2006-12-05 10:37:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Two words, broken Jaw
2006-12-05 10:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I like the answer: forgive her or leave her. It's a white or black decision now. You can't try and patch things up when in reality it is too hard for you to forgive her. Everyone makes mistakes but some mistakes shouldn't be made. Personally I would feel like she (if I were a guy) didn't love me anymore if she was willing to risk our relationship. I'm not going to cheat on the one I love and I wouldn't tolerate the one I love cheating on me. But if you think you can use this as a growing tool and that it won't happen again then you could try and work it out. But remember, if it were to happen again think of how much you'd be hurt then. Good Luck, and hang in there.
2006-12-05 18:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Harpomyminischnauzer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take it personally, it was her choice, had nothing to with you. What you can do is understand why she choose to be with another. Your wife felt that she was not good enought for you or that she could not lives up to your expectations about her. She felt that she deserved someone of less value than you. You didn't give any important information about this situation, but you will gain alot of insight by looking at what she thinks she deserves All of us live our lives based on what we deserve. From the house we live in , to the job we have , to the people we share our lives with, including the people we deside to marry. So to help your life along a more enriching experience, find out what you think you deserve and if you decide to leave this marriage, find out what the next women thinks she deserves. You will be surprised what you think you deserve. May you have a wonderful life.
2006-12-05 19:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by bonnie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have cheated you on money, affair, etc.etc which we dont know. However, before you make any decision please think of the children, if any. Both of you have to sit and talk. What causes this to happen and find an amicable way to solve the problems. Not all problems should be solved by divorce. In fact, more problems will come after divorce before you can really settle down. My advice is talk it out and dont make a harsh decision. Divorce is not the only way out.
Good luck
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2006-12-07 20:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if ur wife cheats on u then u didnt have a very strong relationship in the first place. I would confront her and have a Nice talk. don't cheat on her to make her feel bad because ur fighting and making each other jealous wont ever stop. It would probably lead to DIVORCE!
take my advice, be calm and talk it out!
2006-12-05 19:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Meaghan D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to end it on good terms.
Understand this. Its not you its her. She is trying to live in a fantasy world where all the BS she thinks life should be like is. Take advantage of the situation and divide up the assets and cut your loses. You don't have anything to gain by being generous to her, just be fair. If fair means she has to learn to live off of her own income fine. In the end you will be better off and happier because you wont have to deal with her being depressed and mopping around the house. You deserve happy people in your life not her. She wasn't your joy. She was what stopped you from doing what you wanted to do. You have a clean shot to freedom. Take it.
2006-12-05 18:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, firstly try to understand why did she cheated on you.. most of the question asked here usually they never describe in details..
and was why they dont get a good or specific answer..
But i would like to find more abt why she plan to cheat on me? and why is she doing it, was it for the good of both of us or was it for the benefit of other things...
2006-12-06 03:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women don't just cheat just for the sake of it but because they have been pushed. although still not a good reason there is no good reason but if you still want it to work then you will have to talk about it. trust is a hard thing to rebuild so know that it will take time and a lot of it.
2006-12-05 18:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by teresa.edmonds@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce.
In some countries I hear they stone the cheating wife to death.
2006-12-05 18:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce, drink a LOT, hang out with your friends but most importantly remove your self from the situation. And always remember you are a good human being being mistreateed by another, it is not your fault.
2006-12-05 19:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her even though that was selfish.Remember forgiveness takes time.Don't do anything that will put you at her level.2 wrongs don't make a right.it makes it a lot worse.If you feel mad and you want to get back at her just step away and think alone and remember all the good things about you 2.She cheated her self out of trust.heal and let her urn that back.
2006-12-05 18:45:30 · answer #11 · answered by other shoes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋