ok long story short
theres this guy and he flirts with me alot
he also smacks me on the butt sometimes
he seems to listen to what i say likehe remembers stuff i sayfrom like a month ago or 4 months
he stairs at my boobs alot too
oh did i mention im in 7th grade
oh andplease help
2006-12-05 10:32:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To begin with, let me tell you that middle school boys are at that stage where they are confused themselves. It is completely normal for you to like him. I think you having a secret crush on him is cute.
It is very sweet that he remembers information that you have shared with him before, but how does him smacking you on your rear make you feel? I know I would not like it at all because I would feel like that is disrespectful. Do you want to consider dating a boy who smacks your rear and stares at your chest? That doesn't sound like someone who is nice and is thinking about you because he's only thinking of himself.
If I could ask you to do one thing it is to not allow him to smack you anymore and to demand for him to treat you with respect. Focus on your studies, have fun with your friends and make sure this boy respects you. If you do these things, maybe he'll see what a special person you are and he will begin to respect you and like you for who you are and not for your body.
2006-12-05 10:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by C'est m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the things you describe mean he, at the very least; is attracted to you. If he's the same age as you, it's a time of changes for him also. The term raging hormones comes to mind. The staring at your breasts and smacking of your bottom are two kinds of immature ways a guy lets you know he's interested. I do have a few faint memories of that time of life and I would say the chances he's interested in you are about 80/20. It's especially a good sign that he remembers things about you. What is even more deliteful is to think about how great it will be about 40 years from now when he still recalls your smile.
2006-12-05 10:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's remembering so he can use all the information to his benefit. He stares at your boobs & smacks your butt, that's not respect! He is treating you like his personal doll!
2006-12-05 10:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey your in 7th grade do your work don't be confused about a boy live your life you have a whole life ahead of you tell him to stop touching your butt and if he wants to go out than he needs to ask you
2006-12-05 10:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by tip2sexy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg in 7th grade too with the same problem. ( just not the whole touching part) but i asked him if he liked me and he said yes and everything turned out ok in the end
2006-12-05 10:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh wow guys are already doing that at 7th grade these days? Anyways, this guy likes you. If you like him to go for it. ^_^
2006-12-05 10:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him out he totally likes you he stares at your boobs and slaps your butt he likes you alot
2006-12-05 10:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is your question? It sounds like he likes you. If you like him, ask him out.
2006-12-05 10:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
youre a slut and he wants ***
2006-12-05 10:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by scrappy06 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he wants to have*** so this is wat i have to say
EWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 10:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋