Ok me and this girl have been dating for 5yrs she break up with me last mouth total shock. She calls me and wants back. we get back and we start over. it was the Greatest week ever. After she comes back from friends place for the week she breaks up with me again. After a week of not talking i met up w/her n she says she does not see me in that romantic way n wants to be alone 2 find herself. We kiss n have a long hug. I walk away. She calls me yesturday n ask for me to keep her company while she waits 4 her train to go to her friends on thursday. I said yes in the hard 2 get way. I dont know what 2 expect n i want 2 work this out w/her. So what should i expect. She called me yesturday n left a message. Now its been a day since. should i call her back and leave a message. what can i do to in this situation. We said we can be friends but we need mounth apart. Man i am so confused i want her back in a hard way and i am trying the hard to get meathod any addvice on it. Thanks
2006-12-05 10:57:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the love of God, drop her. I can't stand it when people allow themselves to be treated this way. Move on. Find a girl who does want to be with you "in that romantic way" and for the long term.
2006-12-05 11:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dunno i am in the same boat man i really feel 4 ya call her when you are ready. I mean be hard. If she loves you she will see this is recking distroying you 2 apart. When you see her friday be friendly and kind let her remeber who you are and that you were once the man in her life. If she cares anything about you she will start to feel that feeling again. She not doing this intentionally so dont corner her. You must really luv her. I am in the same boat let her call you. Put her on the string for a while and when after a day goes by call her and say hey sorry i been out all night. What is up? She will either get crazy over the fact she is losing you or be happy 4 you. She sounds like she still has something for you and i would stop asking other pple for help go with your gut. Get her back the way u got her. With comedy and romance. Good luck kid i wish you the best. Have faith. go with what u have left.
2006-12-05 19:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by detox_denny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's playing hard to get (well, that's what some girls love to do) She just wants attention from you 24/7. you mentioned that you've been with her for 5 years, like wow congrats to you but humans sometimes get tired of things. like they're not as interesting as they first met each other. If she's loyal to you, she'll stick with you. Even if she wants to break up due to some circumstances,she should sit down and explain.Thats what she wants. Dont ever ever force a women. If you cant get back to her after several tries let it be, it's safer this way. You can still love her, as a friend (:
2006-12-05 19:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sucre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's got you whipped and you're not even getting any! Tell her that you need to find yourself and then go join a bunch of classes so that you're too busy to think of her. Delete her number, don't answer her calls or e-mails. Move on...if she does find herself and she can explain herself to you, then consider reconnecting.
2006-12-05 19:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by threelucy2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her back if you really think you need her in your life. If you think you have drifted apart too much, then end it. Words are powerful. They are opinions, thoughts, and feelings that can penetrate who a person is. They can change who we are into what we really want to be. Maybe she just wants to hear YOUR words. Isn't it nice to feel needed?
-Hitzusen
2006-12-05 19:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by hitzusen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does booty call sound familiar???
dude, she is using you....
move on to better things in life and let sleeping dogs lie...
2006-12-05 19:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirlduchess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep her as a booty call - f-c-u-k her often, then dump her azz.
2006-12-05 18:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋