okay there once was this guy...who i fell head over heals for......would have thrown everything in the wind for him....outta of the blue he has a new girlfriend......and im left in the cold......anyway i havent talked to him for a month or so now....until last night he calls me....to see how my life was going .......?? why the hell would he call me...or even care anymore.....????
2006-12-05 10:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by mebkn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea i told him how i felt...he said the same.....none of that i love you **** though.......that takes way more time then we had....we really were never labled bf/gf but it was put out there......idk i guess it too confusing to answer....thanks anyway
2006-12-05 11:02:42 · update #1
thank you everyone.....answers were great......
2006-12-05 11:07:11 · update #2
thank you everyone.....answers were great......
2006-12-05 11:07:38 · update #3
Hate to say it but sounds like he may be feeling a bit alone . Usually happens after awhile and may be feeling weak. Wait it out and see if in a month he still cares how you are. I think we're all guilty of calling an x when the newness wears off or the new person is gone. If ina month or two he still cares and isn't with anyone may be worth another shot.
2006-12-05 10:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by faststang71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info... were the 2 of you dating? Did he tell you that he liked you? Did you tell him how you felt? If there was tension and you never said anything... I'm not trying to be annoying, but you have to let someone know how you feel. Too often girls wait for the guy to do all the initiating. Be open and honest with him now. He's only been with her for a month. Mabey he still secretly likes you... It sounds like the 2 of you need to be more open with each other, even now. But again, I can't be sure from the info we have here.
2006-12-05 18:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good call asking for guys over 20 as i am one and have done the same thing. This guy knew you liked him maybe befre he hooked up with the other girl maybe after you stopped talking, who knows? what he is doing now by calling you is a mans need for an ego boost. we love it when girls fancy us! If he is still with his g/f he has probably called you to stay in touch and maybe casually flirt with no consequence. more likely he is either finished or finishing with his g/f and testing the water with you to see if you are still interested
either way be careful, blokes are at their worst when coming out of a relationship - they e usually angry, horny and out to show their ex what they are missing out on. If the bloke ia good guy, chat to him take your time and become friends again.beofre anything else
good luck
2006-12-05 18:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a man and hate that kind of thing some men do
i get a very bad reputation because of these men
those kind of men are the reason women hate men
anyway the relationship probably went bad and he turned to you
he probably knew about you liking him and thought you would wait for him to come back
but he was wrong you didnt wait
2006-12-05 18:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by reallycooldude225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he did a bad thing to you but he does wanna keep in touch & be friends, not just throw you out of his life completely, maybe he'll take you out in the future if things work out but you must forgive him first.
2006-12-05 18:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probaly didn't mean to break your heart into fragments by getting anouther girlfriend.
He probaly doesn't want to see you hurt. Too much.
However, he still likes you as a friend.
2006-12-05 18:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he just wants to be friends.. sorry about that and good luck
2006-12-05 18:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause hes a Chicken! Prtending to be a humon......keep ur eyes peeled!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 18:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by jack_black_sux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he called cause he is tryin to get to you and that booty
2006-12-05 18:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋