i have an ex and we have a child together he got remarried and has a child wlith his new wife well he called me and said he still loves me and wants us to get back together but when i said i would he said nevermind why does he always do this to me and my child ? i need help asap
2006-12-05 10:58:58 · 12 answers · asked by bjje01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He does it to keep you strung along. Like a back up.
2006-12-05 11:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on. He's taking advantage of your vulnerable situation. As long as you and he have that child together, you share a certain bond. It's up to you to make sure that your bond is healthy for your child. Be civil. Try to be friendly. But if he has married someone else he has moved on. Don't fall for that junk. It's the oldest trick in the world. I bet he wants something from you. Or he's trying to control you.
Take care of yourself and your child. Someone nice will come along for you and you won't have to deal with that other stuff anymore.
2006-12-05 11:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All it is, is therapy for him to know that you still want him. Move on with your life and dont ever let him know you want him again, even if you do and it still hurts. He will see that you have gotten over him and then he will truely want what HE cant have. (and hopefully he will never get it back). You deserve much better then him. Dont let yourself settle again like you did with him. The best revenge is doing good for yourself. He will see this and wont like it one bit. Take it from someone who has gone through the same thing. It drives my ex nuts that I am doing so good without him and that i will never take him back. Like the ole song says "You don't know what you got til its gone. Now go out there and get on with yur bad self girl!!!
2006-12-05 11:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he seems like he may want two lives. I would tell him that he is more than welcome to have something to do with his child. I would keep away from him other than that. He is probably not telling his wife he is leaving her for you either. Never take him back or even say it if you know what is good for you and your child.
2006-12-05 11:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by May_May 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say he keeps telling you these things either because there is unresolved feelings, or he's keeping you on the back burner in case his marriage doesn't work out. tell him that you only want to talk about your child when he calls, until he knows what he wants. you don't deserve to be strung along like this.
2006-12-05 11:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to play with your emotions. He wants to see if he still have some powers on you, and i think that you are letting him have it. You should probably forget about him, find somebody else that will love you and your baby, but still find a why to let him have a relationship with is child.
2006-12-05 11:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Naty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dan why would you want that abuse, as they say kick him to the curb and find someone WHO will appreciate you. All your doing is building up his ego and he needs to grow up.
2006-12-05 11:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds confused and all you can do is keep telling him no way ! I know how you feel cuz i wouldn't take my ex back cuz he is polluted now !
2006-12-05 11:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. He is married to someone else. How do you know he won't do this to you with her if you did get with him again. Move on.
2006-12-05 11:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Patty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont trust him .he is just making fun of you ...he is happy with his new family and i think you should leave him alone. you will definitly get somebody who loves you more than you ex.so start your new life and be happy.
2006-12-05 11:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by reva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋