SCHOOL MATES!
2006-12-05 10:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong.
Look, there's nothing wrong with an 8-year age diffrerence...I'm 10 years older than my wife. But when one of the couple in that 8-year age difference is under 18 (and 15 is, I'm sorry, very very young), it's wrong. First, the supposed adult in that couple should know that as a much older person he has undue influence on a person that is not mature enough to make good decisions. Second, the older person should know that for any kind of sexual physical contact, he can go to JAIL. It doesn't have to be intercourse, you know...
I was 34 and my wife 24 when we started dating. BOTH adults. Nothing wrong with that. But until you're 18, even if you think you're "mature for your age," stay away from guys over 18. And those guys should know better, so the fact they're interested in your shows they have terrible judgement, and could literally be only interested in young girls, which is a big sign of possible trouble later on...
2006-12-05 19:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't knock you for dating someone 8 years older than you because i dated a 24 year old very briefly when i was 16 (i'm 17 now). however, from my experience i best recommend that you stay friends with men that much older than you at least until you are 18. they may start to expect things you don't want to give, or if you are willing to you shouldn't be... i know it's totally fun having an older guy pay attention to you and all of that, but more often than not it doesn't turn out well.
i tell you this because i don't want you to get hurt like i did (nothing physical) and because i want you to be focused on things that should be more important at your age. good luck and email me if you have any other questions you wanna ask if my experience will help you at all :)
happy holidays
2006-12-05 19:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think this is wrong because age doesn't really matter. However in law they will say it's abusing so I think it would be better if you wait until you're 18 years old, but it doesn't really matter just don't do anything stupid. Your situation is like you're 8 years old and the guy you're dating is 16 you understand what I mean?
2006-12-05 19:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you - that does sound too old for you. I'm 25 years old and I could not fatham going out with a 15 year old. Enjoy going out with people your own age. Enjoy your age now - the people who are older than you may wish to go further with the relationship than you really want too. I know it's hard at your age, I was there once, but belive me, you need to be around people your own age. Don't try and grow up too fast, enjoy the cruisy life you have now - trust me...you do have it easy now. Wait till your older and you have to work to support yourself. Good luck!!!!
2006-12-05 19:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by belle_rufus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say 20 is the limit for you sweetie . 29 is a wee bit old don't you think ? maybe you should start looking at kids under eighteen or at least under twenty, you don't want to get in trouble or have to do something you're not ready for.
it's good to date people around your age because then you have more in common and your relationship can grow as you experience things together.
my advice is to take a break from guys over twenty look around in age group . hmm ?
2006-12-05 18:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Niaana 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you are too young to be getting involved with either. Whats wrong with the guys your age? Guys that are that much older are going to try and use you and also want you for just one thing.
2006-12-05 18:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong. Any male that age, that dates, and I use that term very loosely, a girl that age, is not a man, but a boy who wants sex. The end. The sad thing is, you're too neive to realize it.
2006-12-05 19:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the younger of the two because 29 is too old for a fifteen year old
2006-12-05 18:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by dpe556 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you should do is stick to your "sweet dreams ' book series and leave older men for older women .. concentrate on being a kid and stop wanting to grow up too quickly
2006-12-05 18:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋