I hate it. All of my friends who i thought i would be close with forever are now suddenly acting like they are better than me or somthing. We thought that we would always be close, but now, because of one thing or another, everyone has changed. We always get in fights and are always arguing. It's bacically lik this, I have this friend group and we hae al been friends for abou 3 years now and all of the sudden we are always yelling at eachother or snapping at eachother for no reason. It hurts so bad to know that the people who are just as close as my famiy are now starting to drift apart. I don't know if this is just a "right now, it will pass and you al will be as close as ever" thing or somthin different. Someone please give me advise...
2006-12-05 10:52:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well this happened to me,my best friend just disowned me and started hanging out with someone else...We were best friends for 8 years and growning up the 3 year age gap didnt affect us at all...But now im 18 and she is15 and we are on different paths in our lives.Sometimes I do believe everything happens for a reason,and sometimes life has a different path that it leads you too,....than the one you thought you were going to go down..I was so sad and depressed about this situation, no doubt you are sad as well.It was untill I found a possitive amongst all the negative... I have gained more friends and really truly solid friendships....me and her still talk but it is in no way the way it used to be...But I just pack up those memories and use them to better myself and be the greatest friend a friend would want...So I wish you well in your journey of friendships whether you mend this friendship or build new ones I wish you all the best...
2006-12-05 11:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm Facing the same problems right now.
me and my friends (4) ppl had always been close as heck since the first day we've met, but all the suddently things changed, one of my friend (a girl) feels different from other friend of mine (a girl as well) and make jokes about her behind her back, but when they came together they'll start making fun of me, which gets me very very confused.
The only good time we could have now is when every body comes to the same tight place, and there's the love and all the stuff...until tomorrow...
I guess people are changing all the time, its human behavior and its from our root, i guess you (and myself as well) just have to accept the fact and get along with it, try to enchant ur relationships by staying with them alone.
2006-12-05 10:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem might be you. You might not want to take that seriously; so you'll continue to run into problems. Whether it's this group of friends or others, you'll end up in similar situations. You'll realize the problem may be you when you decide to change. You may stop running into these problems when you change unconsciously.
You're probably young so you're not aware of what people to choose as friends in the beginning. That's the most important part.
Everything changes in the universe.
2006-12-05 10:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people will always change maybe you have changed.
People change because they feel they have to. LIke if someone tells them thay act like a total retard but to you there just normal if the other kid is popular then they feel they have to change to fit in wit h them,. One of my friends who i have been friends with since second grade chnnaged and she hardly ever talks to me. Now im not saying all cheerleaders are preps but since my friend became a cheerleader she is a prep even though she says shes not but i cant stnad it so i would try to find friends that act more like you not ones who would be influenced by pressure
2006-12-05 10:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by ilove_pink123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of you fighting to be heard ..trying to establish a place in the group ..it's a teenage thing up to the age of 23/24
stage you go through .. think you know it all ..
2006-12-05 10:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called hormones! I have a group of girls I've been friends with since grade school, I'm now 21, and we're all still in touch, and pretty good friends. People all go through changes in life, that's life.....deal with it.
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2016-10-14 02:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, why can't everyone just stay the same? My best friend since like forever it seems, just started changing her attitude and hanging out with other people. What's a girl to do, huh?
Just...let it be, I guess. You can't help people from changing and really, you can't help yourself. Maybe me and you are changing, too...we just don't realize it...
But God, some people. =(
2006-12-05 10:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Emirii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things change.... i guess people do, too. its part of lfe.... I GUESS... i dont know why im talking like this... but now that i think about it, its true.
2006-12-05 10:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can change the situation.
People only change if they want to!
You have the power within!!!
2006-12-05 10:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋