We have three cats, a lab and a chincilla not to mention fish. We live in a double wide trailer in a trailer park. We have two children 5 yr and 3 mon. My mom lives her with us. That makes a total of five people and 5 animals. I run a daycare during the day. With five children in it. They are here from 7-5 every day m-f. I work third shift three days a week. First shift saturday. Plus go to college full time two days a week. My fiance doesn't do anything. He just got a new job doing snow plowing but it hasn't snowed yet. I pay all the bills and provide everything for the children. My mom watches our children while i work and go to school and the daycare kids too. She takes our daughter to school in the morning and picks her up too. Even though her dad has nothing to do he doesn't do it. He usually leaves making up something to do. And is gone 75 percent of the time. Doing what ever. And yesterday he brought home a puppy. He didn't ask me if I wanted one. He just brought it here ...
2006-12-05 10:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So he brings the dog here and of course my daughter is super happy and what not. I don't want the dog. We have enough to deal with. I mean he isn't going to be the one taking care of it. He doesnt scoop the poop or clean the carpet. He doesnt do anything fo rhte animals we have. He doesn't buy the food.
I mean we have kids here all day. I don't wnat any more stress to deal with.
We just had a baby, you'd think he would be interested in her and not a stupid dog.
So when one of the daycare kids mom came I asked her if she wanted it she said yes and took it home. Now last night he said he was goin to get rid of it and then after i did he is acting like a twoi year old. Keeps bring ing it up to the five year old so she will get sad and try to make me feel bad. So he is still pouting and throughing a hissy fit. He doesn't see if from my perspective. SO what i wrong...what would you have done?
2006-12-05 10:59:52 · update #1
It wasn't for me. He did this last year and i said no. He didn't ask me before he brought it here. And dont you think i have enought to do with out an puppy NOT POTTY TRAINED.
The dog was for him not fore me. He knew i didn't want one. Thats why he didn't ask.
2006-12-05 11:03:36 · update #2
No you dont need an extra mouth to feed for sure and he was inconsiderate in bringing a pup into your househole with all the other pets. You already have toooo much on your plate etc children .school. He doesnt sound like he has his head screwed on right to me. Poor mom ( your mom) but thank God you have her there to see after your children. Your fiance needs to move in my opin.There are more fish out in the sea.Sounds like he is a worthless BUM. Sweetie I wish you all the luck in the world I see that you are trying but YOU can do better than this bum of a fiance.Can you imagine if you were married? Would be worse believe you me. All the best to you and your housewhole.
2006-12-05 11:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't need all of those pets if you are living in a trailer and running a day care. Besides you are putting a lot on your mother expecting her to take care of your children and the other children while you are at work. Considering how much you are trying to do, imagine what you are putting your mother through. I hate to tell any woman to leave their man, but honey you are fighting a losing battle. I say get rid of the animals and the man.
2006-12-05 20:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Itsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MUST LOVE THIS GUY OR SOMETHING BECAUSE IF IT WAS ME AND I WAS BITCHIN LIKE YOU ABOUT DOIN EVERYTHING. I WOULD HAVE GOT RID OF HIM AND THE PUPPY NOT JUST THE PUPPY. AND A FEW OF THE OTHER ANIMALS COME ON YOU JUST HAD A BABY WHY CAN'T HE HELP OUT WITH THE KIDS AND WHY IS HE GONE 75% OF THE TIME THATS NOT RIGHT EITHER. YOU WERE DEFINITELY RIGHT TO GET RID OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 19:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by brandalynbrodie06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have talked about it with him first. Then maybe he could have understanded. But you can;t just make a decision like that without talking it over first. I know he did that but that doesn;t give you an excuse to do it too. Besides it was his dog. He should have made the decision, not you
2006-12-05 19:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by leena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you aren't going to like this answer but I need to tell you. You were right to get rid of the dog as you have enough responsibilites. You should also get rid of your lazy, uncaring and selfish fiance. You deserve so much better than this couch potato!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 19:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang you need a break! seriously! but no it came from the heart. i guess its an early christmas present. just say thanks a be thankful that he at least thought about you! but overall that HOPE YOU FINISH COLLEGE AND YOUR LIFE GETS BETTER FOR YOUâ¥
2006-12-05 19:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋