Okay. Guy likes a girl with a boyfriend. The boyfriend NEVER sees her except on rare occasions, and is blissfully unaware of how much the girl likes the other guy, or what they do. But she just can't date him, she has too much love for her boyfriend, who, again, she rarely sees.
What should happen?
2006-12-05 10:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl needs to make a decision about who she ultimately wants to be with. Right now, she isn't being fair to either guy. If she's worried about hurting them, it's better to be honest right now and hurt someone a little, than to wait and end up hurting both guys alot in the end. I was in a similar situation, and while it wasn't easy, I made a choice.
2006-12-05 10:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by ccccc12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, the girl should go with her heart. but if she truley likes this other guy and sees him much more frequently, i'd say go with him. because it could turn into much more than the boyfriend now. or she could stay with the boyfriend and stay loyal to him. but the girl should definately make up her mind soon because if the boyfriend finds out that the girl is hanging out and doing stuff with the other guy, he's not going to be happy and then that option is shot to hell, dont ya think?
2006-12-05 11:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- if you really do LOVE a person - you don't even think about anyone else (let alone be "doing things" with someone else)
it sounds like the girl is only in a relationship so that she has a boyfriend - it is NOT TRUE LOVE and that is something the girl will never find if she doesn't give herself the space to.
2006-12-05 10:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves the boyfriend so much, she would not be trying to get with you. She's just playing both of you, she probably wont have sex with you, but will let you take her places and buy her things...
2006-12-05 10:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is very unusual, isn't it? it type of sounds like the entire international is purposely attempting to love the worst a possibility human beings, like your suited pal's girlfriend. If I were him, i'd decrease backpedal slightly, because you do not opt for him to lose his suited pal. even if, he might want to proceed to seek for suggestion from including her, even perhaps attempt to get slightly in direction of her. Then, after a little while, she will come to a decision you she needs extra. purely be effective that he would not do something he might want to remorseful about contained in the destiny, like messing up a courting. wish my suggestion facilitates! reliable luck, Dani
2016-11-23 18:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by merickel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she love her boyfriend she needs to say buy to other guy for yor boyfriend find out because the other guy if he know you got a boyfriend how cruddy is he ....love ya boy or let him go...
2006-12-05 11:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by trinavanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the girl is enjoying her cake and eating it too. She's playing them both for fools especially the second guy.
2006-12-05 10:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, I have no idea keep it as simple as possible is my advice
2006-12-05 10:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋