okay this guys i really like and he says he really likes me, were not goin out...but ...he calls me babe and baby all he time and he doesnt or HASnT pressered me into anything 'yet'...but his friends are players and my friends say he is but hes so sweet and nice...idk if hes jus tryin to get in my pants or not! he asked me how far ive gone wit a guy and i asked him tha same 'only wit a gurl' and he said oral...
2006-12-03 09:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anyone could call you babe and baby. Don't fall for it, if his friends are players chances are your friends are right. Why if he's not going out with you is he interested in how far you've gone with a guy? Its not like he's asked you out - please don't be stupid enough to think you have to give him oral or sex to make him like you.
2006-12-03 09:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sweet and nice is part of a player's strategy, just so you know. The best thing you can do is to decide right now "how far" you want to go with him, since you obviously like him, and STICK TO IT. If he pressures you to go farther, or drops you if you don't want to go farther, then you've confirmed that he's a player - but you didn't get played.
Even better, see if he's willing to really just be your friend - without the promise of nookie or talking about sex or whatever, for a while, not just for one night, would he still hang out with you? That's another way of finding out if he's a player.
2006-12-03 10:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his friends are players, im guessing he is one to. i went threw the same problem once and all the guy wanted was to get into my pants and he did this to every girl! and if he is telling u stuff he did with girls, and u to young to do that **** then move on bc he probaly will pressure u to do something like that.
2006-12-03 09:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try him out. See what he's like. Just don't put that much out to him. If you do then he'll start playing you. if your not ready to do oral or anything like that, just wait awhile. Maybe you might want to do sexual interactions with him. Just not now.
2006-12-03 10:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i idea that sexual touching replaced into unlawful on the age of fifteen? you comprehend, you should basically ask him if he'd want to the contact you? yet when he comes to a call you're a sl@g, it is your human being fault... i comprehend a lady who did that, and the guy tried to emphasize her... ascertain you comprehend what you're doing. good success.
2016-10-16 11:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like to me that he likes you but not in that way if he asks u how far you have gone than he plans on pressuring u into it but if u like him, but u can only learn from ur mistakes...
2006-12-03 10:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by bobbys_baby_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be polite and friendly, you may go out with him if you would like to... see if what he just wants is your pants :P just to be sure about his plans for you...
2006-12-03 10:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't want to and should plan on not expecting anything
2006-12-03 09:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by candacemcgee420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋