my so called bestfriend is such a ***** and im tired of it! she is always telling everyone stuff that i told her to keep a secret. But she likes this boy who just uses her for her money! i tried to be a good friend and tell her but to her im lying! then she thinks she can boss me around! i dont play that if you got feet, hands, etc then you can do it! she also thinks that when she is around that gold digging boy she can show off and boss me and my other gurls around. so we ended up getting in an arguement. now she called me like 7x and left messages saying will you forgive me. should i!
2006-12-05 10:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just so were juniors in high school! we knew each other since the 7th!
2006-12-05 11:05:11 · update #1
My answer would be NO! She'll never change, I had plenty of experience with people like that.
2006-12-05 11:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by naddel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you get older you realize that you don't have time for people like that. There is no reason someone would ever treat you like crap that is your "supposed best friend". I say don't be dramatic, just slowly distance yourself from her and find new friends you can trust and that can't stop complementing you in front of a guy instead of putting you down. Maybe she can grow up and out of the insecurities but I wouldn't be willing to take the chance. At least if she's just an aquaintance then if she does you can be friends later. Also, don't let your judgement of a nice friend in the 7th grade make you feel obligated to be friends for the rest of your life. Stand up for yourself, I'm sure you'll be much happier. Good luck!!!
2006-12-05 11:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Future Mrs. Beasley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think that you are answering ur own question if you read your question closley you will see what i mean. re read it. first of all who would want a ***** for a girlfriend. not me. one of my dearest friends, and has been for a while. She is nice. She always checks to see if me and my son are all right (my son has cerebral palsy) She is polite. She tries to include me in things and then when i arrive, she always treats me so nicely. She has never said an unkind word to me even when i grabbed her around her neck one day playing with her because her rent is so low that it is like 3 of mine (smile) but she knew i was playing anyway. i mean are you bitchy? are you bossy? the answer is no! so don't settle for that. that is Not a Friend! You Are A Friend, She Is NOT, You can do better. Peace
2006-12-05 11:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Phatbeatz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey she knows so much..and she made her bed now let her lay in it. She will find out the hard way. Let her stew for a while and YOU quit worrying about her.Stick to your guns. You need to forgive her for what? She should be the one who needs to forgiving if she is such a b. Dont worry about it. Sounds to me like she needs to grow up and take responsibility in her life. You dont have any thing to be sorry about.Good luck with friend as in she needs it too.
2006-12-05 11:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know the type, I can't tell you what to do all I can say is I rather surround myself with positive people and your friend sounds like she is always looking for short cuts in life, by the way she violated your secrets so is she really your friend?
2006-12-05 11:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is NO because first avolve she let a boy come in between yall friendship and friendship is so much more important than a boy. And for her to try to boss u n yo friends around was low down n dirty.
~She IS NOT a TRUE FRIEND !!!!!~
2006-12-05 11:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For she is making the effort to speak to you so that says she is sorry. Give her one more chance but if she keeps this up then drop her. Sometimes people don't change and you'll learn the hard way but she may really mean it. Was she genuine?
2006-12-05 11:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but tell her this is her last chance, and honestly sit down with her, look her in the eye and tell her you worry that her man is just using her for a cheap thrill and she needs to break it off before she gets hurt. if she doesnt listen tell her suit herself and say bye bye forever
2006-12-05 11:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her anymore chances. Who wants to be friends with that? Life is tough enough!
2006-12-05 11:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no do,nt do it. if she was really a good friend she would,nt do that to you at all. you gave her plenty of chances and she did,nt take them let her show off in front of someone else. i,m sure you have plenty of friends. good luck to you.
2006-12-05 11:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋