My best guyfriend now has a girl friend and i am so jelous! before i had no interest in him and now i do. he even asked me if i had a problem with him going out with her and i said no but i actually do. Why do i feel this way now and what do i do?
2006-12-05 10:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by ~*♥Jessica♥*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get another boyfriend....it will make him totally jealous!
2006-12-05 10:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by ilovebasketball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling this way, because you have been & spent time with your guyfriend, now to see another girl take his eyes off you, and his love starts growing for this other girl, it hurts. You said you didnt mind him dating this girl, because you didnt want to say no and upset your friend. You need to be honest with him. Friends are honest, no matter what. He will want to know how you are feeling. Maybe he doesnt know you have such deep feeling for him. You never want to let jealousy got unchecked,it only gets nasty and bitter, turning you miserable. Get this out in the open with your friend, and work things out. Who knows maybe he has been interested in you, yet didnt want to push, not knowing you felt the same.
2006-12-05 19:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch "My Best Friends Wedding" it is just this kind of scenario. You are his friend - she is his girl - it's tricky but keep the two separate. If you find it too confusing or is causing a rift - take a break and get some time with other friends to help you keep balance and fill in the gap. it's natural to want him to love you like he loves her you two are so close - but it just isn't that type of relationship - keep your head in the game and spend time with other people it will help and maybe you'll find a special someone too. Good Luck!
2006-12-05 19:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it took a girlfriend for you to realize you probably dont really like him. In fact, it might be that you think you like him now because you know that you cant have him. My best advice is for you to just maintain your friendship with him and to not risk things. It will pay off in the long run..
2006-12-05 19:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pong T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just jelous all of hte sudden because you want a BF. You might not exactly like him though. Its like.. say there are two kids and one ball that no one is using. Then all of hte sudden one kid picks up the ball and starts playing with it, the other kid all of hte sudden wants the ball even though they may not even really like the ball. SEE? GOOD LUK!!
2006-12-05 19:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see if it works out with the other girl. Chances are good he feels the same way about you and the other girl will never be as good as his best friend!
2006-12-05 19:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Charlene I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did u get the hearts in your name? it's cute.
you feel that way because before the girl came along , it was just you and him, but seeing them together made you realise that you actually did like him.
2006-12-05 19:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jessica I feel sorrt 4 u! Just tell him how u feel About everything I was always told "U dont now what u got till its gorn!" good luk babe xoxoxo
2006-12-05 19:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you accually do have a problem with him going out with her and tell him that you just found out your feelings for him when he got his new gf. trust me, he will understand. good luck.
2006-12-05 19:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Debbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must like him u should tell him how u feel and maybe it ont bother u soo much just tell him
2006-12-05 19:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend and wait ---- if he breaks up let him know how you feel (if you still feel that way)
2006-12-05 19:01:41 · answer #11 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋