A large guy one year ahead of me in school, an African American athlete, grabs my butt almost everytime I pass him. He does this to ZERO other girls at school. He usually wants hugs from me too, and he always picks me up when he does and sometimes he even swats my butt or asks me to wrap my legs around him (we're in SCHOOL for God's sake!) Today when he saw me, he hugged me, as usual and lifted me high into the air (he usually just picks me up) with his arms outstretched. I'm 5'2 and 108 lbs, he's about 5'11 250 lbs, about twice my size and before he claimed that he likes picking me up so much just because I'm small, but there are plenty of hott girls at my school who are my size. Now he says it stimulates him. What exactly does he want to do with me and why does he keep picking me up?
2006-12-05 10:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you like him or does his behavior make you uncomfortable? It's obvious he likes you and finds you rather attractive. If his behavior is bothering you, you need to tell him to stop. If he doesn't stop, tell your principal about the situation.
2006-12-05 10:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its unfortunate that he is picking on you cause that never feels good, But my guess would be he wants exactly what he is grabbing....you butt. Younger guys have such a weird way of showing affection. Either he wants your butt (you know what I mean) or he likes the attention. Either play along or make a scene in front people so he sees exactly what he is doing and how it makes you feel. I am not going to tell you to ignore it because my guess is this guy won't. If you like it, grab his butt :P
2006-12-05 18:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by bornalib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys have a very funny way of telling your they like you more than the other girls.
I'm sure if you told him you don't like what he's doing and you don't find it appealing - but offensive - there's a good chance he'll stop.
Why don't you ask him to meet you for a coffee and tell him then.
Good luck and let him down gently - boys are very fragile inside.
2006-12-05 18:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you let him pick up on you? If it makes you uncomfortable then stop him from doing it. This could be seen as sexual harassment but it won't be handled unless you decide if it's appropriate for your relationship with him or what?
2006-12-05 18:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you... sexually!!! and don't let it get to your head that you're the only one he does that too... most likely, there's way more girls he does that to than what you can think or imagine!!!
its not only you! You're still young... you'll continue to hear those BS lines throughout high school... and you'll eventually learn
2006-12-05 18:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys just want you to react. If you are uncomfortable by it, report it to a school official. This is sexual harassment.
2006-12-05 18:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Julea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it that hard to see what does every man in the world want............duhhh sex that is all they think about stitistics are even saying they think about it every 15 seconds.......i know it is hard because you are at school but if you do not like him and what he is doing stay away and if he continues and you do not like it i would let and adult or parent know about this..........i would say he is just bad news
2006-12-05 18:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by summerfun11421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and wants to make sweet love to you
2006-12-05 18:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
harassment. report it now u dont want to let this sppedd into nonconseual sex or rape in other words
2006-12-05 18:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are letting him feel you up and until you say stop and mean it and be consistent, he will continue to grope you. its is sexual harassment
2006-12-05 18:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋