My friend and I have been friends for a long time now, she got married to the nicest guy, I thought, but he has the hots for me and I do not want to cause any problems with them but I have not seen my friend in over a year, she moved really far away and I did to, so we are both trying to arrange something out, but I really don't know what to do about her husband, its really getting me down, please tell me what I should do ?
2006-12-01 04:04:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you could go to her house and visit, stay in a motel/hotel instead of her house and don't be alone with him all. If he does try anything be open and honest with your friend, because if he is trying with you he might be trying with others,
2006-12-01 04:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long term friendship is more important than a fresh marriage to an dishonest person, in my eyes.
I'd give the guy a chance to explain it to you as a mistake and maybe give him a second chance - but if there's no doubt in your mind that this wasn't a one-time deal, and you think your friend will trust you more than her husband, you should talk to your friend about it.
If she doesn't trust you more than him, she will likely get defensive or angry and your friendship will be forfeit.
2006-12-01 04:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Setien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to your friends place for the holidays, but make sure you tell him in front of her that you don't appreciate the remarks he says to you. And if he doesn't stop, then just leave. Nine times out of ten, depending on how good of a friend she is. She'll understand.
2006-12-01 04:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by mskristin1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look her husband straight in the eye, and say look, I'm not interested in you, and I never thought you were like this, but I'm not. She is my best friend and I would never do anything to hurt her, so if you don't want me to tell her what you are doing, I suggest you stop coming on to me.
2006-12-01 04:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER, it will probably make her hate you but she WILL start watching him and find out the truth. She needs to lose that jerk. I'M not saying its bad to flirt, its just bad to do it with friends of one's spouse
2006-12-01 04:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by want to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur friend knows!....maybe that couple has had u picked u out for a 3some.....tactfully bring it up after some drinks, joking of course. see how she reacts. HAVE FUN
2006-12-01 04:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by 22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you clap with one hand i think the answer is no
why are you scared just taste the life
2006-12-01 04:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by heartattack262000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say hit him back with a hammer.
tell him that you dont date idiots.
2006-12-01 04:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by yesssssssss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him -
Blow him.
It's quick, easy, and he'll forget about the rest of sex
2006-12-01 04:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by brucebhumphrey 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
well tell her..... or just go to a hotel ....
2006-12-01 04:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋