Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

well then mum just rang me and had a go at me as I used her phone to try ring a mate late last night, this is just another thing in a sting of **** that has happened, I am leaving for Perth next week but I feel that I dont know what to do, my mind is now thinking maybe mum and dad would be better off without me at all, I know Laura wouldn't be better off as she'd kill herself just to be with me in some way but I am confused, I know she (Laura) loves me and I love her but I aint sp sure about my mum and dad anymore, I feel like they might be better off without me so I dont know if I should get on to Laura so I can go sooner or just wait it out til next week and not talk to my parents.

advice?
Mitch

2006-12-05 10:41:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my sisters getting married and her fiancé is a jerk. he messed around with my other sister while he was dating his "now" fiancé. he embarrassed her (my other sister) in front of all her friends by undoing her bathing suit top and describing in DETAIL what they did together. anyways... shes asked me to be her maid of honor. i dont want to say no because shes my sister, but by saying yes, would it be saying that i think its Ok to marry him. my other sister says i shouldnt but im not sure. either way ill be disappointing someone.she just moved away to take care of his grandmother who has Alzheimer’s and i have a feeling that shes only doing this to get away from my dad.

2006-12-05 10:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by Kate 5 in Weddings

this might sound stupid but, hes 18 and im 15 we like each other very much (friends with benifits) and he calls me his sweety but i dont know what to call him...i need a nickname for him asap!! it would really help of u told me any ideas

2006-12-05 10:40:59 · 14 answers · asked by shay 2 in Singles & Dating

i think they just say they do to be cool. in fact, i bet they think he doesn't have any talent at all, and that he's just some dorky white boy. true, right?

2006-12-05 10:40:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by me,myself and i 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfrined were giving massages back and forth to each other.

i gave him a full body massage in his car, and i rubbed his back and buttocks, paying special attention to his buttock crack.

so i slipped my hands between it, and started massaging his crack, down to his balls.

so i slipped my hands between his anal area.

I slipped my finger in it while massaging .
he didnt say anything at all, not even be surprised or say STOP, or act akward.

so i told him i got a wild idea during the massage to do that, so it would touch his prostate.

he was cool with it and wasnt hesitant and said nothing the whole time i put my fingers in him.

i read in sex-a baller that some guys like having fingers in their anus.

i dont think that my boyfrined is gay but why did he like it so much?

HOw do i do a Hand job by the way to get him to *** with my fingers in him? (hand job- not Jerk off)???

please give me some helpful links

2006-12-05 10:39:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i was about 2 ask this hotty out but 3 of my freinds asked him out and he said he doesnt like girls! HELP!!!!!!!!!!! I NEED TIPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-05 10:39:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:38:51 · 3 answers · asked by ghetto girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by krystyna s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:37:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work with this older guy and I used to fancy him but I don't anymore he always calls me baby and he says he wants to look after to me,he asks me out alot I always say no,he says really dirty things to me sometimes and hes really touchy feely.However we do argue alot.He has got a gf but he told me he cheats on her the whole time "and if she doesnt like it she can **** off"He is a typical male pig.Anyway he asked me to go out with him and his gf for a drink!What is his game?Next time he asks me to go out shall I just smack him in the mouth or something?

2006-12-05 10:37:28 · 11 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

tim has joint custody of 2 children age 6 and 8 with his ex.she hates me because i married tim(no he did not leave her for me)and her kids love me.i can't stand her because she bad mouths me to my inlaws infount of the kids but most of all she is constantly trying to keep me out of the kids lifes.example i am not to have ANY contact with the girls school,teacher,freinds.i am not allowed to take the girls to the mall,to see thier grandma or even just watch them at home.if tims not there they have to go home to her.ignoring her is not that easy as we live in the same town and almost every weekend and alot of weeknights the girls have something going on(sports,school fuction)which his ex always goes to and hangs around tim so by avoiding her i would miss out on alot of time with tim.i can't fault him for being good dad and this is the reason he will not stand up to her.he will not say anything to her as to avoid conflict for his kids.tims hates her to but puts up with her for the kids.

2006-12-05 10:37:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We've been together over 3 years and it's been pretty great. I love her, I am totally comfortable around her, she makes me laugh, she's talkative (which I love as I'm fairly quiet), we're neat and tidy, good with money and communication is really good.

But the time has come where I want to either propose or leave in fairness to us both. We're both in our late 20's.

I have 3 things that are holding me back from proposing.

1. We have a large intellectual gap. I have a large intellectual curiosity and she has none. Not sure what role that will play in future as I haven't gone to school yet and haven't really experienced any relationships that I would call intellectually stimulating to compare against.

2. We share no major hobbies or interests. She loves to travel, I don't. I love sports and games, she doesn't. etc.

3. We aren't sexually attracted to each other. We are affectionate (hugging, being sweet) but only find the other person attractive, not sexually attractive.

Thx.

2006-12-05 10:36:44 · 15 answers · asked by Steve H. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At school their is a boy and I like him way more than a cursh and when I'm with him I feel like all my problems are gone what is this feeling?

2006-12-05 10:36:28 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a Cuban-American who lives in Miami , and I live in Paris,France.

We communicate on MSN, with the webcam, and he loves me . Now I know that I don't love hime anymore.

My feelings have changed when I saw the pictures of his body naked ...
He has a nice face, but I still hadn't seen his body. When I saw his body, I felt really disgusted. Why ?

Because he is FAT...

Now I want to tell him the truth, but I'm scared...I don't want to make him cry...And I know he will cry for sure...

What can I do to solve this problem ?

Help me , please...

2006-12-05 10:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay there once was this guy...who i fell head over heals for......would have thrown everything in the wind for him....outta of the blue he has a new girlfriend......and im left in the cold......anyway i havent talked to him for a month or so now....until last night he calls me....to see how my life was going .......?? why the hell would he call me...or even care anymore.....????

2006-12-05 10:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by mebkn 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I have had an extreme amount of feelings for a friend of mine for about 6 years. I was dating his best friend for that amount of time and was scared to get out of the relationship for security issues. He was abusive to me mentally and pushed me around when he was drunk. Also, he used to drink heavily and hurt a lot of people around him.

Now, I have broke things off completely with him. He wants me back and cries to me. I will not take him back. I went down to visit the friend i talked about earlier, this weekend. We had been drinking a lot and I asked him if he wanted me to sleep in his bed or on the couch and he said he couldnt do that to his friend (my ex). His roommate told me that this kid does have feelings for me and that it is obvious there is a lot of tension between us. Should I just forget about this whole thing because he said he couldnt do that to my ex or what?!

2006-12-05 10:35:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are doing secret santa in one of my classes, and i got my CRUSH!!! (the guy I like) Anyways, Im planning on getting him a Future Shop Gift Card...but what amount should it be? And he is madly in love with pretzels, should I get him a pretzel too?

2006-12-05 10:35:12 · 13 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Friends

If he makes eye contact with you when you see him does it mean he likes you?

2006-12-05 10:35:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A large guy one year ahead of me in school, an African American athlete, grabs my butt almost everytime I pass him. He does this to ZERO other girls at school. He usually wants hugs from me too, and he always picks me up when he does and sometimes he even swats my butt or asks me to wrap my legs around him (we're in SCHOOL for God's sake!) Today when he saw me, he hugged me, as usual and lifted me high into the air (he usually just picks me up) with his arms outstretched. I'm 5'2 and 108 lbs, he's about 5'11 250 lbs, about twice my size and before he claimed that he likes picking me up so much just because I'm small, but there are plenty of hott girls at my school who are my size. Now he says it stimulates him. What exactly does he want to do with me and why does he keep picking me up?

2006-12-05 10:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Singles & Dating

these 2 boys are like best friends they both like me, i think my friends think too they both say they dont well 1 does not tell me when we ask him all he does is smile, but now they are both fighting and i dont know what its about or how to solve it! please help me

2006-12-05 10:34:38 · 3 answers · asked by bailey4mail 2 in Friends

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2006-12-05 10:34:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Silence of your emotions.

2006-12-05 10:34:25 · 8 answers · asked by bob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 10:34:07 · 16 answers · asked by latino-heat 1 in Singles & Dating

Dear Whoever's reading this,

I really need some advice. My family has been through a lot and is still going through it. I really want to do something special for my mom (52) my dad (53) my aunt (mother's sister) (59) and my younger brother (11). Two years ago, about 3 days after New Years my mother's mother died. The monday before Thanksgiving this year, my father's sister died. She lived in FL and was cremated her remains are being shiped here for burial and the service is going to be maybe a week from Christmas; the point is that the holidays are tough for my family and, after all they do they deserve something special. I know it's last minute for major plans, but please, if you have any ideas, any way to help please tell me.

2006-12-05 10:33:38 · 4 answers · asked by dragongirl_92 3 in Family

2006-12-05 10:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by Ericka G 1 in Singles & Dating

ok long story short
theres this guy and he flirts with me alot
he also smacks me on the butt sometimes
he seems to listen to what i say likehe remembers stuff i sayfrom like a month ago or 4 months
he stairs at my boobs alot too
oh did i mention im in 7th grade
oh andplease help

2006-12-05 10:32:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years, we have had this fight before, i wanted him to come out for an important night, he called the night of and asked if id be mad if he didnt come, i said that i needed and wanted him there and if he didnt come....whatever(he didnt even need to ask he knew id be really mad). so he took that as a no and didnt come out. i got home, drunk and called and yelled at him, which i feel bad about. i guess if i wanted him there i should have been more direct. anyway, now after 2 days of him ignoring me he texts me and says he needs time, and doesnt know how long. are we breaking up, my god the man does nothing for me of course id be mad, and i have already appologized a few times for how i dealt with the situation. what should i do? or is there nothing i can do when i do something wrong. oh, and he dissapoints me all the time and is forgiven, he gets help from me and i am always there for him but he cant mannage to come out with me.

2006-12-05 10:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi i am an 18 year old going to be 19 and in college shy/quiet for most part only really social around friends but i like going out and am a good girl for the most part who has a bad streak 5% to 10% of the time. My first bf was a bad boy and he broke my heart but took everything i had to give first (he was my first everything). Anyway i have tried dating good guys like the kind you meet at church and others types my parents pushed the idea and i tried but i am not attracted to them?And now i am falling hard for a bad boy again!

2006-12-05 10:32:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 10:31:59 · 32 answers · asked by weirdal182 1 in Singles & Dating