Been reading what these guys have to say on the net and it all sounds like people just using other people for sex. It also sounds like these guys (and woman) are just out to satisfy their egos. I don't see how these people could ever care or love someone else. I could be wrong about some of them but was wondering what people here thought about it?
2006-12-03 09:38:54 · 11 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think players play not so much because they don't respect themselves, but because they're insecure and not confident enough to commit to a relationship. By sexing up anyone they can, they're just trying to prove to themselves that they are good enough, that they are someone to be admired because they can get anyone they want, etc. It is just a facade behind which they can hide. I mean, in order to love someone else, you have to accept yourself for who you are, and I dont think these people are able to do that.
2006-12-03 09:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♥amorvida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The player issue is 99% bullshit. The guys who identify themselves that way know nothing about women and are basically losers who don't get sex unless they pay for it or as part of the deviant subculture where they give women drugs in return for sex.
Men who are actually good with women aren't what you think. It's much more about being honest and direct with a woman and understanding what they really want. Unfortunately, society programs men and women in our culture with completely incorrect information about people, relationships, sex, marriage and family. There are organized groups of men who are dedicated to cutting through the nonsense, learning the truth about these things and applying it to enhance our lives. In practical terms, a part of that is sleeping with as many woman and the type of women that we want to. It also means being in control of where those situations and relationships are going.
A good rule of thumb. If it sounds like engaging in ego, fake, dishonest or like it involves exploiting someone, that is a very good sign that the person is a lying loser. If it sounds like a person learning something that isn't obvious and applying that in a way that increases the scope and depth of their power to make the things they want happen, it is probably worth investigating.
2006-12-03 17:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10 if someone is a player they don't care because if they did they wouldn't have to have so many if you mean the world to them. Players only want a quick bust to whoever will give it to them!!!
2006-12-03 17:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by POOH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't respect themselves or the other person. If they respected the other person, they would be in a commited ralationship with them. Players only care about themselves.
2006-12-03 17:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They wouldn't consider themselves players if they did...
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2006-12-03 18:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of these people "do it because they can" well really anyone could, they arn't looking for long term relationships, and idon't think they have much respect for themselfs
2006-12-03 17:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "Players " says it all !! They are playin' themselves and others!!
2006-12-03 17:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
players only love when they play
2006-12-03 17:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they do not respect anything. never be a "player".
2006-12-03 17:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. JackE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not as easy as i make it look
2006-12-03 17:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by outlaw2737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋