Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

2006-12-03 09:51:31 · 10 answers · asked by ames 3 in Marriage & Divorce

have been married with my husband for 1 year now, but we've been living together for almost 3 years. The problem is I know he's addicted to porn!!! It really bothers me because I feel like I'm not satisfying him. I dt mind watching it either from time to time but when it becomes to watching it secretly, behind my back and more often..again and again and again..it's really annoying!!!! the thing is what they do in movies is rarely wht happens in real life but I feel like he wants it to be that way... no more love making...no more hugging..no more tenderness..everything has to be wild and violent!!! alllllll the time??!!! isn't it too much?? I can be wild too but sometimes u feel like u need to do it in a romantic way..calm..intense.. what should I do?? Am I exaggerating?? I also feel like he's betraying me :( ...isn't it weird??

2006-12-03 09:49:37 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really luv this girl we been 2gether 4yrs n last mounth she ends it. Aftr 2wks in2 it she calls me and wnts bac. We get bac n we feel get. She says all this stuff about movin w/ me n marry me. After she gets bac from here friends college, she ends the relationship w/ me again. A wk goes by n i call her, She tells me she was honest about the week she got bac with me and really misses n loved me but when she got bac frm her friends she didn't feel that way anymor. swares their not anyone ealse and she cares about me but no longer in that romantic way. N she want to be alone. she says its not my fault. I truely loved her i was going to propose in june. I did everything for her. When i left she huged and kissed me. And i made a joke being friends w/ benifits and she laughed and smiled. I walked away n i really still think she will come 2 her sences, her friend said we may have grown apart. I just think if give her time she'll miss me. thats what my friends keep telling me. can i mov on?

2006-12-03 09:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean if u meet someone over the internet and if u never have met that person in 4 eyes...can there be something??
I really need help on this one, i know that here were lots of this kind of questions but...try ur best!
Thanks!

2006-12-03 09:49:20 · 12 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you when you still have feeling for your ex and you told him that you didnt have "those" feelings anymore but you do? We look at eachother and everything else stops and alls I can see is my future with him and his eyes. Whats he thinking, is is more that we have a kid together or is it that he still loves me? Do you think that I should tell him? If you wanna know more email me so you can give me a better answer. lilb692007@yahoo.com

2006-12-03 09:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by livinlife06 1 in Singles & Dating

should i give my bus driver an xams gift?? if so, what should i give him???

2006-12-03 09:47:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really want to know!

2006-12-03 09:47:14 · 10 answers · asked by K.C. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 09:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 19 i'm a student in my second year i do film and creative writing at edge hill uni, i have long scruffy brown hair blue yes and would kindly be described as fat, i suffer from dispraxia, dislexia, dysclaclcula and short term working memory loss, my main interests are gigs, music nirvana, rancid greenday, foo fighters rhcp,morrisey , video games final fantays etc, movies, writing fan fiction poetry etc, reading comics/manga spider-man in particular, i also like wrestling and just generally hanging out usually in the day cuz i'm online most nights and i'm big on hug's cuz someone said to me hugs'll solve anything

2006-12-03 09:46:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 09:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by MaxDog 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm disabled, what the law in the UK when I have an escort for sex because my carer want to know if they could get into trouble taking me.

2006-12-03 09:45:50 · 11 answers · asked by Marty l1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 09:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by Angela Avalon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been having an affair with a married man for 3 years. I was married and have since divorced - he is still with his wife. I do love him with all heart. Last week he told me she was leaving him, but not until after the holidays. If she was leaving why wait? And if she doesn't should I end the affair? I forgot to mention that he is probably going to jail anyway.

2006-12-03 09:43:31 · 29 answers · asked by Redhead 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what is meant when a man says to me that to love him is not enough, i need to give myself fully and give my mind to get his and i need his to become one.

2006-12-03 09:41:57 · 24 answers · asked by mymanomer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Met a girl who trained me at an old job of mine. Ever since, we'd have deep convos where she'd usually call me, and confide in me about a lot for hours on end. She also would laugh at things I didn't mean to be funny, and was apologetic alot when she didn't need to be. She would also call me up during a holiday and also spent 5 hours on the phone with me the other night, apologizing saying how she had been busy because of her job.

She does have a boyfriend though, that's why I'm not pushing it. They been together for 4 years, but she'll tell me that it's not the greatest, and when she goes over there she makes it sound like its a night job rather than spending time with him. She also says to me that she's faithful.

What is it that's going on......exactly? Is there more to it than can be assumed already?

BTW, here relationship is on the outs and she's telling me she's getting rid of him soon. I asked her to my work's x-m

2006-12-03 09:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 09:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by MaxDog 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

does that mean he doesnt like me that much or just needed room for someone he wants on there. please tell me what that means. know it sounds stupid but i want to know

2006-12-03 09:40:34 · 14 answers · asked by jessicacd91 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so I see this guy I like before and after school and sometime during lunch but that doesn't really count because I don't where or who he sits with at lunch. I kinda know him from the year before last back when we were in 7th grade. 8th grade My parents made me go to a different middle school. Now we are freshmen and we go to the same high school. In 7th grade we would say Hi to each other in the hallways. That was so long ago that he probally doesn't even know I exist. The thing is I am shy when it comes to talking to people I don't know or haven't seen in a long time. I know I need to say something to him but I don't know how,seriously. All my friends came out to me first not the other way around. How can I talk to him? He is always with his friends. I'm already scared to just say Hi to him alone. It really sucks because he isn't in any of my classes so the only time I do see him is with his friends. He seemed great in 7th grade and for some reason I still like him now. Please help

2006-12-03 09:40:30 · 4 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been invited to one of these and am wondering what i am getting into. anyone with experience or know of anyone who has gone to one? (i have been invited as an 'observer' as opposed to a participant, whatever that means).

2006-12-03 09:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by mari_the_explorer 1 in Singles & Dating

this web sites that supposely calculate love ( for example: http://www.lovecalculator.com/ ) you think is true what they say ?

2006-12-03 09:39:50 · 4 answers · asked by Jolie Vu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and i can't belive even though my mom's on her own he's still doing! he has serious control freak issues! (his mom is messed up and has them too) and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is (it's our messed up sexist culture) and no1 wud support me (as i said messed up culture) so wut do i do

2006-12-03 09:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family

Been reading what these guys have to say on the net and it all sounds like people just using other people for sex. It also sounds like these guys (and woman) are just out to satisfy their egos. I don't see how these people could ever care or love someone else. I could be wrong about some of them but was wondering what people here thought about it?

2006-12-03 09:38:54 · 11 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

we were kinda going out in the summer...then ever since school year started we havent talked at all. last night we met at the bar and hooked up...then he said he'd call me back today but he hasnt. He also said "if i dont call you then you could call me." he hasnt called me today but i think it'd be weird if i call him because i dont know what to say. His dorm is right next to mine...we are so close but yet so far. SHould I make a move here or break it off?

2006-12-03 09:38:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a classic nerd (I love him for it!). He likes D&D, video games, and computers. He drives a hybrid and is a Baptist. And he loves to read books. Doesn't want me to buy him games or computer stuff b/c he works at a place where he can get his own massive discounts, and he's really picky. I bought him a 3 peice suit that got lost in the mail and is now not expected until after xmas, so saving it for Valentines, but now have no idea what to get him for xmas! Please help!

2006-12-03 09:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by Angela Avalon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and my dad still kisses me on my lips. ive told him to stop when i was 10yrs old cuz i told him i was 2 old. but he got really mad and said that it was the only way he felt tht he can show me tht he love me. But now im HS and he was a chaperone at a field trip and he came and kissed me on my lips. and now like every1 at skool say my dad a perv and they call him Micheal Jackson. It gets really mad but i dont what to do. what can i do/say so tht my dad will atleast stop doin tht in public? and how old r u when ur dad usually stops kissing u on the lips?

2006-12-03 09:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Josh B 1 in Family

I really luv this girl we been 2gether 4yrs n last mounth she ends it. Aftr 2wks in2 it she calls me and wnts bac. We get bac n we feel get. She says all this stuff about movin w/ me n marry me. After she gets bac from here friends college, she ends the relationship w/ me again. A wk goes by n i call her, She tells me she was honest about the week she got bac with me and really misses n loved me but when she got bac frm her friends she didn't feel that way anymor. swares their not anyone ealse and she cares about me but no longer in that romantic way. N she want to be alone. she says its not my fault. I truely loved her i was going to propose in june. I did everything for her. When i left she huged and kissed me. And i made a joke being friends w/ benifits and she laughed and smiled. I walked away n i really still think she will come 2 her sences, her friend said we may have grown apart. I just think if give her time she'll miss me. thats what my friends keep telling me. can i mov on?

2006-12-03 09:37:52 · 2 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23, living out on my own I pay my own bills and take care of myself and have been doing so for the last 2 years. My mother mother still continues to manipulate me. As a child her favorite things to say to me(when i didnt do what she wanted me to do) was your children will treat you how you treat me, and obey thy parents and live long on this earth. But now thas I am older I realize that i treat my mother the way she treats me, no child is born evil, i have learned my behavior from her because she is usually down right nasty to me even in public and it is belittling and embarrasing. Everytime i go around her, i come home later on that night and cry my eyes out because of the way she is towards me. nothing i say to her seems to help her understand that i cant take it anymore. I want to sever my relationship with her for good, because she is the only one who makes me feel so low. But its hard because she is the only mother i have. Should i contiue to go around her, or stay away? help

2006-12-03 09:37:33 · 11 answers · asked by JASMINE T 1 in Family