Me and my boyfrined were giving massages back and forth to each other.
i gave him a full body massage in his car, and i rubbed his back and buttocks, paying special attention to his buttock crack.
so i slipped my hands between it, and started massaging his crack, down to his balls.
so i slipped my hands between his anal area.
I slipped my finger in it while massaging .
he didnt say anything at all, not even be surprised or say STOP, or act akward.
so i told him i got a wild idea during the massage to do that, so it would touch his prostate.
he was cool with it and wasnt hesitant and said nothing the whole time i put my fingers in him.
i read in sex-a baller that some guys like having fingers in their anus.
i dont think that my boyfrined is gay but why did he like it so much?
HOw do i do a Hand job by the way to get him to *** with my fingers in him? (hand job- not Jerk off)???
please give me some helpful links
2006-12-05 10:39:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds gay to me
2006-12-05 10:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by cwb63ss 6 · 1⤊ 12⤋
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2016-07-18 16:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay Fingered
2016-10-20 06:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not mean he is gay, but if he did not flinch when you did it I would guess he is used to it. Maybe he fingerers himself? It is normal for a guy to think this feels good, it does not mean he is gay. Not all guys can *** just from having their prostate massaged. Forget the band camp movie there is no spot you can press to make him shoot. If you press the right spot hard enough some ejaculation will come out but that does not mean he came. Just becasue you pulled a bogger out of your nose does not mean you sneezed.
2006-12-05 10:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by richmicknremtp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay or homosexual means attracted to a member of the same sex ...
Many hetrosexuaal (straight) men enjoy anal play during sex.. Your boyfriend may just enjoy the feeling of anal play and having his prostate massaged... that doesn't mean he is homosexual just a bit adventurous...
As you have two hands and they can be in two places at the same time you should be able to easily figure it out...
Be sure to trim your nails and file them as the tissue in and around the anus is delicate and you don't want to cause any scratches, use lube (water based) as non waaterbased lubes can damage latex and if you move on to using a condom any residual lube can get on the condom...
You may also want to invest in some latex gloves for your play...
2006-12-05 10:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
FIRST i must say this is a great question and i also have to say that i did it to my X while he was sleeping and he didn't say anything either.. i told him that i did it and he didn't believe me. so i don't know if he really didn't know or what.. but yeah i did it..lol and i have been wanting to do my new guy to just to see what he'd do, but i said something about it the other day that i was gonna while he was sleeping and he told me, you do that and i will stick "him" in yours and i will just ram it in, no easing or nothing.. so i didn't do it. but i was rubbing that whole area and the legs and i got close to that area and he never said anything, i dont' know if he didnt think i'd do it or maybe he was waiting for me to do it.. just didn't get to kinkie at the moment so i didn't do it.. but i think guys are like women, as time goes by they want to try something new and i think thats great! lol so to your answer: no i do not think he's gay.. just experimenting! good luck and best wishes.. keep doin' what your doin'....
2006-12-05 10:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is probably not gay. The prostate is apparently like the male g-spot. Having it rubbed is extremely pleasurable for guys, especially when combined with stimulation of the penis. Just because he enjoys stimulation of the prostate does not mean he wants to start having sex with men, he's just enjoying the extra things that you can do for him : )
2006-12-05 11:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean that he is gay, if he likes it so much then keep doing it. Try this web page and see if you see anything interesting. www.talksexwithsue.com This lady has a great T.V. Show and is very knowledgeable. She probably has a phone number that you could call also. Good Luck and Have Fun!
2006-12-05 10:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-04-23 07:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im pretty sure he isnt gay...The male "G Spot" is the prostate gland. To get to that you would have to stick (something) in is butt hole. He's a guy he knew it would feel good..and if you do it right...(finger past the second knuckle) He will shoot his wad. And prolly want you to do it again and again. Happy experimenting.
2006-12-05 10:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bo Beeta 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on a guy and the situation. Did he like it or just didnt say anything about it? Maybe he just liked it but YOU doing it. I dont think he is gay, but now you never know
2006-12-05 10:43:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋