Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

I have always been in love with my high school girlfriend. We haven't been together since 1989. I'm 38 and she's 34.

Everytime we've seen each other or talked/emailed over the years, either she has had a b/f or I've had a g/f and the timing has never been right where we've both been single at the same time. I just recently tracked her down again after losing touch for about 3 years and again, she said she had a b'f she'd been with and lived with for those 3 years.

She told me that if I'd contacted her 3 yrs earlier that she and I could have got back together. This is killing me. She hasn't said to me that she loves the guy, just that he's wonderful and all that. My Question is, should I ask her if she 'loves him'. Maybe she is just 'comfortable with him and used to him' but not in love. If she isn't, should I try and talk her into leaving him and giving me a chance?? Is that too selfish of me to try and break them up when she has a life with him now?

2006-12-01 04:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by Riff Addict 2 in Singles & Dating

you can't control your anger? Like something gets to you so bad that you just scream and freak out? This happens to me on a regular basis and I hate it. I end up crying about it afterwards, but in the moment I just feel like I can't control myself. I want to do something about it because I have a 4 yr old and I need to keep my cool. What's wrong with me?!

2006-12-01 04:04:56 · 6 answers · asked by little mama kat 23 3 in Family

really. . . I want to know whats going through your minds.


C'mon men. . .stand up and have something to say!

2006-12-01 04:04:22 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I have been friends for a long time now, she got married to the nicest guy, I thought, but he has the hots for me and I do not want to cause any problems with them but I have not seen my friend in over a year, she moved really far away and I did to, so we are both trying to arrange something out, but I really don't know what to do about her husband, its really getting me down, please tell me what I should do ?

2006-12-01 04:04:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok...Father's paying child support (very good amount)...Ex-Wife has good paying job, but NEVER seems to be enough...Would it be right for her to ask for help into making extra money?...The father happens to be in the field to help her...But is it his place to do so?...What do you guys think??..

2006-12-01 04:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by $&$& 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So guys the question is when you meet a girl what is the first thing you notice about her physically?

Thanks :)

2006-12-01 04:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plus, if she tells you that she doesn't feel the way she used to love me. And what would you do if you caught your wife accessing Myspace w/out you knowing? Is a sign and/ or divorce time?

2006-12-01 04:03:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I knew a bipolar woman for a year from work and I loved her with all my heart and soul. At first she acted like she needed me, really cared for me and then dropped me the next minute. She had one period of manic behaviour where she slept with random blokes, unprotected, she has 3 kids for gods sake! and divorced. Like I said I love her with all my heart and can't stand herself doing it to herself, she is 11 years older than me and if she was single I would fall for her in a second. I have told her how I feel but she brushes me off.

But I can't stand around and watch her do this all the time, I don't know if i'm jealous or just concerned but I would feel guilty if i left. Also if I left I would worry about her even more. I have spoke to her about her behaviour and she says the men have some control over her and that she just wants them for sex and doesn't care if she gets an STD. She's a 35 year old mother and its frustrating

2006-12-01 04:03:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf are just about to have our 2 month anniversary tomorrow! I want to get him somethin for christmas thats cheap but yet sweat and unforgetable! please help?!?

2006-12-01 04:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Talking about sex with the person. Emails pictures and im's.

2006-12-01 04:03:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

these two spanish girls think im racist because i say they should learn english and they need to come here legally and because i said if all spanish people left USA it wouldn't effect me or my country at all.

2006-12-01 04:02:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my b/f cheated on me and i am going to break up with him but i dont know why i still love him so much!?does anyone know why i still feel like this??

2006-12-01 04:01:55 · 23 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Plus, what would you do if you caught your wife accessing Myspace w/out you knowing? Would you divorce her?

2006-12-01 04:01:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in just three words

2006-12-01 04:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 having my own established business. I know a grl who is 24 yrs and having one son. Most importantly I love her nd she also luv me. She got married when she was 20 yrs and her husband was 38 at that time. He use to give her mental nd physical tourcher. Now she wants to get seprate but our hindu laws says if she wants divorse then kid will taken care by her father. And its next to be impossible.

According to our hindu law if the kid is 5 yrs then he will live with his father only. Can any one suggest me a good lawyer and suggest me how I can take the grl & kid from that hell?

2006-12-01 04:01:20 · 6 answers · asked by Sumit M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 04:00:51 · 10 answers · asked by meethu 2 in Friends

Theres this guy i like in my math class. he sits a seat nehind me and i can't say that we talk so much. but i really like him, but i dont know what to do?

2006-12-01 04:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by brianna k 1 in Singles & Dating

guy stuff and personal things about male development things. People have told me not to ask her these things but to ask on yahoo, but some are very personal, is there anyone out there similar to my mom that I could ask some stuff to ? My mom works at a night club and is always gone until real late at night, so if you can answer some qhestions please let me know or maybe send me a message if you dont want to put one on the answer area! ok tks

2006-12-01 03:59:43 · 12 answers · asked by paul t 1 in Singles & Dating

that you adore ...... just three 3

1 2 3

2006-12-01 03:58:27 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

and has two kids.we was together for 18 years .she is 36 and we have a 17 year old daughter that lives with her.My question is one time I talk to her she don't want anything to do with me and the next she wants to be friends. She always calls me up almost every two weeks.Is she going to the changed of life or what?

2006-12-01 03:58:23 · 6 answers · asked by thiscarwillrun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 03:57:10 · 37 answers · asked by clearriversflow 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a man who has been divorced after 5 years (his mariage with his ex did not last more than 5 months!!!!)

I am scared if he does not love me since I think a divorced person woul dnot truely love again since he was hurt!!!

what do u think?

Thanks

2006-12-01 03:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Work For A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 03:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by dwilson73 2 in Singles & Dating

I've looked through recipe cards, playing cards, greeting cards and I've come up with squat. Do you have any other cards you could recommend?

2006-12-01 03:55:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating this guy..and he used to be so so sweet to me,calling
me all the time,every day like a hundred times a day, he wrote me letters,just everything,this guy was so so sweet to me.He wanted me
to love him.Now I do. I love him,I totally really really love him.And
the way he's being to me is cold, not sweet..He stings me..
Last night we were talking on the phone, and I told him that I carry
his headphones with me where I go, because I lost mine and he gave me those..and they smell like the cologne he wears,and it reminds me of him.. He thought that was weird and crazy..
Why? I dont see nothing wrong with that.
Can someone tell me, what should I do? Why is this guy that way w/ him if I finally love him? Why is he stinging me? Why was he being cold to me last nite, why did he say its crazy to carry his
headphones around?
Should I dump this guy or what...Just what should I do? I dont know what the hell is going on w/him. Some help please.
Thank you.

2006-12-01 03:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She rang today to give news of her christmas visit, only to tell me what she has bought me for christmas. Cleaning products, i feel insulted, i have a clean house. And for my other half a phone that you can not use in the uk. Seriously she told me that the connecters are different. I was like what?

I really went all out for her present, now i feel like giving her a box of biscuits, with bite marks in.

2006-12-01 03:54:53 · 40 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Family

i love her a lot she is in the UK and i am in India. so she agreed to come to my place in feb i talk to her daily but lately she has started acting pricey. she won't come online for 1 or 2 day and them she would come online and tell me she loves me so much.i don't understand what's wrong with her cause last night i asked her for her address and she would not give it to me i told her i wanted to send her a present what should i do please help me

2006-12-01 03:54:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey peep's,
My boyfriend of a yr. is in Iraq right now and it's getting very hard for me being here alone. I just moved here in June of 2006 and he left in Oct. I'm not leaving him or anything, I just need to know how to get over this depression. I get to talk to him allot on the web and even see him on the cam. We plan to get get married when he gets back. I can't wait :-) I don't know anyone here besides my coworkers and I don't mix work with friends. You know that is a no go. Please help me with this. I need good advise about how to beat this depression.
Thanks
Jenna K
Kansas

2006-12-01 03:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

here is the story my husband doesn't has a sister so he always treats his best friend wife as asister he is doing this since they was in highschool but the problem is that last year me and my husband started dating and now we are married and she always interfere in our family in our house furniture is of her choice has he bought the house before our marrage.
but the thing is i don't want her to interfere the disaster came on thanks giving what happened that on thanks givinng my hubby asked his frien that he has any plans or not he didn't said anythig.
as my husband was really upset that he is not doing anything i made the turky and organised a dinner and i called his cousin and my sister also as they wasn't doing anything that day. anyways we had a nice dinner but these people came to know as they live nearby that we had a dinner. and now they are blaming us that we didn't invite them and are not talking to us at all and my husband is really upset as they what should i do?

2006-12-01 03:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by indian 1 in Friends

HOW DO U KNOW IF UR B/F IS CHEATING ON U
HE NEVER RETURNS MY CALLS HES ALWYAS BUSY W/ "BASKETBALL" THATS WAT HE SAYS HE HAS NEVER DONE ANYTHING TO MAKE ME NOT BE LIVE HIM BUT HIME
BUT WHEN I ASKED HIM IF HE WAS CHEATING ON ME HE BLEW UP AT ME........ WAT SHOULD I DO I NEED SOME ADVICE!
*THANKS*

2006-12-01 03:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating